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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2022 10:48 am
by Avatar
Need to prioritise dude. They can probably forage for themselves now... ;)

--A

Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2022 1:20 pm
by kevinswatch
Ha, they're too exhausting! Best I can say for any new parent is, hang on and enjoy the ride!

-jay

Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2022 1:40 pm
by Fist and Faith
I'll add to that. Throw away expectations. They are going to be very different from what you expected. If that's a problem, it's your problem. Let then be what they are going to be.

Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2022 6:53 pm
by MsMary
kevinswatch wrote:Congrats! I have two girls, 6 and 3 now. That's why you don't see me on here very much anymore, ha.

-jay
Your daughters are adorable.

My kids are grown up, but I have 4 great grandchildren.

Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2022 12:10 am
by Avatar
Fist and Faith wrote:I'll add to that. Throw away expectations. They are going to be very different from what you expected. If that's a problem, it's your problem. Let then be what they are going to be.
Kahlil Gibran wrote:And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, Speak to us of Children.
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.
--A

Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2022 1:39 am
by Fist and Faith
Apparently, he had children.

Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2022 3:11 am
by kevinswatch
MsMary wrote:
kevinswatch wrote:Congrats! I have two girls, 6 and 3 now. That's why you don't see me on here very much anymore, ha.

-jay
Your daughters are adorable.

My kids are grown up, but I have 4 great grandchildren.
Thanks! They know they're stinking cute. Ha.

-jay

Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2022 12:39 am
by MsMary
I have no doubt of it. :)