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Jem, one rule of life you might want consider: If a woman wants to see you naked, LET HER!

Jem, one rule of life you might want consider: If a woman wants to see you naked, LET HER!

And this is coming from someone older and wiser.....


We could always all just meet at Nudestock. You in, Duchess?

I'll give you the same answer I always give my friend:

Only if I can wear my clothes.

OK, How about "Scantily-Clad Stock?" (That title definitely loses it's ring, though....)

That I might be able to handle. What's really funny is that one of the times he was out there, he picked up a live CD that had been recorded of one of the concerts. The cover showed nude dancing people on it. One of them looked like one of our supervisors.

When asked, he admitted that is was him.

When my wife and I used to live in San Jose CA., there was a pretty well known nudist camp nearby called Lupin. My wife liked the nudist thing, so we started going for a while.

The problem is that if a nude woman got at all friendly with me (and, literally, I mean just friendly - nothing more) my wife would get incredibly jealous and it would show.

So that didn't work for me very long.

It was a cool place, though, with nudist hiking trails, weekly dances (and there was no way my wife would ever let me dance naked with another woman) and concerts. A movie theatre, restaurant and of course swimming pools, tennis courts and hot pools.

How'd your wife feel about other men being at all friendly with her? Did she try to dance with them?

(Just trying to stir up trouble! )

I went to a nudist beach once (Sandy Bay, Cape Town). It could have been charming and idyllic - family barbecues, kids and dogs playing with frisbees, glorious nature, etc... if it weren't for the creepy guys skulking around behind trees, with binoculars.

Never went back.

Fist and Faith wrote:How'd your wife feel about other men being at all friendly with her? Did she try to dance with them?

(Just trying to stir up trouble! )

Actually, I was ok with that. She does have an odd double standard in such things,

Edge wrote:It could have been charming and idyllic - family barbecues, kids and dogs playing with frisbees, glorious nature, etc... if it weren't for the creepy guys skulking around behind trees, with binoculars.

Yeah, there is always that problem, though Lupin was pretty much inaccessible unless you were a member, so it wasn't as bad as it could be.

Though it was funny how the jacuzzi would fill up so quickly with naked old men within minutes of when my wife would go in... Did turn me off a bit.

Vector wrote:Actually, I was ok with that. She does have an odd double standard in such things,

Ah, so she liked the "friendliness" and dancing for her, eh? Good for the goose, but not the gander. Tell her I said *tsk tsk*

Though it was funny how the jacuzzi would fill up so quickly with naked old men within minutes of when my wife would go in... Did turn me off a bit.

That would turn me off, too. UUGH. I've found that most male nudists tend to be in thier 60's and 70's, and like the women in their 20's and 30's. Talk about wierd.

... I wouldn't call that wierd.

I mean.... when I'm 60, I will probably be attracted to people in their 20s. I just won't act like it.

Which is a different kind of unhealthy, when you think about it.

... I wouldn't call that wierd.

Oops- let me explain that. I meant wierd for the 20 and 30 somethings they are hitting on.

Lupin sounds like it may have been the camp I went to, so many years ago. It was fun at the time -- like, when I was one of the more decorative ones there.

Dragonlily wrote:Lupin sounds like it may have been the camp I went to, so many years ago. It was fun at the time -- like, when I was one of the more decorative ones there.

Yes, it is a good place if you're into that lifestyle. My wife was the one wanting to go there at the beginning and she certainly did enjoy the attention.

We only ended up going a few times though, for reasons mentioned earlier in this thread.

What's the attraction, if you don't mind me asking? I can't imagine it's just so you can see people naked.

Sense of unconstraint, and the sheer pleasure of nothing between your skin and nature.

JemCheeta wrote:What's the attraction, if you don't mind me asking? I can't imagine it's just so you can see people naked.

From my point of view, I went because my wife wanted to do it. Also I enjoy experiencing new things. Also many of the people you meet in such places are more free spirits, which I enjoy. Also, what DragonLily says is true, it is nice to shed the constraints of society.

As an aside from that, being a male I cannot honestly say that I did not enjoy seeing some of the finer females naked *shrug* - and I feel there is a certain sexual chemistry going on between members of the club, at least for some of them. Also my wife certainly enjoyed showing her self naked to others since she is proud of her body, so there is a bit of exhibitionism going on there...

Kymbierlee wrote:

... I wouldn't call that wierd.

Oops- let me explain that. I meant wierd for the 20 and 30 somethings they are hitting on.

yes, imagine you are a 20-something guy, you take off your clothes, and you are suddenly surrounded by a bunch of horny, naked 80 year old ladies.