Xar wrote:Heh, I got her reply... she said she felt hassled by my emails because I would reply to hers the same day she would write, and because she interpreted my explanation as an accusation against her honesty, so in the end she forbid me from contacting her again... now this is really weird. Partly I feel sad because perhaps, if I had taken things a little slower, a friendship might have developed, but partly I feel annoyed because she apparently decided that I was accusing her of duplicity... I guess I'll just have to make an effort to put the whole thing out of my mind, despite my natural stubbornnessLoremaster wrote:This I agree with. Well said.Xar wrote: if someone is not even able to appreciate honesty, she's not worth worrying about it.
oh Xar...the woman is obviously a dumb*ss!! and NOW she's po'd that you DON'T wanna get in her britches!! what a turd! blow it off!! she's an immature idiot and not worth your time. i'm sorry this happened to you and on behalf of women who LIKE men for FRIENDS it is my fervent wish that you not let one bad apple (or two or three even) change the sincere and honest way you approach friendship.
and here's a hug too cause i think you behaved admirably!!

signed,
a woman who has LOTS of platonic male friends!!
