rusmeister wrote:Fist and Faith wrote:
rusmeister wrote:Wow! So are we opposites in the manner of Spiderman and Venom? Or Covenant and Lord Foul?

I don't think either of those is right. I'll let you know if I come up with one.

But it could be that
we will be the example given in the future! How cool is that??

"You two are like Fist and Faith and rusmeister." (They'll usually follow that with, "But, man, that rusmeister guy was just so out of Fist's league, wasn't he?"

)
"What a woman--oh, what a woman!" cried the King of Bohemia, when we had all three read this epistle. "Did I not tell you how quick and resolute she was? Would she not have made an admirable queen? Is it not a pity that she was not on my level?"
"From what I have seen of the lady she seems indeed to be on a very different level to your Majesty," said Holmes coldly.
Arthur Conan Doyle, "A Case of Identity"

Well! I never!!
rusmeister wrote:Fist and Faith wrote:rusmeister wrote:Seriously, I'd say that "understanding yourself" must mean understanding the true relation between you and the universe that you experience. So it can only be in relation to what is true - nothing else makes any sense.
Well then I'm sure glad I know what is true. I'm as sure I know the truth as you are that you know the truth. The difference between us is that I don't keep telling you you're wrong. The difference is
not the slightest bit of evidence in favor of either of us.
Well, if you are trying to understand yourself, it follows that there is some truth that you have not yet discovered. So my point is that you must be pursuing truth. Which presumes some overarching standard by which you can understand yourself/that truth/those truths. And in doing this in an environment which essentially denies such an overarching standard, you can never do it. One must first admit that mutually exclusive views cannot both/all be true, and that at least one, if not both or all the participants, must be wrong.
That's only how people with your type of worldview insist things must be. It is not necessarily how things must be. It is not necessarily how things
are.
It does
not follow that there is some truth that I have not yet discovered. It just means I am still learning about myself, and deciding how I do and will view whatever truths I have already found. How I will fit myself into this world.
I
have found the Truth. Or, to put it more accurately, I have come to see the way things are. All of us - because of the unique way all of our brains are wired, and because of the unique set of experiences we have each had with all the other uniquely wired brains in our lives - want, and require, certain things. Some are things we
do want and need; others are things we do
not want, and
cannot have. We attempt to acquire the things we want and need. We attempt to avoid the things we
don't want and
cannot accept. Our worldviews are how we reconcile the things that are actually physical facts of existence with these wants and needs.
If you want to call this Truth, that's fine. But it's no more a truth than is the fact that gravity works in such-and-such a way, or that images reflect off of mirrors. It's simply the way things are. And it is certainly not an "overarching standard" kind of thing. It is nothing to be judged. No worldview is "better" than another. They are all simply the way each individual makes sense of it all.
rusmeister wrote:Fist and Faith wrote:rusmeister wrote:I disagree on fashions. If something is popular and new, I don't need to wait until it ceases to be popular to declare it a fashion. Indeed, all new things are fashions until they cease to be new.
And how many years, how many centuries does something have to exist before you will declare it more worthy of respect than a fashion?
I'm back to the 'mountain quote'.
It is better occasionally to call some
mountains hills, and some hills mountains, than to be in that mental state
in which one thinks, because there is no fixed height for a mountain, that
there are no mountains in the world.
A new fashion might be an anthill; one that has been around for a generation might be a hill, but tradition is, generally speaking, a mountain. To people who think in terms of millenia, decades are nothing, and even a century is a short period of time. That's the framework in which I speak of tradition. Not given isolated traditions in isolated communities that provide the exceptions that y'all like pointing to as bad tradition, but that which has been commonly agreed on for a thousand years or more. We CAN say that some traditions fit this criterion, and that therefore, there IS such a thing as tradition distinct from fashion.
Yes. I agree that there is a difference between tradition and fashion. But, first, I don't agree that tradition equals right/correct/good. There are traditions that I consider to be evil. (The female genital mutilation that was discussed in the Tank, is an easy example. But those who have been practicing it for many centuries disagree.) And often enough, a tradition is not good; it is simply good enough. Societies
can exist for a long time with things happening a certain way, even if they could be better. It's no big deal women are largely subservient to their husbands. Not slavery; not beatings. But the husband mades every decision for the family. It's really not a problem, though, is it? They are fed; the children are plentiful, and fed; the crops are grown; etc. It's just traditional.
Second, I believe you will always find a way to discount any tradition that does
not agree with Chesterton, and claim it is not a tradition because ___. If you haven't already worked out all the criteria that will accomplish this, you'll do so on a case-by-case basis.
rusmeister wrote:Fist and Faith wrote:rusmeister wrote:Some ideas are indeed fashions - they are both recent and have not been supported by generations of people for centuries; for example, "gay marriage" is undeniably a fashion by that definition. It DOES accurately apply and is by no means slander. Ditto for existentialism. (Fortunately, the latter has remained a fashion of the intellectual elite - a classification that I do not always see as positive.)
Agreed on hidden truths. It's just that in the things we are talking about, the probability of truth is heavily on the side of tradition - on the collective opinion of our ancestors. You can point out exceptions, and I will point out that they are exceptions.
"The probability of truth is heavily on the side of tradition" is an unsupportable statement. There are traditions that have been going on, uninterruped, for longer than Orthodox traditions. Some for
far longer. Some aspects of the culture of Australian aboriginies have been going on for tens of thousands of years. I'm sure various Jewish traditions have been going on far longer than yours. And Hindu? If tradition means truth, does longer-running tradition indicate greater truth than relatively newer traditions? Or are these the kinds of things that are exceptions? I first thought you meant traditional things that you and I agree are not truth (I'm sure we can find some), but now I'm not sure which you mean.
I disagree. I think that my statement is supportable. I'm talking about probability, not absolute facts. If ALL OTHER factors are equal, and 999, 990,000 people throughout history more or less agree on certain concepts of morality - I'll take the idea of monogamy, for example - and 10,000 people disagree, who is more likely to be right in terms of being normal and healthy humans, and who is more likely to be wrong? In terms of probability, it is far more likely that a small minority is unhealthy than that most humans throughout history consistently got it wrong until this 'elite' came along. Once it is admitted that there is such a thing as probability, and that tradition, in the sense I am talking about of common agreement and of passing on a heritage, does unite people across time, as democracy theoretically unites them across space, then my idea has support.
As I've said before, the human race has not practiced monogamy. The closest humanity comes to monogamy is serial monogamy. How many people do you know that have had only one sex partner in their lives? Anybody reading this? Anybody either of us knows in real life? Me? (No. Even I, with my extraordinary lack of insight into women, have had more than one.) You? Where's monogamy in our species?
Genetically, humanity is the result of this polygamy. None of us is the result of generations of monogamous couples. All of us have ancestors who were the result of extra-marital affairs; second/third/fourth marriages; premarital sex; etc. How many people have half-siblings? I do. My children do. My father does. My ex-wife does. Her father does. Her half-sibling has children with more than one partner.
Monogamy is a myth. It has never been practiced by the majority of humans.
rusmeister wrote:Fist and Faith wrote:Or is it only those traditions that do not agree with Orthodox teachings that are exceptions?
I think you know by now that I admit varying degrees of truth in different faith traditions, and that a great many of them agree to a considerable extent with my own faith tradition (Orthodoxy). The ones that don't agree (present tense, referring to the early 21st century) really are exceptions, and some that now do not agree agreed as recently as 50 or 100 years ago. In short, they have abandoned tradition, and so have made themselves exceptions. They are not yet the rule; they could conceivably become the rule someday (and I think this likely) and it will be a dark time for humanity when they do, although few can imagine that now. Most hope for a Star Trekkian future where man solves his problems without God. To which the words of Alexander Solzhenitsyn ought to ring:
Alexander Solzhenitsyn wrote:If I were asked today to formulate as concisely as possible that main cause of the ruinous revolution that swallowed up some 60 million of our people, I could not put it more accurately than to repeat: 'Men had forgotten God; that is why all this has happened.
And yet, when men have
remembered God, they have had Crusades; Inquisitions; beaten their children weekly, assuming the kids
did some bad stuff that nobody knew about; held back knowledge by threatening those who would educate others with excommunication, or worse means; and on and on. How many "exceptions" to the case do you have to see before you see that they are not exceptions? Those of
all belief systems have committed atrocities, and have created glories. Not each individual of any belief system, but the groups in general.