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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 2:58 am
by Wyldewode
thefirst wrote:Coming from a woman who can do a tune up on her own car, and am yet, not a feminist
I knew I wasn't the only one here! I was raised to believe that I could, and should do everything for myself--that I should never depend on having someone to do it for me. I was raised with the opinion that there is no such thing as woman's work or men's work. In fact, my father washes the dishes for my mother since they first met in the 70s. I grew up on a farm, chucking hay bales and carting around 50lb bags of grain. I participated in the slaughter of our livestock for food. I helped my father build a house, and many small buildings. I helped my father repair the small engines on farm equipment. And when I met people willing to teach me how to replace the head gasket on my car, or change my car's alternator, I was eager to learn. I also learned how to cook, keep a clean house, budget money, and manage a family, and to be a lady.
My parents raised me as an intelligent human being first, and a girl second, and I see no problem with that. And no, I am not a feminist either. I
like men. . . I enjoy being around them, and I don't expect a man to come along and make my life perfect. I am a woman of many interests, and I like being that way.
Moreover, I'm certain that women like me and thefirst are not among a minority of women. Okay. . . time to get off my soapbox.
Oh. . . and I have no problem with this thread. I do have a sense of humor.

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 8:50 am
by Vain
thefirst wrote:Coming from a woman who can do a tune up on her own car, and am yet, not a feminist : Laugh it off, there is far too little laughter in world these days. Everybody take a breathe and have a chuckle.
pffft !! I can cook and use a vacuum cleaner. Beat THAT shirley !!

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:34 am
by emotional leper
Never forget: My Gods created you double XXers as a plague on men.
Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 12:16 pm
by thefirst
Vain wrote:thefirst wrote:Coming from a woman who can do a tune up on her own car, and am yet, not a feminist : Laugh it off, there is far too little laughter in world these days. Everybody take a breathe and have a chuckle.
pffft !! I can cook and use a vacuum cleaner. Beat THAT shirley !!

I can rebuild my entire lawn mower and rewire anything in my house - Squiggy

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 12:20 pm
by Vain
I can iron shirts, thread a needle and sew buttons !! I scoff at your meagre abilities !!

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 12:34 pm
by Seareach
Hands up those of us who are impressed with Vain's abilities!!!
OOH! OOH! ME! ME!
.....yeah, sorry...I *am* impressed, Vain!

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 4:52 pm
by thefirst
Sorry Vain but I can top that one too. I can lay shingles, tile, put up dry wall, and do insulation.
Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 4:57 pm
by Cagliostro
Wyldewode wrote:
...and to be a lady.
:::wolfwhistle:::
I cook, have been known to crochet (which I have done once at a kegger), do laundry, regularly do dishes, better at expressing my emotions than almost all the women I have dated, and I don't like sports. Hence why I refer to myself as a girly man.
Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:01 pm
by thefirst
I don't much care for watching sports, though I do like to play them, but I've never referred to myself as a girly man.

I can however, field dress a deer, and walk in 4" heels, but I don't think I'd try it at the same time.

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:25 pm
by Wyldewode
*curtsies* Thank you, Caggie.

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 6:02 pm
by Mortice Root
thefirst wroteI can however, field dress a deer, and walk in 4" heels, but I don't think I'd try it at the same time.
thefirst, I have the uttmost confidence in your ability to accomplish the above feat.

Make sure someone's there to take pictures so we can all see 'em.

Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:24 pm
by Wyldewode
emotional leper wrote:Never forget: My Gods created you double XXers as a plague on men.
Yet, unless you decide to suddenly turn gay, your choices are to deal with this plague, or be alone.

Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 10:47 am
by Vain
thefirst wrote:Sorry Vain but I can top that one too. I can lay shingles, tile, put up dry wall, and do insulation.
Yeah well i dress in womens clothing and hang around in bars....oh wait.....
Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 12:09 pm
by iQuestor
WW wrote:
I knew I wasn't the only one here! I was raised to believe that I could, and should do everything for myself--that I should never depend on having someone to do it for me. I was raised with the opinion that there is no such thing as woman's work or men's work. In fact, my father washes the dishes for my mother since they first met in the 70s. I grew up on a farm, chucking hay bales and carting around 50lb bags of grain. I participated in the slaughter of our livestock for food. I helped my father build a house, and many small buildings. I helped my father repair the small engines on farm equipment. And when I met people willing to teach me how to replace the head gasket on my car, or change my car's alternator, I was eager to learn. I also learned how to cook, keep a clean house, budget money, and manage a family, and to be a lady.
why does this remind me of Sarah Conner!

Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 1:17 pm
by rbwright
I have to admit, I think the jokes are funny!
I too am a confident woman that can and has replaced a transmission in a car. My dad would not let me get my drivers license until I was able to check the fluid levels in my car and change a tire. He did not want me to be a "helpless female".
My husband does dishes, laundry, vacumes while I take care of the finances. (No he is not whipped, we share the household chores)
First and Wyldewode - I'm glad there are more of us out there!!
Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 1:28 pm
by Fist and Faith
Wyldewode wrote:emotional leper wrote:Never forget: My Gods created you double XXers as a plague on men.
Yet, unless you decide to suddenly turn gay, your choices are to deal with this plague, or be alone.

Uh... Am I remembering correctly...? Heh.
Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:16 pm
by emotional leper
Wyldewode wrote:emotional leper wrote:Never forget: My Gods created you double XXers as a plague on men.
Yet, unless you decide to suddenly turn gay, your choices are to deal with this plague, or be alone.

Bill Kaulitz makes me question my heterosexuality.
Though I don't like guys.
I think I might just get myself chemically castrated, and then I won't have to deal with any of this anymore.
Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 12:51 am
by Auleliel
emotional leper wrote:Wyldewode wrote:emotional leper wrote:Never forget: My Gods created you double XXers as a plague on men.
Yet, unless you decide to suddenly turn gay, your choices are to deal with this plague, or be alone.

Bill Kaulitz makes me question my heterosexuality.
Though I don't like guys.
I think I might just get myself chemically castrated, and then I won't have to deal with any of this anymore.
Or you could just ignore this thread...

Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 4:33 am
by Wyldewode
emotional leper wrote:
Bill Kaulitz makes me question my heterosexuality.
Though I don't like guys.
You gave up on David Bowie?

Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 1:15 pm
by Fist and Faith
No matter how hard I try, I can't see all of thefirst's posts. All that's coming through is this:
thefirst wrote:blah blah blah I can lay blah blah blah blah blah 4" heels blah blah blah blah
What's wrong with my monitor????