aliantha wrote:rusmeister wrote:aliantha wrote:
According to your own definition, of course. I'm pretty sure most other bigots could make a similar case for their own unreasonable prejudices.
But we've been down this road several times.
Well, Ali, obviously you think the person who discriminates against the poisonous mushrooms is a bigot. By your logic, there must be no thing as reasonable intolerance.
I've been telling myself to do this for awhile now, since you keep using this analogy. I guess today's the day.
The difference between choosing among mushrooms and choosing among people is stark. Choose the wrong mushroom and it will kill you -- or at least make you very sick. Choosing among people almost never will.
Humans naturally notice similarities and differences between themselves and others. That's discernment.
When humans arbitrarily decide that a trait of mine is *better* than a trait of yours, and start treating people with your trait unfairly, that's discrimination.*
Discrimination is the direct result of dichotomous thinking, i.e., that just about everything can be classified as either good or bad. Lumping poison mushrooms and Protestants together as equally bad, and *priding* oneself on doing it, is a prime example of this thinking style.
*I recognize that there's another, more benign, definition for "discrimination", and that you prefer that one. But the definition I've given above is a viable definition as well, and widely understood. I'm tempted to say that the inability to accept more than one definition of a given word is another example of dichotomous thinking...
Hi Ali!
(You are one of my 'more favorite' people to disagree with... :Smile: )
I admit that analogies only go so far, and that they are not intended to be identical in every way to the thing they are compared to. So I do not intend at all to say that Protestants are equal to bad mushrooms. Most of my friends and family in the US are Protestant (and human, too, by the way :Razz: ).
The purpose of my analogy (and it was intended to be a simple one, to keep things as simple as possible) was to get across that there IS such a thing as proper objects to discriminate against and to not tolerate. That intolerance of a thing and discrimination against it CAN be a virtue and that the tolerance of it can be the vice - the evil.
If that's clear, then that is all I intend to communicate by the mushroom analogy - to break the conditioned thinking that has us all reflexively responding to those words without reflection on them - "Discrimination - BAD!!!" (Dogs snarl and bark)... "Tolerance - GOOD!!!" (Dogs pant and wag their tails) That is what I believe that modern schooling and the media have done to us all and it is absolutely how the words are used here and everywhere - unconditionally.
Once we have stripped these words of their conditioned associations, we can consider the true question - which things should and should not be tolerated - and on what basis "should" we anything.
Hope that clarifies my intent.
On your comments not related to that issue...
First of all, without common definitions, people are talking apples and oranges, and imprecise thinking and imprecise understandings of what the other people are saying must be the result. So common definitions are important. Reducing it to "dichotomous thinking" is a dangerous intellectual play that threatens genuine communication.
If you would indulge me in a little stream-of-consciousness musing:
When humans arbitrarily decide that a trait of mine is *better* than a trait of yours, and start treating people with your trait unfairly, that's discrimination.*
Key words:
arbitrarily
better
unfairly
I would agree with "arbitrarily", only suspect that we have different definitions. I think "subject to arbitration by authority that I accept". My sense (which could be wrong) is that you mean "randomly". That would be a significant gap in common understanding.
On what is better, we must first define what is good. If we disagree on that, we will naturally disagree on what is better. And then the question remains "Can a trait be better than another trait?" Is a trait of viciousness towards more helpless creatures (say, pulling the wings off flies) better than compassion for all living things? Is lust for other men than your husband, or other women than your wife, better than committed monogamy? Are blue eyes better than brown eyes?
I imagine that we agree on the first and third, the one being obviously moral and the other a mere matter of preference, and may disagree on the morality of the second. But that comes down to "What is good?"
Finally, on what is "fair", we have a similar problem. If we do not agree on what is good, we will necessarily disagree on what is fair. Is it unfair to deny recidivist drunk drivers a license? Or "gay" couples a marriage license? Or to take a seat in a bus ahead of another person? And again, the answers boil down to "What is good?"
Finally, a little etymology, if I may:
discriminate (v.) Look up discriminate at Dictionary.com
1620s, from L. discriminatus, pp. of discriminare "to divide, separate," from discrimen (gen. discriminis) "interval, distinction, difference," derived noun from discernere (see discern). The adverse (usually racial) sense is first recorded 1866, Amer.Eng. Positive sense remains in discriminating. Related: Discriminated. Also used 17c. and after as an adjective meaning "distinct."
www.etymonline.com/index.php?search=dis ... hmode=none
discern Look up discern at Dictionary.com
late 14c., from O.Fr. discerner (13c.) "distinguish (between), separate" (by sifting), and directly from L. discernere "to separate, set apart, divide, distribute; distinguish, perceive," from dis- "off, away" (see dis-) + cernere "distinguish, separate, sift" (see crisis). Related: Discerned.
www.etymonline.com/index.php?search=dis ... hmode=none
In my study of languages, and most especially English, I've come to realize the dreadful importance of etymology in explaining word evolution, and how changes in language can blur or clarify understandings; iow, enhance truth or falsehood, correct understandings and misunderstandings of a concept.
Point is, the positive sense remains.
Thanks again! :Wave:
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