Kevin's Watch

..Wait?,,,my god,, how can you even begin to consider yourself a human being,, how can you even start down the path of knowing who you are,,if you haven't even begun exploring sexual intimacy? Denying that part of being human is folly. Of course sex is not everything, but the sexual experiences bring your " everything" into balance,,bring your understanding of your self and your ability and willingness to " share" your "everything" with another human being. My god, there is a whole world waiting to be discovered at the end of your finger tips and mind. GET TO IT!..ANY excuse,,any Fear..is denial.

lurch wrote:..Wait?,,,my god,, how can you even begin to consider yourself a human being,, how can you even start down the path of knowing who you are,,if you haven't even begun exploring sexual intimacy? Denying that part of being human is folly. Of course sex is not everything, but the sexual experiences bring your " everything" into balance,,bring your understanding of your self and your ability and willingness to " share" your "everything" with another human being. My god, there is a whole world waiting to be discovered at the end of your finger tips and mind. GET TO IT!..ANY excuse,,any Fear..is denial.

See, I disagree.
Yeah, sex is good, sex is great...but it's not IMPORTANT to to being HUMAN.

The only difference between someone who is a virgin, and someone who isn't a virgin, is that one of them hasn't had any sex.

-So what?

I agree and I disagree.

I agree, Drew, that sex isn't that integral to being human. It's like never having drunk coffee; you're missing a common experience, but you can easily live without it.

On the other hand, I think being a virgin can leave you with a different frame of mind because you think you're missing something important. And...I suppose Lurch has a point that sex can teach you things about yourself that you may not have known, or wanted to know (heh).

In short, I'd say yes, sex is a good and worthwhile thing, but don't get excessively hung up on being a virgin. That label only has as much significance as you give it.

CovenantJr wrote: On the other hand, I think being a virgin can leave you with a different frame of mind because you think you're missing something important. And...I suppose Lurch has a point that sex can teach you things about yourself that you may not have known, or wanted to know (heh).

In short, I'd say yes, sex is a good and worthwhile thing, but don't get excessively hung up on being a virgin. That label only has as much significance as you give it.

That's what I was trying to say earlier when I said:

drew wrote: Seriously Foul....being a virgin (especially as a guy)..it doesn;t really mean anything either way.
You can either look at it as that you are in a different class than many young men your age, that being a virgin makes you a differnt kind of person..or you can just look at it as that you haven't gotten laid yet.
If you look at it as the latter, its no big deal at all.

Indeed. But your post didn't have my name next to it, so mine is still valid.

James wrote:I meet looooaaaads of girls through tricking. Foul, take up teh trickzorz. There is even a saying in the tricking community: tricks get chicks.

(BTW yes I am aware of the double meaning. It's the oldest joke ever, so don't even bother. )

Gravity usually hurts me, when I try to mess with it. I'm good at climbing trees and reading poetry, though, so maybe I can do some home invasion.

How's this then?

drew wrote:

CovenantJr wrote: On the other hand, I think being a virgin can leave you with a different frame of mind because you think you're missing something important. And...I suppose Lurch has a point that sex can teach you things about yourself that you may not have known, or wanted to know (heh).

In short, I'd say yes, sex is a good and worthwhile thing, but don't get excessively hung up on being a virgin. That label only has as much significance as you give it.

That's what I...I mean Covenant Jr was trying to say earlier when I...I mean HE said:

drew...er...actually I think it was Cov Jr who wrote: Seriously Foul....being a virgin (especially as a guy)..it doesn;t really mean anything either way.
You can either look at it as that you are in a different class than many young men your age, that being a virgin makes you a differnt kind of person..or you can just look at it as that you haven't gotten laid yet.
If you look at it as the latter, its no big deal at all.

Brilliant!

I remember hearing the results of survey not too long ago; where older people were asked how many sexual partners they had had troughout their lives; and if they had any regrets regarding their sexuality.

Not surprisingly (or surpisingly to some) the people who did not have many sexual partner, wished that they had had more throughout their lives.
The people who had many, wished they had had less.

drew wrote:The people who had many, wished they had had less.

Hmm...

I wonder at what age that kicks in...

This thread needs pr0n!

I am proud to be a virgin! And I'm not looking to change that any time soon, thanks!

Interesting stance. I wasn't exactly desperate to get my end away, but I wasn't proud of it either. It was just a fact, like being tall.

CovenantJr wrote:Interesting stance. I wasn't exactly desperate to get my end away, but I wasn't proud of it either. It was just a fact, like being tall.

Wait.
You "gave your end away"?
"gave your end away".........
Is *that* what this thread is about?
Well then, I'm a virgin too!




I love colloquialisms!

You'd think chicks would dig poetry. They don't (I think this is one of the biggest mistakes guys like us make: we think most guys are uneducated slobs. And we may be right. But women aren't any different. To quote Ikkyu, "When you meet a master swordsman, show him your sword..."). Same for flowers. All this stuff comes later, and I wish somebody would've told me that when I was 18.

Of course, there's an exception to every rule, but I don't feel like going into the goth clause (and I'm sure every woman here would love poetry and/or flowers. We're all unique, beautiful snowflakes at KW).

If we're giving out advice, the first step is to get a car. Unless you live somewhere like NY or DC, pedestrians have zero to little chance. I was a virgin until I was 21. I never owned a car until I was 21. It could be a coincidence, but I doubt it. Also, having a car really facilitates that getting out and meeting people prerequisite among other things.

After that, it's just a matter of knowing what you want and getting it. The only thing is that you have to turn off that part of you that actually cares while doing it. A lot of guys do this by being an asshole, but I'm not recommending that. There are many shades of difference between doormat and dick. Just remember that your piece is as valuable as hers (even moreso, since it's your own).

The fact is, the worst a girl can do to you without a divorce lawyer pales in comparison to inflicting loneliness on yourself. Now, for some people that's a choice. But from what I've seen, those guys are usually refusing p***y left and right. Just saying.

magickmaker17 wrote:I am proud to be a virgin! And I'm not looking to change that any time soon, thanks!

Are you sure? I'm very lonely. Are you male or female. In fact, it doesn't matter. Where do you live. I'll rent a car.

Magic is about to happen, folks. Watch and wait.

Tread carefully Lord Foul.... Magickmaker's mom is Aliantha....

But...
Virginia isn't all that far from Rome...

Umm... Foul?, My advice (a day late and a dollar short, as usual) is to not try to pick up chicks in front of their mom. Unless, of course, you're really smooth......