Avatar wrote:Aah, thanks Menolly. If I may ask, why do you prefer not to be counted? I very much doubt that it's a sense of inferiority, so I'm particularly curious.
:::tried to reply before I left for work this AM, and was booted:::
You're right. At least, IMO, I don't see it as a sense of inferiority. But, my reasons strictly apply
to me. I even answered on the belief-o-matic that gender roles should bear no difference, and marked it as a high priority.
Anyway, for me...
As I stated earlier, I was raised within the Traditional Conservative movement of Judaism, which does not count women within a minyan. If I could find a TC shul, it's probably where I would still be most comfortable.
But, in my early 20s, as the Conservative movement started going more and more Egalitarian, I followed along with them. Since I was a voice major in school, I enjoyed being called up to the bimah (pulpit) to lead the davening (chanting/prayers).
Then, one Simchas Torah (celebration of the completion, and beginning anew, of the yearly reading of the Torah), during the joyous dancing with the Torahs around the shul (sanctuary), the Rabbi handed me one of the Torah scrolls to carry around. I eagerly accepted and started dancing.
But, midway through the circuit, I was struck with a feeling that this was
wrong, that I should not be dancing with a Torah scroll, and that was reserved for the men only.
I can't explain that, and didn't go completly against Egaliatrainism for me right away. But, as I have studied more, and learned about the specific gender roles in Jewish halacha (law), I have come to the personal conclusion that until I can take on the roles specified for my gender, I have no business taking on additional halacha, that are usually reserved for men.
Again, I have no problem with other women who are counted in a minyan, or with female Rabbis and Chazzan (cantors/prayer leaders). One of my favorite rabbis to worship with is a female rabbi who has since moved away from Gator Town. I see it as I have no idea which of the gender specific halacha they are keeping, and if they choose to take on more of the halacha, more power to them.
It's sort of like my refusal to type out
any name of G-d, regardless of if it's the proper name(s) for HaShem, English words such as L-rd, or a word that contains a name of G-d, no matter who's religion, such as Chr-stian.
Judaism does have a tradition of this, explained at
Judaism 101: The Name of G-d, but it usually only appiles to names used by Jews for HaShem. I take it one step further, and consider it a sign of respect to all religions to not type out the name of any diety, if I can help it.
I admit whenever I am writing to someone named Jesus (ouch), or Christina (again, ouch), I feel a pang internally. But, I also feel it is disrespectful to the person not to spell out their name without explaining myself first. Whereas, I'm sure when I do it with the various names of dieties, whomever I am speakng about
knows my intent, and won't take offense (I hope!).
But again, this is all my personal mishigos (craziness), and I don't really expect anyone else to understand...
Avatar wrote:
Menolly is going to be starting a thread on Chaim Potok in the Gen Lit section of the Library. (Aren't you Menolly?

) Come on in and we'll talk about it.
:wry grin:
I haven't made it over to The Library yet today. But I am assuming (yeah, yeah, I know, I know) that you replied to my question to you there in the affirmative?
