Many of us met Lady Tam during various Elohimfests. She hosted many at her home, including me at the first 'fest. She made me feel as welcome as could be. As they say, if you look up "gracious host" in the dictionary, you will find her smiling picture. More generally, she was just a wonderful person. Fun to talk to, made some killer food for all of us. and, of course, tolerated danlo with superhuman patience.

That is a couple that can be compared to any couple. Hosting groups of us from around the world, fostering children, just making the world a better place. We are all less without Lady Tam.
danlo, I'm sure I speak for all when I say I am so terribly sorry. We all love you, and umm very glad a few of us are near enough to hug you for us.
Lady Tam, Leslie, mi alasharia la shantih.