JemCheeta wrote:So when I clicked on the discussion I didn't notice how old the original comments were, and I was like "OH NOES!" and then there was the bit that said "Oh, that Christian bug has flown the coop" and I was like "Hurrays!" But then we flash forward years and it's like "OH NOES!" again. How could a stranger's spiritual experiences be such a roller coaster for me?!
Anyway, I went to a UU church for awhile, and I was surprised at just how rich the environment was. I was part of the Atheist and Humanist group there, we met after church and then another time later in the week to talk about... you know, atheist stuff. Whatever, it was a bunch of 50 year old couples and me and my girlfriend (28 now, 24 at the time).
I had just assumed that in order to have a church sort of community you needed to have a religion of some authority to hold it together. Not so!
I don't attend now, but it seemed to slate some sort of thirst that I had for ritual and a certain feeling that I hadn't had since I was a born again youth leader. It was cool. If I want that again, I know where to go, and if I want a community of like-minded people to possibly form a social foundation for a potential possible maybe theoretical future child-like object of mine, the UU church is the first place I will go.
That being said, the very nature of Unitarian Universalism means that it will be different everywhere. Some are radical left wing places, some are almost entirely Christian. It's really hit or miss.
It's funny, most people move from atheism in a passionate youth to agnosticism as they age. I started Christian, moved to agnosticism, and then have been progressing deeper and deeper into atheism. It becomes more and more comfortable and rewarding. I don't worry about whether or not I can "be sure". I can't be sure of anything at all! That doesn't stop me in believing in the weather, my eventual death, that my parents told me their real names or that reading the Gap series is an undertaking of extreme masochism. Why should it stop me from saying I'm an atheist?
I support everyone's right to make their own choices, but I don't shy away from disagreement as long as everyone knows that I really think people are cool, even when we disagree. In Java:
class LordFoul extends coolGuy {
boolean isCool = true;
boolean isAtheist;
public LordFoul(boolean atheism){
super();
isAtheist = atheism;
// I will now return to lurking
}
I had just assumed that in order to have a church sort of community you needed to have a religion of some authority to hold it together. Not so!
Of course not - and I don't know anyone who claims that a church is necessary to have a community. There is no particularly reason why a church should require religious authority if its purpose is merely to establish a community, rather than truth. I guess the question is, what do you mean by “community”.
and if I want a community of like-minded people to possibly form a social foundation
This is what it becomes - a community of like-minded people. What such a thing cannot be is a universal Church, delivering the truth to all, like-minded or not. It is a club, a clique, but it is not for everybody. It is for those who are of that mind. The Church I belong to makes the opposite claim. Its aim is truth, and we are to acquire its mind, and learn where ours is Fallen, and is for all, regardless of what varying interests people may have, and it has the distinction of having continued to consistently teach the same things, and worship the same way, for 2,000 years - something that I find to be a factor that disqualifies any claims of teaching truth when that "truth" regularly changes (which is what is going on with most forms of Western Christianity today – a great many can be demonstrated to have teachings that contradict, or seriously change what people of the same profession held even one hundred years ago – if the denomination has even existed so long – and that is a small (5%) fraction of the existence of Christianity – so if there is consistent truth, it would have to have been taught consistently for 2,000 years, and not be subject to change – or else it was wrong, or lied, and so is NOT Truth.
I don't think there's any natural progression from atheism to agnosticism, or even that most do it. It seems to me that (in the US, anyway, in contrast with Russia) a majority start with some kind of faith imparted by parents, and gradually have any belief in any truth beaten out of them by the philosophical pluralism that dominates modern schooling and the media - two forces that almost no one can escape, aside from complete unplugging of one's self from the mass society of our day - which extends far beyond any local community. So one actually starts from agnosticism in their late teens/young adulthood, wherever they progress - or regress - from that point. Those that do come to truth do so in spite of the message pushed on them by their surrounding environment. But I'm fond of pointing out that agnostic is merely the Greek, the Latin for which is "ignorant". Of course, the agnostic doesn't generally praise ignorance, but he does often hold that absolute truth is unknowable - which itself is a mystical dogma of an absolute truth. (I was an agnostic for twenty years)
Just to try to make the point, if you can’t be sure of anything, how can you even be sure that you do not need an authoritative religion to hold a community together (something that, as stated, I agree with you on)? Obviously, we CAN be sure of some things, or else we wouldn’t even be able to open our mouths and make affirmative or negative statements. We would never be able to answer a single question. If we CAN be sure of certain things, we can begin to construct a system of dogmas that form what we call our worldview – something that requires certainty and dogma about some things in order even to be able to hold. In order to disagree, you must be certain of something.
Am I cool, or what?
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