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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:28 am
by Vraith
ussusimiel wrote:Avatar wrote:Well, you now raise the question of whether any behaviour or action can be truly altruistic or not.
This is an interesting point and one that I have come to hold the following view: you should never engage in a good act against your will. The logic of this is that the result is always a loss (Zarathustra will love me for this

). Whatever benefit accrues from the good action is outweighed by the inevitable resentment that is felt. We are back again to the idea of authenticity. It is always better to act authentically, and not do something you don't really want to do, than it is to do something good that goes against your true feelings.
I can't go with this one, sorry U. Just start with "don't hold the crying baby, cuz you'd rather sleep" and work up from there.
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:49 am
by Linna Heartbooger
u- I find it annoying how long it takes to build the discernment and internal honesty necessary to know what I really have a full enough heart to do something, and what I don't.
Vraith wrote:ussusimiel wrote:This is an interesting point and one that I have come to hold the following view: you should never engage in a good act against your will. The logic of this is that the result is always a loss (Zarathustra will love me for this

). Whatever benefit accrues from the good action is outweighed by the inevitable resentment that is felt. We are back again to the idea of authenticity. It is always better to act authentically, and not do something you don't really want to do, than it is to do something good that goes against your true feelings.
I can't go with this one, sorry U. Just start with "don't hold the crying baby, cuz you'd rather sleep" and work up from there.
Well, for myself, I prefer to think of it as "I won't/'cannot' NOT hold the crying baby because I won't be able to sleep because babies' crying rips against the chalkboard in my soul and I might start crying and shaking all over because my postpartum 'mommy hormones' will take over and make my blood pressure rise precipitously."
(Why do you think God gave women postpartum 'mommy hormones'? We're really not good enough people without them.)
But I've certainly never felt resentful and trapped because of a crying baby.
No, not me. Never.
I think the male version would be something like "I don't want to deal with the fight with my mate like I would have to deal with tomorrow if I don't hold the crying baby." (in whatever circumstances when this is appropriate.)
Also pragmatic.
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:57 am
by Holsety
ussusimiel wrote:Avatar wrote:
This is an interesting point and one that I have come to hold the following view: you should never engage in a good act against your will. The logic of this is that the result is always a loss (Zarathustra will love me for this

). Whatever benefit accrues from the good action is outweighed by the inevitable resentment that is felt. We are back again to the idea of authenticity. It is always better to act authentically, and not do something you don't really want to do, than it is to do something good that goes against your true feelings.
I disagree, I've given without feeling like I really wanted to before and the resulting bad feeling wasn't as bad as you make out and I got over it very quickly. I think people should do what they want as far as giving...unless they don't want to

Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 5:45 am
by Avatar
peter wrote:...if the need arises I am probably more likely to help someone than not (as long as I am not too put out by it)...
And I think that probably covers how most people approach it.
Thus how much more likely do I myself make this Hobbsian world by my own hand in it's creation.
I like that a lot more than the quote.
I'm a big believer in that, and as a result, I tend toward optimism these last 15 years or so. (I didn't used to, y'see.

)
Ripples in a pond. Good actions beget other good actions, and bad ones do the same.
--A
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:15 pm
by aliantha
That was the concept behind "Pay It Forward", right? If someone does something nice for you, instead of being nice back to the same person, you go out and do something nice for someone else. Not because you're trying to buy yourself a spot in the afterlife, but because it makes the world a better place for everyone.

Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 11:59 pm
by Hashi Lebwohl
We could always phrase the original question in purely secular terms.
Suppose you and a small group of people are shipwrecked and wind up on an uninhabited island. The exact number of people and their backgrounds are irrelevant.
Are you and your fellow shipwreck victims subject to any code of ethics or laws? Clearly you are not, other than any code to which you all willingly choose to impose on yourself. What kind of code do you choose to follow? What if some of you don't want to follow any code at all?
Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 6:31 am
by Avatar
Kill them and eat them.
--A
Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 7:16 am
by Obi-Wan Nihilo
Reciprocity is the one constant of human ethical systems.
homepage.univie.ac.at/karl.sigmund/nature05c.pdf
Humans are the champions of reciprocity. Experiments and everyday experience alike show that what Adam Smith called ‘our instinct to trade, barter and truck’ relies to a considerable extent on the widespread tendency to return helpful and harmful acts in kind. We do so even if these acts have been directed not to us but to others. This has been analysed under the headings of ‘third party altruism’ or ‘indirect reciprocity’, and has led to a considerable amount of experimental and theoretical investigation over the past few years.
Direct reciprocity is captured in the principle: ‘You scratch my back, and I’ll scratch yours’. But it is harder to make sense of the principle ‘You scratch my back and I’ll scratch someone else’s’ or ‘I scratch your back and someone else will scratch mine’ (Fig. 1). Why should this work? Presumably, I will not get my back scratched if it becomes known that I never scratch anybody else’s. Indirect reciprocity, in this view, is based on reputation. But why should anyone care about what I did to a third party?
There are two approaches converging on this issue. One is rooted in social science, the other in evolutionary biology.
The main reason why economists and social scientists are interested in indirect reciprocity is that one-shot interactions between anonymous partners in a global market become increasingly frequent and tend to replace the traditional long-lasting associations and exchanges based on repeated give and take between relatives, neighbours, or members of the same village. A substantial part of our life is spent in the company of strangers, and many transactions are no longer face-to-face. The growth of web-based auctions and other forms of e-commerce is built, to a considerable degree, on reputation and trust. The possibility to exploit such trust raises what economists call moral hazards. How effective is reputation, especially if information is only partial?
In contrast, evolutionary biologists are interested in the emergence of human societies, which constitutes the last (up to now) of the major transitions in evolution. Unlike other eusocial species, such as bees, ants or termites, humans display a large amount of cooperation between non-relatives. A considerable part of human cooperation is based on moralistic emotions—for instance, anger directed towards cheats, or the proverbial ‘warm inner glow’ felt after performing an altruistic action. Neuro-economic experiments relate these emotions to physiological processes. Intriguingly, humans not only feel strongly about interactions that involve them directly, they also judge the actions between third parties, as demonstrated by the contents of gossip. Indirect reciprocity is therefore likely to be connected with the origins of moral norms. Such norms are evidently to a large extent culture-specific, but the capacity for moral norms seems to be a human universal for which there is little evidence in other species.
Because the recent rapid advance of experimental investigations of indirect reciprocity was in large part driven by theory, we shall discuss the modelling approaches before reviewing the experiments. But first we note, in a wider context, that indirect reciprocity seems to require a ‘theory of mind’. Whereas altruism directed towards kin works because similar genomes reside in different organisms, reciprocal altruism recognizes that similar minds emerge from different brains. It is easy to conceive that an organism experiences as ‘good’ or ‘bad’ anything that affects the organism’s own reproductive fitness in a positive or negative sense. The step from there to judging, as ‘good’ or ‘bad’, actions between third parties, is not obvious. The same terms ‘good’ and ‘bad’ that are applied to pleasure and pain are also used for moral judgements: this linguistic quirk reveals an astonishing degree of empathy, and reflects highly developed faculties for cognition and abstraction.
This review of theoretical and empirical studies of indirect reciprocity stresses the importance of monitoring not only partners in continuing interactions but also all individuals within the social network. Indirect reciprocity requires information storage and transfer as well as strategic thinking and has a pivotal role in the evolution of collaboration and communication. The possibilities for games of manipulation, coalition-building and betrayal are limitless. Indirect reciprocity may have provided the selective challenge driving the cerebral expansion in human evolution.
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 5:01 pm
by Zarathustra
Hashi Lebwohl wrote:We could always phrase the original question in purely secular terms.
Suppose you and a small group of people are shipwrecked and wind up on an uninhabited island. The exact number of people and their backgrounds are irrelevant.
Are you and your fellow shipwreck victims subject to any code of ethics or laws? Clearly you are not, other than any code to which you all willingly choose to impose on yourself. What kind of code do you choose to follow? What if some of you don't want to follow any code at all?
I seem to remember this moral tale from my high school reading list. Is there a conch shell involved?

Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 7:24 pm
by Hashi Lebwohl
Yes, they did use a conch shell in a vain attempt to have some sort of order. It didn't work out terribly well, if you recall.
Clearly we must operate under some sort of codified system of ethics and morals, especially in large groups, or things will quickly degenerate into a chaotic free-for-all. Whether you think this system is created by man alone or suggested/imposed by some greater authority is irrelevant; the fact remains that we must have them.
The problem arises because of codes created by people (who are not perfect) because the systems we create are not perfect. Every system, no matter how well-designed, has flaws and (sometimes) inconsistencies in it because no system can deal with our highly complex reality. The first question to ask when someone is designing a system of ethics/morals is "why should I follow your system?". Although some systems are clearly better than others--"I'll trade you this for that" is always better than "I want that so I'll just take it"--you still have to face the reality that you choose to live by that code.
In the long run, excluding some planet-altering event, what will eventually happen is that enough people are going to live by a purely self-centered code of ethics/morals; at this point, it will become "every man for himself" for real.
A sufficiently significant planet-altering event will precipitate this even faster. The next time you are out in public, sit down and take a good look at the people around you. All it would take to push any of them to murder would be to starve them for 4 or 5 days. If you think a week of less-than-sustainable food won't make them bash you in the head for a can of kidney beans then you have a naive faith in human nature.
Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 9:50 pm
by Orlion
Hashi Lebwohl wrote:
A sufficiently significant planet-altering event will precipitate this even faster. The next time you are out in public, sit down and take a good look at the people around you. All it would take to push any of them to murder would be to starve them for 4 or 5 days. If you think a week of less-than-sustainable food won't make them bash you in the head for a can of kidney beans then you have a naive faith in human nature.
And you, my good sir, are merely cynical. The people around me *gestures* would bash my head in simply for the pleasure of it.
Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 11:14 pm
by Holsety
A sufficiently significant planet-altering event will precipitate this even faster. The next time you are out in public, sit down and take a good look at the people around you. All it would take to push any of them to murder would be to starve them for 4 or 5 days. If you think a week of less-than-sustainable food won't make them bash you in the head for a can of kidney beans then you have a naive faith in human nature.
I doubt that quite so many would bash my head in for a single bean, and I'm not even so sure about the can. A week's supply is another story, but I doubt I would have that much to kill over.
There is, of course, ME.
Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 11:28 pm
by Vraith
Hashi Lebwohl wrote:
In the long run, excluding some planet-altering event, what will eventually happen is that enough people are going to live by a purely self-centered code of ethics/morals; at this point, it will become "every man for himself" for real.
A sufficiently significant planet-altering event will precipitate this even faster. The next time you are out in public, sit down and take a good look at the people around you. All it would take to push any of them to murder would be to starve them for 4 or 5 days. If you think a week of less-than-sustainable food won't make them bash you in the head for a can of kidney beans then you have a naive faith in human nature.[/color]
I don't think that's so, really. First our biological, and now our cultural evolution have been trending strongly towards social grouping and interdependence...even if not ONLY that. In its way, even the trend toward recognizing individual rights is a dynamic/structure within the nature of groups...it is to prevent any single individual/aristocracy/what have you from taking over the whole of it absolutely.
And on the 4 or 5 days of starving before they bash your head in: what you neglect is that the vast majority, during those 4 or 5 days would first exhaust other options.
Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 1:27 am
by Obi-Wan Nihilo
articles.glendalenewspress.com/2012-02-03/news/tn-gnp-0204-small-wonders-morality_1_oxytocin-morality-empathy
Small Wonders: Morality just a matter of chemistry?
February 03, 2012|By Patrick Caneday
Good and Evil.
Nurture versus Nature.
Survival of the nicest or survival of the fittest.
Morality: our conformity to the rules of right conduct and virtue. It’s long been territory only for philosophers, theologians and newspaper columnists looking for a story. Its vagaries, its subjective and speculative nature make it a moving target; impossible to measure for those who require practical evidence.
Does morality — a trait present only in humans — come from a spiritual creator? Or from learned and developed behavior naturally selected over the millennia? Either way, isolating hard evidence of its source has proven to be a rabbit hole.
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Paul Zak, professor of Economics at Claremont Graduate University and director of the Center for Neuroeconomics Studies, has researched the “chemistry of morality” over the last 10 years. He believes that oxytocin, a hormone found only in humans, is at the root of our moral judgment.
In his studies, he found that test participants who performed selfless acts experienced a surge of oxytocin in their bloodstream. Those who received the act of kindness likewise produced increased oxytocin levels and were even more likely to respond generously.
“Pay it forward” proven in the laboratory.
In control groups where half were given a placebo and half oxytocin, the oxytocin groups showed more than double the positive behavior. Changes in a person’s oxytocin level actually predicted their feelings of empathy. And it is empathy that connects us to others, causing us to help and care about them. In other words, oxytocin makes us moral.
The studies also showed that subjects who were abused or improperly nurtured in their early years often had extremely low levels of oxytocin production, while those with stable upbringings had much higher levels, and more readily produced the hormone.
The inability to secrete oxytocin was linked to those who exhibit narcissistic and even sociopathic behavior. High-stress environments have been shown to inhibit the release of oxytocin, as has the presence of large amounts of testosterone.
Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 1:29 am
by Obi-Wan Nihilo
www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-moral- ... e-are-evil
Why Some People Are Evil
Evil happens when people don't feel empathy
Published on September 8, 2011 by Paul J. Zak in The Moral Molecule
Just after the sun rose on July 7, 2008, Hans Reiser led police and prosecutors to Nina's shallow grave. Reiser was about to be convicted of strangling his estranged wife to death when he agreed to plead guilty to second-degree murder and reveal where he dumped Nina's body. In exchange, he would dodge the death penalty. Reiser was a moderately wealthy Internet entrepreneur who started college at age 15. Why wasn't he smart enough to just divorce his wife?
I became familiar with Reiser's case because he hand-wrote a four-page appeal from his cell at San Quentin requesting a new trial. He cited my research as one rationale for why his conviction should be tossed out. In experiments run over the last decade, I have shown that an ancient molecule in the human brain, oxytocin, makes us feel empathy for others and causes us to behave morally. I call oxytocin the "moral molecule."
But here's the rub: Reiser didn't request an appeal because he believed he was oxytocin-deficit and wasn't responsible for his actions. He claimed that his lawyer lacked oxytocin and was empathy-deficient and consequently did not appropriately represent him in court. Reiser's complete lack of insight is astounding. And diagnostic of his pathology.
So how do human beings go from good, to bad, to evil? My experiments have shown that 95 percent of the thousands of people I have studied release oxytocin when they receive a positive social signal. Oxytocin-releasers include having someone trust you with their money, being touched, and even watching an emotional movie. Five percent of those I have tested do not release oxytocin after such stimuli. These individuals have many of the traits of psychopaths: they are charming, deceptive, and even self-deceptive. And, when there is money that can be shared with others, they unabashedly keep it all for themselves. Greed, you will remember, is one of the seven deadly sins.
Knowing the chemistry of morality gives us keen insights into why most of us are good most of the time, and why some people like Hans Reiser are evil. Let's start with evil. Rodents that genetically lack receptors for oxytocin behave like psychopaths--they do whatever they want without regard for others' safety or welfare. They are loners in permanent survival mode. These behaviors also occur for many victims of childhood abuse; the oxytocin circuit in the brain needs nurturing to develop properly. The abuse victims I have studied are also in survival mode and have impaired social behaviors.
And then there is petty evil. High stress inhibits oxytocin release and makes us temporary psychopaths. We know that we are not our best selves when we are stressed out. Stress narrows one's focus to oneself and we cease being socially competent. Actions we call "virtuous" or "moral" are those that put another's needs on par, or above, one's own: honesty, trustworthiness, compassion, fairness. Oxytocin does this by subtly changing the self-other balance towards caring about another's well-being. My experiments have shown this both by measuring oxytocin release in blood after an act of kindness and by manipulating oxytocin levels in human brains to show that oxytocin directly causes virtuous behaviors. Yes, there is a moral molecule.
But, I have worried lately that the carefully controlled laboratory experiments I have done may not apply to people's daily experiences, so I've taken my lab on the road. We have studied the many ways humans connect and willingly cooperate with each other. Experiments with soldiers marching, a rugby team warming up before a match, and people praying in church showed that these activities cause the brain to release oxytocin. A spike in oxytocin produces a feeling of closeness and a willingness to help others.
My field experiments have even taken me to some of the farthest reaches of the earth. I recently travelled to the highlands of Papua New Guinea to study isolated subsistence farmers in the rain forest. Highland people live much like our ancestors did millennia ago. I took blood before and after a ritual dance and found that it caused the release of oxytocin in the majority of the men I tested. The moral molecule appears to be a human universal.
The human desire to connect not only with friends and family, but complete strangers is, I have found, what makes us moral. It is our social nature, our need to be around others, that makes us good most of the time. Oxytocin makes us feel what others feel and this not only motivates us to avoid doing things that hurt others, but actually makes us feel pleasure when we bring others joy. Sneaky evolution! Gregariously social creatures like us need to have an internal moral governor that sustains our place in the social group. Being ostracized from one's group is as maladaptive for humans as it is for wolves. Behaving morally--roughly, being nice to others who are nice to us--keeps us ensconced the warmth and protection of our pack.
Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 1:56 am
by Obi-Wan Nihilo
Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 5:12 am
by Avatar
Interesting. From what I saw elsewhere in a search of Google Scholar, it seems he may be...idealising things a bit, but it seems generally agreed that it can affect trustworthiness, generosity, and maybe modulate social approaches.
Seems credible that lack thereof would have an impact on the way people deal with somebody else or feel toward them.
--A
Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 10:17 am
by peter
Hashi Lebwohl wrote:Yes, they did use a conch shell in a vain attempt to have some sort of order. It didn't work out terribly well, if you recall.
Clearly we must operate under some sort of codified system of ethics and morals, especially in large groups, or things will quickly degenerate into a chaotic free-for-all. Whether you think this system is created by man alone or suggested/imposed by some greater authority is irrelevant; the fact remains that we must have them.
The problem arises because of codes created by people (who are not perfect) because the systems we create are not perfect. Every system, no matter how well-designed, has flaws and (sometimes) inconsistencies in it because no system can deal with our highly complex reality. The first question to ask when someone is designing a system of ethics/morals is "why should I follow your system?". Although some systems are clearly better than others--"I'll trade you this for that" is always better than "I want that so I'll just take it"--you still have to face the reality that you choose to live by that code.
In the long run, excluding some planet-altering event, what will eventually happen is that enough people are going to live by a purely self-centered code of ethics/morals; at this point, it will become "every man for himself" for real.
A sufficiently significant planet-altering event will precipitate this even faster. The next time you are out in public, sit down and take a good look at the people around you. All it would take to push any of them to murder would be to starve them for 4 or 5 days. If you think a week of less-than-sustainable food won't make them bash you in the head for a can of kidney beans then you have a naive faith in human nature.
But this given, why has nature evolved 'red in tooth and claw' instead as an altruism based system. Surely 'evolution by natural selection' is going to select for the system most likely to result in the survival of the species (This could be wrong on thinking, but I'll go with it) and if it selects a 'dog eat dog' option is this not likely to be because it is the best. Could it not be that if those boys on that island had not been found for 500 years it would be Jack's descendents and not Ralphs that would be found living there albeit in their nasty brutish way. Survival in terrible situations very often seems to involve the abbandonment of the codes of behaviour that we take as read under non-extreme conditions.
Can I post an extreme (and unpleasent) example - don't read on please if you are likely to be upset by graphic detail in a point trying to be made.
In the Holocaust it was practice to cram the gas chambers to capacity in order to expedite the killing process. This involved the passing in of children into the space above the heads of the tightly packed adults and this awful job was carried out by other prisoners who would be killed without hesitation at the first sighn of refusal or even delay. I knew a man who it was said had been in this awful position and obviousely he had survived to tell the tale. In the naieveity of my youth I condemned the man (mentally) for his weakness. I would have died I told myself. I would have never done that!............ But would I? Now older (and I hope a little wiser) I recognise the situation is not as simple. First, I cannot know how I would react in that situation - it is too extreme for any aspect of my self-knowledge to date to encompas. Secondly would I be right to die in that situation! Perhaps I could serve my race, my species better by surviving whatever the cost to my future self-esteem rather than to die a pointless death as a result of clinging to ethical principles that no longer pertain in the extremity of the situation one finds oneself in. I think it was Primo Levi who noted that in the camps contrary to what you might expect people became almost 100% self centered in their approach to life - If you found another persons food stash...you stole it. Survival of the self became the sole motivating
raison d'etra. Who can say this was wrong. History also needs witnesses.
But these circumstances were extreme. To try to bring this back into line with the original idea - can I posit a situation where the degradation of ethical behaviour (that in generations past was founded on a bedrock of religious belief) is so slow, so barely noticeable, that the move toward the selfish survival model of existence incrementally increases to the point where a 'tipping point' is reached - and there is no return from it.
Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 3:07 pm
by Hashi Lebwohl
Orlion wrote:And you, my good sir, are merely cynical.
I know. That is also why everyone loves me.
peter wrote:To try to bring this back into line with the original idea - can I posit a situation where the degradation of ethical behaviour (that in generations past was founded on a bedrock of religious belief) is so slow, so barely noticeable, that the move toward the selfish survival model of existence incrementally increases to the point where a 'tipping point' is reached - and there is no return from it.
I maintain that we are already living this. People aren't any more self-centered than they always have been but these days many of them display the behavior more openly, in large numbers, than in times past.
Strangely, the Internet is assisting this. Although we are more connected to each other than ever before, we are more isolated. Just look at this board (or any discussion board, for that matter)--we all "know" each other because we express our opinions here, thus making our personalities known to one another. However, we don't know each other--I could walk by you tomorrow or sit next to you in a restaurant and you wouldn't know it. This also explains why it is so easy to flame someone online--they aren't sitting there in front of you and you don't have to take responsibility for your words or actions. If I were to insult you so horribly that it got me banned from here, the only negative repercussion is that I got banned, which isn't really a punishment that means anything. If I said such things to your face, though, I would be presented with your immediate reaction and the negative fallout from it would be in my face. I don't have to empathize with you at all and the problem with this is that people are not learning how to differentiate how they treat people online with how they treat people offline--they are just as rude and insensitive in real life as they are on the Internet.
Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:04 pm
by ussusimiel
peter wrote:can I posit a situation where the degradation of ethical behaviour (that in generations past was founded on a bedrock of religious belief) is so slow, so barely noticeable, that the move toward the selfish survival model of existence incrementally increases to the point where a 'tipping point' is reached - and there is no return from it.
I agree that this is one possible way (a quite pessimistic way) of looking at the current situation, peter. I have a more optimistic view for a couple of reasons.
Firstly, as Ron's posts upthread show, it seems that we are biologically programmed to be nice to each other. The example that comes to mind is the minor accident situation. An old man slips and falls as he walk down the street, do all the people around him ignore him and walk on? No, they stop and make sure that he's okay. In an instant a number of people who had no connection a moment beforehand come together and make contact to ensure that assistance is given. The distance between us is very thin and can be easily crossed when necessary.
My second reason for optimism is that the creeping dehumanisation that you describe above has another consequence. In the face of it a significant number of people are being forced to re-assess what their humanity means to them. My optimistic hope is that this re-engagement may lead to a shift in consciousness and an activation of some of the potentials that I alluded to in my first post in this thread. Potentials that I hope will benefit humanity as a whole.
u.