Jesus I'm hungry for tapas now.Mongnihilo wrote:In America the usual practice at your average restaurant is heapin' helpin's. Even your run of the mill nice restaurant in a medium size town is going to be portion heavy, considering the service a'la russe standards you are applying, peter. I think that is why, on occasion, the wife and I gravitate towards dinner in the tapas style, which has become quite popular. Though the food is usually shared, the leisurely pace, small portions, live jazz guitarist, and pleasant cafe atmosphere makes for an enjoyable, if typically alcohol-soaked dining experience. Normally we will share about 5 or 6 small courses, not counting drinks, which may include an aperitif on arrival, champagne, a medium bodied red wine, a full bodied red wine, and a digestif typically involving coffee. Perhaps you may have surmised that we progress through cheese, salad, lobster, lamb, then beef courses followed by dessert. I haven't yet figured out how to fit a soup or bisque in there without becoming overfull.
Someday we'll have to dine in a traditional French restaurant and have that experience.
I'll add one thing, I hate live music while I'm eating. In fact, I hate the trend that every place that serves food or coffee feels the need to either pipe in or pay someone to play music while I'm trying to eat or drink.
Maybe I'm unique, but "having a drink" with someone, or "grabbing something to eat" is a social experience; it's not just about sustenance. I f*cking hate going into an Irish pub with friends and not being able to talk because the deedle-te-dee music is so damn loud.
Same goes with fine dining. If there's going to be music, it'd better be so far in the background I can barely hear it.