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sorry, but you can't be my BFF anymore

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:58 am
by lorin
let's make sure our children never learn how to cope with loss of any kind.

now.msn.com/entertainment/0324-no-best-friends-rule.aspx

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:00 am
by Iolanthe
What rubbish. If children don't learn to cope with the smaller disappointments, how on earth are they going to survive the bigger ones? It's like stopping children compete, so that there are no losers! :-x

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:11 am
by Cambo
Put simply, that is retarded.

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:15 am
by Obi-Wan Nihilo
That flushing sound you hear is society going down the tubes.

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:06 pm
by Prebe
Stoopid.

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:41 pm
by lorin
just in case anyone thinks the inane is confined to the UK school system
www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n ... 158D34.DTL

(of course, if you no longer have a BFF there is no reason to hug)

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 3:43 pm
by DoctorGamgee
That last one made me smile. I grew up in the midwest, where the greeting was a handshake for everyone. I now live on the border of Mexico where the hug/air kiss is the normal for greetings involving women (with man or woman) and a hard hand-smack shoulder bump hug among men.

While I am not in favor of public groping by anyone, it seems to me that these decisions should be left to the individuals and understanding of context is everything. A hug to a person whose dog just died is different than between two hormonal teenagers.

But that is best decided with all information at hand, not a blanket policy.

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:20 pm
by MsMary
It's not only ridiculous, it's unenforceable.

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:21 pm
by deer of the dawn
I'm so glad I get to hug my students. Sometimes it changes my whole day.

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 7:11 pm
by Obi-Wan Nihilo
The craziest part is that a whole group of people thought this was a good idea that embodied the proper purview of institutions of the state.

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 2:42 am
by Sorus
I don't see it working. It's human nature.

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 3:53 am
by Cameraman Jenn
The no bff rule is way more stupid than the no hugging one. Both are pretty ridiculous though.

Re: sorry, but you can't be my BFF anymore

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:13 am
by Avatar
lorin wrote:let's make sure our children never learn how to cope with loss of any kind.
Because god forbid they should ever suffer any sort of harm whatsoever. Anyway, the world will never allow them to come to harm, if they do, it must be somebodies fault.

:LOLS:

Decline and fall?

--A

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 8:06 am
by Cambo
With much defecation on the way down.

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 8:12 am
by Ananda
This is a great idea! Also, I hope the kids get assigned numbers in school- It is no good when some have a better sounding name than some others. If they all get referred to only as numbers, it will be much better.

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 8:23 am
by I'm Murrin
But what about the kids who get lower numbers? You don't want them to feel worthless. Lets just call them all "Boy" and "Girl" and be done with it.

...Wait a minute, that highlights gender differences and potentially leads to reinforcing gender stereotypes. Back to good old reliable "Hey, you".

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 8:46 am
by Obi-Wan Nihilo
What if they don't like their numbers. Like what about kid number 13 or 666? What if some kids have cooler numbers than others, like triple primes, or Fibonaccis? What about the kid named number 2, is he cursed for life or what?

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 11:01 am
by Frostheart Grueburn
Introduce Finnish as the official teaching language. We don't nurture such nonsense as separate pronouns for 'he' and 'she'. ;) :lol:

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 11:20 am
by Lefdmae Deemalr Effaeldm
A lovely idea, Zorm!

But I'm afraid there are many people who have problems learning one language remotely properly.

Why don't we use "it" as the gender definition for everyone? ;)

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2012 11:25 am
by Damelon
It's a stupid idea, but I'm a little suspicious about the story from the Daily Mail since I noticed no one in the story actually owning up to advocating doing this.