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Should women be allowed to go topless in public?

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Edge wrote:And why should it be illegal for a guy to rest his penis on anyone's shoulder, even yours? It's not as if it's actually harming you in any way... & if it offends you, well... you don't have any legal defense from being offended, yeah? Or is it different when your tactile senses are offended rather than your visual senses? If so, why?
For the same reason it's (technically) illegal for me to put my hand on a stranger's shoulder. It's (technically) assault.

But again, with the caveats in my prior post, what's so damaging about nudity? I'll grant you, people shouldn't have sex in the street, but if it's acceptable for me to be shirtless, why is it unacceptable for a woman?
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Cail wrote: For the same reason it's (technically) illegal for me to put my hand on a stranger's shoulder. It's (technically) assault.

But again, with the caveats in my prior post, what's so damaging about nudity? I'll grant you, people shouldn't have sex in the street, but if it's acceptable for me to be shirtless, why is it unacceptable for a woman?
Because it's (technically) illegal?

Hey, you said that's a valid reason! :D
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Come on now Edge, don't try to befuddle me with the new 'Tar.

What is the difference between a shirtless man and a shirtless woman except for (usually) larger breasts on the woman? Why should one be acceptable and one not?

In practice, I think very few women would exersise that right outside of their backyard, but they shouldn't be legally forbidden to doff their tops.
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Wayfriend wrote:
Avatar wrote:One remaining question, though: What did you have in mind when you said "harm"? I find this still more puzzling now you've specified it's not simply offence...
Thanks, Av.
Tch, use the Quote button - that was me :P

Thank you for the explanation. I don't disagree with you as much as I thought ;)
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Wayfriend wrote:Yes, I have been the victim of the same japes several times. It's really interesting that you try to turn this into a denigration of the character of the victim. Quoting out of context helps, though.
You've been the victim of your own vague posting Wayfriend. You're also the victim of your own overreaction at other people trying to figure out what the heck you're trying to say. You usually make decent points (even though we rarely agree), but I think your response here, and on the other threads I quoted, was completely out of line. If it'll make you happier, here's the links to the threads.
Wayfriend wrote:Absolutely not. Which I am sure you know. You're game (as ever) is to rewrite what someone said, and then attack the rewritten version
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Wayfriend wrote:But, apparently, you have arguments with people and make up what the other person is saying. Since you apparently don't need me here ...
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Wayfriend wrote:If you say that I said anything different, then, well, that's you, ain't it. If you can't make an argument against what someone says, you can argue against what you want them to say, I suppose.
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Wayfriend wrote:Heh, sometimes I'm in top form, sometimes I'm not. If I'm vague, and you care, I invite you to ask for clarification. But 'misinterpretation' is not what happened here: when I clarified my remark, you insisted that my clarification was wrong!!!
Ummm, you edited your response after I'd posted mine. Several people asked for clarification, and I've never insisted that your clarification was wrong. How about you post where I did that in response to your original, unedited post?
Wayfriend wrote:Thanks, Av. I mean that some forms of Censorship are for protection against harm. (I'm not talking about breasts.) For example, it is harmful to expose a young child to 'hard' pornography. Some people can become psychologically disturbed by some gruesome images, especially if they are 'shocked' with them. Etc. These are cases where "just turn away" is not a good answer. A better answer is "there's a proper place and a time, and it isn't 'any time' and 'any where'".

I also believe that, if we don't live in a world where there is somewhere we can walk around, be in a community, and feel unthreatened by "just look away" stuff -- not everywhere, but at least somewhere -- then the world would be too stressful, and even too dangerous, to be healthy. Things like "decency" and "politeness" always arise originally from a need to get along without getting so mad at each other that we beat each other up or fear inadvertantly getting someone else that mad. These things should not be taken for granted. You may think that the world is safe enough that being offensive is a right, but the world is that safe because we are polite and decent and innoffensive -- except when it is the right time and right place to be otherwise.
In this, if nothing else, we are in agreement.
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Um, still waiting for the explanation of offence as "harm".
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Cail wrote:(resting your pee-pee on a woman's shoulder who doesn't want it there)
I don't know what her problem was. It's not like I was urinating at the time!



I'll never understand why so many people think the naked human body is, at best, objectionable. No, I don't think every natural thing should be done/seen in public, but that doesn't mean ALL natural things are bad. My goodness, exposed human female breasts?!?! How can they be worse than a male doberman pincher walking down the street, swinging as he will? Or every cat's anus!! 8O When I was a kid, my parents apparently REALLY needed a night out of the house. Either that, or they hadn't heard the first thing about the original Godfather before they took us to see it at the drive-in. I still remember clearly how horrified I was watching James Caan savagely beat his brother-in-law. Yet, at one point, my mother covered my eyes. I asked what was happening? She said, "There's a nude woman."

What's the rhyme or reason to all this? I don't have the slightest idea, but I will not believe that the worst thing we can see is a woman's breasts.
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When I was in 1st and 2nd grades, my father was stationed at Clark AFB in the Phillipines. I had a real hard time accepting the fact that it was okay for my brother to run around without a shirt but if I took my shirt off, I got in trouble. It just wasn't fair! :lol:

Today, I would say in limited circumstances.
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I made an earlier comment about 'natural'... My point was that 'natural' isn't a very good argument. If you need to caveat your argument, you need a new argument. I'm not saying that you are ultimately wrong, but out of intellectual honesty, I'm asking you to do better than that.

Also, if I'm eating dinner, I don't want to see anyone's nipples, male or female!

Finally, remember that all our Constitution does is limit the power of our federal government (I am assuming that this conversation is limited to here in the good old USA). It doesn't give everyone the right to do whatever they want. Regardless of how we feel about it, people in the US don't have the right to smoke marijuana, have abortions, sell codeine etc etc. That doesn't say anyting about if you we should be able to do those things, we just don't have the RIGHT (believe it or not, our rights are pretty explicit). State and Local governments are meant to have lots of power. It may not be a good idea for them to exercise that power, but as long as that exercise doesn't counter any of the articles or amendments, then we are bound by those governments. The good thing about power being at a state or local level is that a regular person actually has some chance of affecting government.

Cail, you mentioned "that right outside of their backyard". What "right" are you talking about?
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Well hell! This has certainly turned into an interesting thread. ;)

Some interesting points everybody, and thank you Wayfriend, for the final clarification (the one you accidentally adressed to me), which is, I think, a good example of you being "on form". (I pretty much disagree with you, but it was still a good post. ;) )

So much has been said! It's difficult to decide what to comment on. First though, I think I see your point about "turning away" not always being enough to prevent "harm", but I'm not sure that the examples you count are "censorship".

Censorship would mean that there would be no hardcore porn, that there would be no grusome images. As it is, it's not illegal to show somebody a picture of a hacked up corpse is it? Is it illegal for anti-abortion protesters to display images of aborted foetuses? Not as far as I know.

It's a fine bloody line. In the end, as Plissken says, there are a lot of things that offend me. Things that offend my sense of what is right. But to see and know those things is how I know what kind of a person I am. I'll give you an example or two:

I'm offended by the sight of people living at or below the poverty line crowding into casino's and plugging the little money that they have into slot machines, in the desperate hope that they'll win more than they had.

I'm offended by the fact that poverty-stricken people are taking out dubious cash loans to buy huge numbers of lottery tickets, in the desperate hope that they'll win the Jackpot and be able to pay back the loan.

Hell, there's a lot of stuff that offends me. I don't get hurt by it, I might be disturbed by it, it might make me a liitle more vehement, but hurt? It doesn't hurt me.

The thing is, that I don't think that it's a "threat". I don't walk around worried that I might see something that I don't like, or disapprove of, I just walk around. 99 times out of 100, I don't see anything that (threatens/offends/upsets) me.

The world is not safe. I hope that one day it will be, but anybody who thinks that it is, is not paying much attention. The world is not safe, and maybe it's good that it's not safe. What value a world that doesn't challenge us, threaten us, surprise and amaze us? To make the world "safe" will be to sanitise it, to sterilise it, to render it stagnant.

Get out there and be offended, be challenged, and use that experience to teach yourself something about yourself.

Oconnelc -- leaving aside for the moment the value of the "natural" argument, (which perhaps is an insufficient one, although scarcely invalid), first, we're a multi-national community, so why limit it to the States? (Although obviously most people will apply the context of their own countries.

What I want to ask about your post though, is the point on abortion-- Women don't have the right to have an abortion in the US? Really?

Second, don't you think the question of whether or not we should be able to do something is far more important that whether or not we are allowed to? I certainly do. The law, for all its good points, was made up by a bunch of people to suit their own ideas, and often even to support their own particular "agenda's" It's practicality, applicability, and validity should always be questioned. We must never substitute simple obedience to the law for morality and justice.

Oh, I think that what Cail was saying was that if women had the right to go topless if they chose, then he doubted they would do so (excercise that right) other than in their back yards.

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Amplitudinous post, Avatar! :D

(Meaning I liked a lot of what you said...a lot.)

Don't know what else I could add. Um...Breasts or Bust?

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:) Thank you good sir.

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Yes Av, that's what I meant.
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oconnellc wrote:If you need to caveat your argument, you need a new argument. I'm not saying that you are ultimately wrong, but out of intellectual honesty, I'm asking you to do better than that.
Although I think it's best to examine our caveats carefully, to see if we're just being lazy, I disagree that they automatically invalidate an argument. Things are rarely black & white where humans are concerned.
oconnellc wrote:Also, if I'm eating dinner, I don't want to see anyone's nipples, male or female!
I'm rackin' my brain, but I can't come up with a single situation where I don't want to see female nipples. :mrgreen:
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Fist and Faith wrote:
oconnellc wrote:Also, if I'm eating dinner, I don't want to see anyone's nipples, male or female!
I'm rackin' my brain, but I can't come up with a single situation where I don't want to see female nipples. :mrgreen:
I'm with you Fist!

But seriously, there's not a restaurant I've been to that doesn't have the good 'ol "No shirt, no shoes, no service" sign, so I doubt this will ever become an issue.
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I'm still waiting for - Oh, to hell with it. Cail, didn't you say something earlier about "not backing things up"?
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Well, apart from the fact that I don't think WayFriend has been around yet, (I guess that's who you're talking to), he did offer a couple of examples, although personally I think they weren't very applicable.

I suppose that the argument could be made about "psychological" harm, but then, to be harmed by something like that, wouldn't the problem lie within? Dunno. Just waffling. ;)

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You think that "Well, things that are harmful and offensive are made illegal all the time" bit was and attempt to equate offence and harm?

Huh.

I thought he was smarter than that, but I guess we'll see.
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Plissken wrote:Um, still waiting for the explanation of offence as "harm".
Yup, me too.
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This is what I was talking about, if that's what you meant. (And I made my response to it in my post.)
Wayfriend wrote:I mean that some forms of Censorship are for protection against harm. (I'm not talking about breasts.) For example, it is harmful to expose a young child to 'hard' pornography. Some people can become psychologically disturbed by some gruesome images, especially if they are 'shocked' with them. Etc. These are cases where "just turn away" is not a good answer. A better answer is "there's a proper place and a time, and it isn't 'any time' and 'any where'".
And take it easy, we both know that WayFriend can explain it more clearly. Give him the chance.

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