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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 2:16 am
by Menolly
*nod*
fair enough

Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 10:42 am
by rusmeister
Xar wrote:
Menolly wrote:
Cybrweez wrote:So, which is the True discussion/debate format?
heh. True format. Is there such a thing?

My own problem with what rus proposes is that even if others should have the works of Lewis and Chesterton at hand, and still disagree with rus, that the debate would digress into posts that simply consist of quotes from each of their writings, supposedly representing the posters point of view with no input from the users themselves.

As far as I'm concerned, in spite of how engrossing the quotes may be, such a discourse would be boring...

But that's my point of view, and mean no offense to rus or any other who would prefer that style of discourse. I simply would not continue to read the thread.
The point as I see it is, this forum is meant for everyone to participate and contribute - not for posters to quote their favorite authors in lieu of their own viewpoint (or in any case, not adding anything from their own philosophy and beliefs to what these authors may have to say). As an individual, everyone of us has ideas and beliefs within the boundaries set by our chosen religion (or lack thereof); I can well understand that some forum readers would find an endless back-and-forth using other people's quotes quite boring. There is also another risk, that is, some forum visitors may see such posts and automatically (rightly or wrongly) assume that the poster in question has no personal ideas of his or her own, in which case they may start ignoring the poster, the thread, or simply the ideas the poster is trying to offer.

Even and especially within the boundaries of such a forum, I think it is much more interesting to learn and debate one's own personal opinions rather than more generalized ones. Anyway, since this thread has long since strayed from its original topic, and I don't want people to attack each other (which doesn't seem that far, judging from the tones of some posts), I'm going to split this topic...
No objections to splitting the topic - I don't like that it looks like I launched a thread under the name of "debate etiquette", though.

I think there is a lot of truth in what you say about how posters and visitors perceive things.
The problem is this:
the poster in question has no personal ideas of his or her own
an underlying assumption that a person's beliefs must be uniquely personal; that they cannot be something corporate and shared, thus making no difference as to which of them exactly says a particular thing. Thus it looks to those who do hold corporate beliefs as though the people who refuse to engage with any ideas unless they are specifically rephrased in the poster's own words are evading valid argument (ie, it is not at all important WHO presents the argument; it is the naked argument itself that matters, and the evasion appears to be intellectual dishonesty or cowardice; an inability to deal with the naked argument).

There a good many posts I would like to respond to (Ali, Lord Mhoram, KS, etc), but frankly it is exhausting. Right now I see 4 active threads and on each one I am outnumbered ten to one. I can't keep up with them all, so my apologies to those of you who may think I am ignoring your latest comments.

Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 10:47 am
by stonemaybe
danlo wrote:So you're implying that we're all on the 3rd grade level? Elitism.
I think that's exactly what rus wasn't implying, wasn't it? :)

This thread confused the hell out of me until I read it twice and realised rus's first word was 'herein', not 'heroin' :lol: (*cleaning glasses*)

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 9:40 am
by rusmeister
Lord Mhoram wrote:Third grade? Seriously? I haven't exactly seen graduate seminar level analysis from you, rusmeister. I've seen some quotations, some hyperlinks, and some condescension. I'm way more sympathetic to your cause than almost anybody else in here and I'm steaming mad. I've read CS Lewis extensively (I used to moderate a forum on him), I've been ingrained with Christian theology since I was literally in the first grade (guess I've only advanced a couple years since then), and even though I no longer consider myself a Christian I do not consider myself a moral relativist. But there are certain ways to go about discussing these issues. For evidence, take a look at the way these threads have been derailed. This one, in fact. We're not talking about Christianity at this point. We're talking about your debating style, when we could be discussing the actual issue at hand (admittedly a murky one in this thread, but still). Learn to accommodate.

Now, I realize you are sympathetic to the thought of Christian apologists like Chesterton and Lewis. But as has already been brought up, neither of them was even Orthodox. That's not at all a minor issue; in fact, your adherence to Orthodoxy seems to color your entire worldview. Which makes sense, that is what religion is supposed to do and there is nothing at all wrong with that in my view. Yet when we question why the fact that your favorite thinkers, whose point of view you seem to privilege above all else, don't adhere to your own denomination, and you dismiss it as minor, well, that seems inconsistent to me at least. Furthermore, even if they were entirely in line with your own positions (which they are not contrary to your claim, as we've established), this doesn't mean quotations entails debate. It just doesn't. Lewis and Chesterton were intellectuals, interpreters, thinkers. They were not gurus or divine. Knowing what I do about CS Lewis, I think he'd be reluctant for his adherents to base their entire theological beliefs upon his writings alone (or even coupled with another thinker or two). There ought to be a pastiche of beliefs. Perhaps you do have that sort of intellectual collage in your own system, but it has not been adequately presented to us if so. Furthermore, once you've developed a diverse range of sources for your beliefs, it becomes necessary for you to articulate that diversity in your own words.

What I am trying to say is that no matter how eloquent your intellectual standard bearers are, you simply cannot display critical thinking by quoting them alone. It's impossible. Imagine if all Chesterton had done was quote the Bible and written below his block quotations, "Ah yes, this is simply how it is. For more information, read the rest of the New Testament." No one would read him. What we're asking you to do, essentially, is be an apologist for your own beliefs.
In the ongoing triage of the mass of posts to respond to...
I appreciate your courtesy and thoughtfulness in replying and your patience. I'll try to tackle the misunderstandings as best I can.

The first thing that comes to my mind is, "If the shoe fits, wear it." I made general comments about a cumulative effect, and did not target, even indirectly, any particular poster.

I know that you are one of the more sympathetic posters, and I already knew you had prior familiarity with Lewis, if not the extent.

One of the central problems is the mass of thought that needs to be dealt with to defuse the mass of incomplete or false understandings about Christianity. here, you bring a complaint about my "debate style". If someone brings up a typical complaint against Christianity, such as, "I don't understand why a loving God would send anyone to hell" or "If God were just and omnipotent, He wouldn't allow all the suffering in the world", etc., my responses would entail all sorts of stuff about free will, the nature and understanding of hell in Eastern vs Western thought. That stuff has already been discussed. Why on earth should I have to type out chapters and books for you when they already exist, and the answers are precisely the same as I would give? (And where they differ, I would clearly state those differences.)
What happens, in fact, is that the difficult path of learning by reading books is rejected, and people here deliberately limit themselves to what I have time to post - a drop in the bucket of Christian theology. So many people here believe they already know the answers, I try to offer something in line of explanation, that often includes references elsewhere - and the specific reason for referencing Lewis and Chesterton is that they are modern thinkers who know that they are addressing people who do not believe. What's the good of referring you to, say, St John Chrysostom, if the things he is talking about are head and shoulders above the modern apologists, but would not address the bases on which you do not believe?

C+L were not gurus or divine - I have said so myself, so it would be wrong to take or present that as my position. There IS a pastiche of beliefs - where we differ. But if one denies the existence of first base, you can't hardly talk about getting to third. C+L both got to third base, so the points were I differ with them can be dealt with when one gets there.

Perhaps the seeming inconsistency might not seem so inconsistent if I refer to my belief, which is that varying faiths and belief systems are closer to or farther from what we call "the fullness of the Truth". (I call it "the dartboard") Thus, my view is that ancient pagans had important truths, Judaism has more - and is closer to 'the bullseye', Christianity has even more (now your in the inner rings), Catholic yet more than Protestant, and Orthodoxy in the very center. Lewis deliberately avoided the divisions of Christianity - which you with your experience should know well - and this is both his great strength, by which many are open to hear what he has to say, when they refuse point-blank to read the Gospels, and his great weakness (this deserves a separate thread). Chesterton came even closer. His mistake was based largely on ignorance of the Orthodox Church - which is painfully apparent in his writings, with only a few sparse references based on Catholic info sources. But if you will not hear what they have to say, what good is trying to talk about those things? It seems that you are looking for inconsistency while remaining ignorant of our enormous common ground. Again, my theological views are not based on these men - what those men did was enable me to accept the beliefs that I now hold - that I did not make, but rather see to have made me. If you are ready to examine Orthodox Christianity more directly and do not have, or are willing to hold your doubts in abeyance, by all means dispense with the apologists and learn directly from the Church, and what it has to say about itself - if you ( a general, plural 'you') listen only to its enemies, you are hardly less partial than its adherents. If the ONLY defender you admit is me, that really says that you don't really want to learn why some intelligent people, in spite of everything, do believe this stuff, and even have refutations for anything you can bring against it. Like Christ said in the parable of the rich man and Lazarus,
There was a certain rich man, which was clothed in purple and fine linen, and fared sumptuously every day: and there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, which was laid at his gate, full of sores, and desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table: moreover the dogs came and licked his sores. And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham's bosom: the rich man also died, and was buried; and in hell he lifted up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom. And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame. But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented. And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence. Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house: for I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment. Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them. And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead.
(Luke 16:19-31)

I think I have said a great many things here to express that diversity in my own words, in what time I can steal or borrow to say things to people with whom I do share love of the Land (and Mordant, although not the Gap).

I am sorry that I do not have the gifts of my teachers of great wit, humility and humor ( (Lewis had the first two, Chesterton all three). Perhaps if I did, you would not perceive insult where none was intended (ie, I'm to blame for such lapses). I apologize where it was taken.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 1:25 pm
by wayfriend
rusmeister wrote:So any discussion where people are expressing their own opinions will simply degenerate into a pointless discussion going in any number of directions, until it is impossible to respond to them all.
You don't need to respond to them all. You're not responsible for setting everyone else straight. If you decide that that's a noble cause you want to shoot for, okay -- but don't complain that it's too hard, or that no one is lining up nice and conveniently so you can straighten them out.
rusmeister wrote:No real progress will be made into establishing whether something is nonsense about Christianity or not.
If that's a goal, it's your goal. I don't see how that turns into something that forum rules and etiquette need to be shaped around.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 3:00 pm
by High Lord Tolkien
rdhopeca wrote: It's ok...3rd grade is about the time most of us stop believing in Santa Claus

Spoiler
What the f#cking hell are you trying to say? You son of a b#tch!!! I'll f#cking kill you you motherf#........!!!

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 3:14 pm
by Kinslaughterer
Here is a perfect example of proper debate etiquette...notice that HLT used the spoiler system and the classier $%* when using ettiquette-questionable language. Take note Closers.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 5:04 pm
by Seven Words
*shrug* my first most basic rule of debate etiquette si simple...I NEVER say another person is wrong unless there is objective proof against their assertion. "I believe you are wrong" is NOT the same as "You are wrong". couple of examples from a debate i had going on another site...Guy in opposition to me was a fundamentalist evangelical Baptist (His own words, not mine). He said, "Jesus Christ is Lord and Savior"...I said, "Maybe. But maybe not. There's no objective proof"....he kept trying to use subjective data as objective......I never told him he was wrong..he eventually realized that I wouldn't argue the truth or falsehood of that statement. However, eh was also a Young Earth Creationist, and claimed the Earth is only around 6,000 years old.. This assertion I declared to be wrong, as there IS objective data refuting it.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 5:54 pm
by wayfriend
Kinslaughterer wrote:Here is a perfect example of proper debate etiquette...notice that HLT used the spoiler system and the classier $%* when using ettiquette-questionable language. Take note Closers.
I cannot accept any claim based on the premise that HLT is a perfect example of ettiquette.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 6:12 pm
by aliantha
High Lord Tolkien wrote:
rdhopeca wrote: It's ok...3rd grade is about the time most of us stop believing in Santa Claus

Spoiler
What the f#cking hell are you trying to say? You son of a b#tch!!! I'll f#cking kill you you motherf#........!!!
And then Kins wrote:Here is a perfect example of proper debate etiquette...notice that HLT used the spoiler system and the classier $%* when using ettiquette-questionable language. Take note Closers.
:haha: :haha: Made. My. Day.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 7:00 pm
by rusmeister
wayfriend wrote:
rusmeister wrote:So any discussion where people are expressing their own opinions will simply degenerate into a pointless discussion going in any number of directions, until it is impossible to respond to them all.
You don't need to respond to them all. You're not responsible for setting everyone else straight. If you decide that that's a noble cause you want to shoot for, okay -- but don't complain that it's too hard, or that no one is lining up nice and conveniently so you can straighten them out.
rusmeister wrote:No real progress will be made into establishing whether something is nonsense about Christianity or not.
If that's a goal, it's your goal. I don't see how that turns into something that forum rules and etiquette need to be shaped around.
Just a clarification, WF - that line was specifically referring to the thread "Nonsense about Christianity", and is relevant to the OP of that thread.

Also, when we post something in response to someone, we hope that they will respond to us in some way to show that they heard what we had to say. It's good etiquette, so I do try to respond and show that what others said has been actually read and thought about. (A lot of folk here do - something else to like about this place.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 7:08 pm
by Cybrweez
wayfriend, I've actually seen posts wondering why rus hasn't answered their questions, so I'm not sure how much its rus' crusade or other posters expectations. And, as mentioned by rus, he didn't start this thread, and wasn't quite comfortable by the title, probably to avoid posts such as yours.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 7:28 pm
by wayfriend
rusmeister wrote:Just a clarification, WF - that line was specifically referring to the thread "Nonsense about Christianity", and is relevant to the OP of that thread.
Since you quoted my whole post, I'm not sure what "that line" refers to.

Still, your claim in the base post of this thread is that, if you can't respond to "all of them", no progress in rebutting all of the "nonsense about Christianity" will be made. And you point to the cause of the problem as "everyone expressing their opinion".

Whether that's one thread or forum-wide, my opinion of it remains as I said above. It's just an opinion; feel free to disregard it.
And, as mentioned by rus, he didn't start this thread, and wasn't quite comfortable by the title, probably to avoid posts such as yours.
If I didn't catch on to that, then I may have missed something. Something which I am still not catching on to, as you're comment doesn't really say.

If we don't want to call it a matter of ettiquette, okay. I just don't see why we need forum rules that say rus needs a chance to reply to anyone who posts "nonsense about christianity". (Even if its one thread.)

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 8:46 pm
by CovenantJr
wayfriend wrote:Since you quoted my whole post, I'm not sure what "that line" refers to.
This, I assume:
rusmeister wrote:No real progress will be made into establishing whether something is nonsense about Christianity or not.
...and I take the line in question as simply a reference to a currently active topic as an example of a point.

Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 9:51 pm
by Xar
wayfriend wrote:
rusmeister wrote:Just a clarification, WF - that line was specifically referring to the thread "Nonsense about Christianity", and is relevant to the OP of that thread.
Since you quoted my whole post, I'm not sure what "that line" refers to.

Still, your claim in the base post of this thread is that, if you can't respond to "all of them", no progress in rebutting all of the "nonsense about Christianity" will be made. And you point to the cause of the problem as "everyone expressing their opinion".

Whether that's one thread or forum-wide, my opinion of it remains as I said above. It's just an opinion; feel free to disregard it.
And, as mentioned by rus, he didn't start this thread, and wasn't quite comfortable by the title, probably to avoid posts such as yours.
If I didn't catch on to that, then I may have missed something. Something which I am still not catching on to, as you're comment doesn't really say.

If we don't want to call it a matter of ettiquette, okay. I just don't see why we need forum rules that say rus needs a chance to reply to anyone who posts "nonsense about christianity". (Even if its one thread.)
Just as a clarification, I chose the name of this thread after splitting it from the "Nonsense about Christianity" thread due to derailing. Rus has nothing to do with that choice.

Posted: Tue May 12, 2009 12:25 pm
by Seven Words
wayfriend wrote:
rusmeister wrote:Just a clarification, WF - that line was specifically referring to the thread "Nonsense about Christianity", and is relevant to the OP of that thread.
Since you quoted my whole post, I'm not sure what "that line" refers to.

Still, your claim in the base post of this thread is that, if you can't respond to "all of them", no progress in rebutting all of the "nonsense about Christianity" will be made. And you point to the cause of the problem as "everyone expressing their opinion".

Whether that's one thread or forum-wide, my opinion of it remains as I said above. It's just an opinion; feel free to disregard it.
And, as mentioned by rus, he didn't start this thread, and wasn't quite comfortable by the title, probably to avoid posts such as yours.
If I didn't catch on to that, then I may have missed something. Something which I am still not catching on to, as you're comment doesn't really say.

If we don't want to call it a matter of ettiquette, okay. I just don't see why we need forum rules that say rus needs a chance to reply to anyone who posts "nonsense about christianity". (Even if its one thread.)
I might well be misunderstanding things grievously....but isn't it correct to say that rus has a chance to respond to every post about Christianity... but he has no OBLIGATION to do so.

Posted: Tue May 12, 2009 5:54 pm
by SoulBiter
I think any true 'debate' has to incorporate some support on both sides of the debate. That support could be your opinion but then you cant quote that as 'facts' because by definition an opinion doesnt necessarily equal a fact. If you are proclaiming something as a 'fact' then there should be some supporting evidence, even if its anectdotal.

Also if one side of the debate is telling another side of the debate that what they say are lies or untruths or not accuracte then they should support it. If they cant support it then their assertion should be discounted because just because you say its a lie or that your ideas are the truth, doesnt make it so.

Also quoting someone elses opinion as evidence of truth doesnt make it true either. So in the context of opinions both could be true from one perspective or the other.

All of the above is my opinion and thus shouldnt need to be supported by anything other than more of my opinions. :2c:

Posted: Tue May 12, 2009 6:00 pm
by Cybrweez
SoulBiter wrote:All of the above is my opinion and thus shouldnt need to be supported by anything other than more of my opinions. :2c:
Heh, you should make that your signature.

Posted: Tue May 12, 2009 6:04 pm
by SoulBiter
Hmmmm.. Good idea!!!!!