Bad news...
Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 7:31 am
My parent's dog, the dog that sort of replaced me and my sisters after we left the house, isn't doing very well. She's about 15 years old, and isn't eating or drinking very much, seems to have difficulty swallowing. Mom is going to take her to the vet tomorrow. My parents are very upset and were crying about her tonight. I know everybody thinks their dog is special but this one is really like a part of the family and its awful to think about losing her.
She is the best dog the family ever had, so smart and kind and gentle and protective (and maybe even a little mischevious at times, although in an endearing way). I actually have tears in my eyes tonight. I think we have all been kind of dreading this for the past few years, although hopefully she will be able to get better and stay with us for a while longer. Knowing how old she is and how much I love her I have been extra sure to love on her whenever I visit my parent's house. But unfortunately since I work offshore and have 3 weeks to go I may not be able to say goodbye to her in person if it comes to that. I think that is what is bothering me more than anything else.
I guess what I don't understand is why dogs don't live longer than they do. It isn't fair to have to love them and lose them that way (and I hate what it is doing to my parents). But they say it's better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all. It just doesn't feel that way when you know the loss is getting a whole lot closer.
She is the best dog the family ever had, so smart and kind and gentle and protective (and maybe even a little mischevious at times, although in an endearing way). I actually have tears in my eyes tonight. I think we have all been kind of dreading this for the past few years, although hopefully she will be able to get better and stay with us for a while longer. Knowing how old she is and how much I love her I have been extra sure to love on her whenever I visit my parent's house. But unfortunately since I work offshore and have 3 weeks to go I may not be able to say goodbye to her in person if it comes to that. I think that is what is bothering me more than anything else.
I guess what I don't understand is why dogs don't live longer than they do. It isn't fair to have to love them and lose them that way (and I hate what it is doing to my parents). But they say it's better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all. It just doesn't feel that way when you know the loss is getting a whole lot closer.