I was shocked and hugely upset when I first read what has been addressed to me in this thread.
I wish to do what I can to set things right with everyone.
Firstly
thanks for Murrin for the apology "for being rude". Gladly accepted!
And
thanks to CovenantJr for his *efforts* to help out here.
And
thanks to the moderator who has stepped in and actioned my request!
Thank you!
Now please allow me to defend my dignity!
Murrin wrote:if you don't want a minor spoiler for Last chrons, don't read this
Murrin, that is a
MAJOR spoiler, about the ending of
The Last Dark - about the
grand finale of the entire Chronicles of Thomas Covenant (!!!!!!!!!) -
which you left uncovered and easily seen.
Murrin wrote:Insanity Falls: Quit acting like you have the authority to tell me what to do.
I have only ever made a single *polite request* to you
Insanity Falls wrote:Murrin - please allow each reader to decide for themselves whether they want to see those indiscretions, by using the blackout feature. Thank you!
which I also sent you directly as a private message to *ensure* that it reached you, and *because Creator had told me* that sending private messages was "the way to go"
Insanity Falls (in private message) wrote:Please allow every reader to choose themselves whether they see those remarks, by using the blackout feature. Thank you.
Now the title of that private message was "Black it out!", and that was intended in a cheekily friendly manner, (as we had exchanged friendly words before). I am sorry that I gave it a curt title! I wished to cause no offence!
I have had no contact with you except what I have now relayed above!
*All* I have asked you is to use a spoiler *black-out*, for the *benefit* of other *newbies* like me, and the "Quit acting like ..." implication is somewhat far-fetched!
Murrin wrote:You may be interested to know that the moderators' consensus on this issue (triggered by your earlier complaints) was that if SRD saw fit to reveal something, then posting of it is ok.
If this is true, then you and I have been told *very different things* by the moderators. The moderators have told *me* that they are *considering* this issue , and when they have decided together on a best course of action, *they will get back to me!*
Naturally, when I then encountered you (yourself a moderator!), doing the *very thing* that I had asked the moderators to make sure was done only under spoiler blackout, I was shocked and upset - and I have *actually responded* politedly and gently.
CovenantJr wrote:1) Once the moderators/admins have made their decision that is the decision, so if it's not the answer you wanted, don't whinge.
The moderators/admins have told me they are together *considering* how to deal with my issue, and have *not yet* informed me of a decision.
I have not whinged at all!
I think that impication is outrageous!
What has happened is that I originally brought up the general issue with a moderator, and then I brought up two instances of open spoiling to their attention *as they happened*. When dlbpharmd contacted me (in his role as moderator) about another matter, I also brought it the whole issue directly with dlbpharmd. That is just natural!
When a *moderator* (Murrin) went and posted the big spoiler themselves, *without blackout*, I then brought the whole thing up directly with Jay (I had not done so originally as Jay is presently avoiding the Runes forum as Jay has not yet finished the book.) In the circumstances, that was appropriate, as Jay actually acknowledged.
[EDIT: In response to this Jay posted A BIG ANNOUNCEMENT asking for blackouts to be put on these spoilers. At the time I wrote this post I did not yet know of that announcement]
(I was also not told that an announcement
had been made. I discovered it by chance!)
CovenantJr wrote:2) Joining a message board and immediately taking a demanding and abrasive stance with veteran members and mods is foolish and downright rude. Knock it off.
My messages to the moderators have been
polite,
civil, and
outright complimentary, and I have only ever pointed out needs, and made
REQUESTS , the reason for which (for the kind consideration of unsuspecting newbies, and their protection from *inadvertantly* finding out what is expected to happen at the end of the Chronicles of Thomas Covenant) I have always given!!!!
That I have "immediately taken a demanding an abrasive stance" with moderators is simply false and is an outrageous slander!! And I massively refute it!!
I was wild with a member who displayed this
spoiler in big bold letters across the screen like this, yet I think that is understandable and acceptable, as I was responding to that member's reckless inconsideration for other readers, and because this is a really big spoiler (the BIGGEST!!).
In general I have really
I have taken great care to be genial and kindly, and my first messages to a moderator were
especially civil.
The titles of many of my posts to the moderators (eg. "Kevin's Watch is in danger from Falls!") indicate that I have taken the whole thing in *good humour*.
I *resent* the slurs on my character that have been suggested at here.
I do accept that this has happened thanks to the ease of getting wires crossed on the net, especially when there are several people involved!
Let us please make up and be happy friends!
I like this forum very much. I have great respect for and gratitude to it's contributors and moderators. I am glad I found it! I wish to get on happily with everyone here, and I don't wish to piss any one off! Quite the opposite!
I WANT TO REVEL!