On the whole, it seems that what you are doing is appealing to the law. That's great - when the law supports what you happen to believe in. 60 years ago I imagine there would be no trouble in compiling similar sob stories from people who believe that (things like) homosexual desire is a normal thing about laws that denied them. Of course, there is an enormous difference in that beliefs religiously held are a far cry from ones merely held because a person thinks them right, or worse, merely because they desire them.Fist and Faith wrote:This blurb doesn't give enough information. Adoption is a legal institution, with legally-binding contracts and legal requirements. If it's illegal to discriminate for this reason, then it's illegal to discriminate for this reason.Adoption services: Catholic Charities in Massachusetts refused to place children with same-sex couples as required by Massachusetts law. After a legislative struggle — during which the Senate president said he could not support a bill "condoning discrimination" — Catholic Charities pulled out of the adoption business in 2006.
But maybe Catholic Charities plays a role that's not a part of the legal requirements? Simply matching couples with babies is something any number of companies might be able to do before getting to any legal issues, and they might all do the matching using whatever criteria they want. Then the matches have to go through legal procedures.
However, from this blurb, it doesn't seem to matter. According to this, Catholic Charities was not fined, ordered to place children with same-sex couples, ordered to shut down, or penalized in any other way. People were fighting the organization's stance, but it seems to say they quit the business before things were officially decided. That's their decision.
Depends. If the school is funded with tax dollars, then they are obligated to follow the laws. Privately funded schools do not.Housing: In New York City, Yeshiva University's Albert Einstein College of Medicine, a school under Orthodox Jewish auspices, banned same-sex couples from its married dormitory. New York does not recognize same-sex marriage, but in 2001, the state's highest court ruled Yeshiva violated New York City's ban on sexual orientation discrimination. Yeshiva now allows all couples in the dorm.
On a similar note, there are Catholic and Jewish highschools in my area, and I live a mile from Most Precious Blood Elementary School. They all have classes that teach their specific religions. It individuals and churches are paying for the school, and parents want to send their kids there, go for it.
Same as the above.Parochial schools: California Lutheran High School, a Protestant school in Wildomar, holds that homosexuality is a sin. After the school suspended two girls who were allegedly in a lesbian relationship, the girls' parents sued, saying the school was violating the state's civil rights act protecting gay men and lesbians from discrimination. The case is before a state judge.
Try as I may, I cannot come up with anything close to a good reason the doctor shouldn't be able to treat whoever he damned well pleases, for whatever reason. Fining him, giving him jail time, or forcing him to treat the woman would be as bad a violation of his rights as any I've ever heard.Medical services: A Christian gynecologist at North Coast Women's Care Medical Group in Vista, Calif., refused to give his patient in vitro fertilization treatment because she is in a lesbian relationship, and he claimed that doing so would violate his religious beliefs. (The doctor referred the patient to his partner, who agreed to do the treatment.) The woman sued under the state's civil rights act. The California Supreme Court heard oral arguments in May 2008, and legal experts believe that the woman's right to medical treatment will trump the doctor's religious beliefs. One justice suggested that the doctors take up a different line of business.
North Mississippi Health Services has the right to employ whoever they want. If they want their image and direction to be one where same-sex issues are welcome, then that's their business. If they want to be one where same-sex issues are welcome, but not every employee is obligated to be involved, that's also their business.Psychological services: A mental health counselor at North Mississippi Health Services refused therapy for a woman who wanted help in improving her lesbian relationship. The counselor said doing so would violate her religious beliefs. The counselor was fired. In March 2001, the United States Court of Appeals for the Fifth Circuit sided with the employer, ruling that the employee's religious beliefs could not be accommodated without causing undue hardship to the company.
Unless the NMHS is funded with tax dollars. In which case, the laws must be complied with.
In this particular case, the lesbian is stupid. Why would she want to force someone who opposes her lifestyle to work with her in this way?? Does she think the counselor is able to put her all into the case? Is she going to be truly trying? Is it possible in such a case? I doubt it, and I sure wouldn't want a counselor working with me if they didn't really want me to achieve my goals.
The clerk was in the wrong. He is paid by the government to follow the laws. If the laws say two consenting adults, regardless of their gender combination, can be joined in a civil union if they fill out the forms correctly, and whatever other requirements, the clerk does not have the right to refuse. The clerk needs to get a job that does not put him in such a position. I wouldn't get a job in a synagogue, then refuse to wear the skullcap.Civil servants: A clerk in Vermont refused to perform a civil union ceremony after the state legalized them. In 2001, in a decision that side-stepped the religious liberties issue, the Vermont Supreme Court ruled that he did not need to perform the ceremony because there were other civil servants who would. However, the court did indicate that religious beliefs do not allow employees to discriminate against same-sex couples.
Same as the first one.Adoption services: A same-sex couple in California applied to Adoption Profiles, an Internet service in Arizona that matches adoptive parents with newborns. The couple's application was denied based on the religious beliefs of the company's owners. The couple sued in federal district court in San Francisco. The two sides settled after the adoption company said it will no longer do business in California.
Another absolutely insane case. Unless there's information we don't know about, this is disgusting. Did the photographer initially agree, then, after soul-searching for days/weeks/month, decide she couldn't do it - but only a couple days before the wedding, when there was no time to find another photographer?Wedding services: A same sex couple in Albuquerque asked a photographer, Elaine Huguenin, to shoot their commitment ceremony. The photographer declined, saying her Christian beliefs prevented her from sanctioning same-sex unions. The couple sued, and the New Mexico Human Rights Commission found the photographer guilty of discrimination. It ordered her to pay the lesbian couple's legal fees ($6,600). The photographer is appealing.
Does the OGCMAofNJ own the boardwalk or not??? That should be the end of it.Wedding facilities: Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association of New Jersey, a Methodist organization, refused to rent its boardwalk pavilion to a lesbian couple for their civil union ceremony. The couple filed a complaint with the New Jersey Division on Civil Rights. The division ruled that the boardwalk property was open for public use, therefore the Methodist group could not discriminate against gay couples using it. In the interim, the state's Department of Environmental Protection revoked a portion of the association's tax benefits. The case is ongoing.
Not enough info. Does any other group get free access? Or were they asking for special treatment?Youth groups: The city of Berkeley, Calif., requested that the Sea Scouts (affiliated with the Boy Scouts) formally agree to not discriminate against gay men in exchange for free use of berths in the city's marina. The Sea Scouts sued, claiming this violated their beliefs and First Amendment right to the freedom to associate with other like-minded people. In 2006, the California Supreme Court ruled against the youth group. In San Diego, the Boy Scouts lost access to the city-owned aquatic center for the same reason. While these cases do not directly involve same-sex unions, they presage future conflicts about whether religiously oriented or parachurch organizations may prohibit, for example, gay couples from teaching at summer camp. In June 2008, the federal Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals asked the California Supreme Court to review the Boy Scouts' leases. Meanwhile, the mayor's office in Philadelphia revoked the Boy Scouts' $1-a-year lease for a city building.
And no, of course the church cannot be forced to marry same-sex couples.
But the whole point is that the tendency of law now is working against those who hold firm traditional religious beliefs, and that this will lead people to civil disobedience just as it lead the people who are martyrs in the modern mind to civil disobedience - openly or covertly, which breaks down the rule of law. If law cannot be commonly agreed on - on the basis of commonly-held beliefs, then the rule of law is an illusion - or a tyranny. That's why any society trying to make it on pluralism will fail when beliefs diverge enough. Diversity is an opposite of unity. A little, like a spice, is a good thing. Too much and it becomes intolerable.