exnihilo wrote:The question of ethics is a slightly different one, however, since there do seem to be certain principles that are necessary for societies to exist; that they are implemented in different ways or accompanied by arbitrary cultural practices masquerading as "morals" does not undermine their reality.
If it's "necessary for societies to exist," then we're talking about a pragmatic definition, which is the essence of relativism. After all, there is nothing necessary about societies. Humans don't have to have them. We just like them because they are useful for all sorts of things.
About Nietzsche . . . he was acutely aware of his own anger (if that's the right word), primarily his disdain for how Christianity had (in his opinion) harmed mankind throughout history. This was his impetus behind creating the doctrine of eternal return. His view was to accept those things about reality which he (or anyone) didn't like, to greet reality with the "Holy Yes." Therefore, according to eternal return, he viewed history with an acceptance which transcended time, accepting it even if the whole thing were to repeat itself exactly as it was before.
Nietzsche calls the idea "horrifying and paralyzing," and says that its burden is the "heaviest weight" ("das schwerste Gewicht")[7] imaginable. The wish for the eternal return of all events would mark the ultimate affirmation of life:
What, if some day or night a demon were to steal after you into your loneliest loneliness and say to you: 'This life as you now live it and have lived it, you will have to live once more and innumerable times more' ... Would you not throw yourself down and gnash your teeth and curse the demon who spoke thus? Or have you once experienced a tremendous moment when you would have answered him: 'You are a god and never have I heard anything more divine.' [The Gay Science, §341]
To comprehend eternal recurrence in his thought, and to not merely come to peace with it but to embrace it, requires amor fati, "love of fate":[8]
My formula for human greatness is amor fati: that one wants to have nothing different, not forward, not backward, not in all eternity. Not merely to bear the necessary, still less to conceal it--all idealism is mendaciousness before the necessary--but to love it.[8]
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eternal_return#Fr ... _Nietzsche
To say that Nietzsche's views on ethics can be understood by filtering it through his "emotional frustrations and repressed anger," and then dismissing his points by arguing for a more "contemplative and practiced" relationship with the Golden Rule, ignores his own views of his emotions. He was aware of the poisoning nature of "repressed anger," and developed an entire doctrine around the idea of accepting unattractive truths. Yet, this does not invalidate his thoughts on ethics, because those ideas, too, rely upon an idea of self-actualization. He didn't reject the Golden Rule out of spite for his fellow man. I don't think he was saying that you shouldn't be nice to people. In fact, he was probably saying something much closer to your own position: not letting your relationships with other people cause you to subsume your own worth within service to others. Service to others can be twisted into your own subjugation, out of a sense of guilt and unworthiness, and a need for their approval. I think part of his reversal of traditional values was to recognize that respect and acceptance of
oneself is the first step in a truly authentic value system. Personally, I think this is the only authentic way to develop love for others, rather than the Christian alternative: loving others out of a sense of inherited guilt and unworthiness. . . a means to make amends for your sinful nature through service to others. This was what he was trying to reverse, by putting one's values on a firmer ground, and not starting from a position of unworthiness. but rather a position of affirmation and acceptance.