You're obviously free to think whatever you wish, even when it is not what I intended to say, as long as you don't make it sound like that's what I meant all along
Malik23 wrote:Telling people they should get along (for their own good) isn't much different from telling people they should get saved (for their own good). The argument simply has three sides now, instead of two.
I think the misunderstanding here is based on the assumption that everyone is into the argument, one way or another. Personally - and this is the opinion of most people I know here in Europe - I just find the whole thing puzzling, ultimately baffling, and completely pointless. In fact, whenever we hear about another round of this religious conflict in the US, most of us usually think, "Americans are weird!"...
Malik23 wrote:Why is your disagreement with us any better than our disagreement with each other? Even if you don't choose a side, you still have made a choice. You position isn't any better simply because it contains bits of both sides. In fact, I think it is even less defensible, due to its contradiction.
I see no contradiction, unless you mean "let's respect each other's point of view", which is hardly a contradiction and seems to me to be simple common sense in a civilized society.
Malik23 wrote:Calling for a truce and advocating peaceful coexistence certainly sounds noble. But it's just another form of what you're accusing us of doing: telling other people what's best for them.
In the same way as someone might see two friends who argue about a topic they both feel passionate about, and knowing neither will ever win, steps in to point out that perhaps arguing so much is not really accomplishing anything. Or a parent stopping his children from arguing about a favorite toy and telling them to play together instead.
Malik23 wrote:In the end, it's really just an excuse to avoid a debate, rather than settling it (well, avoid it after we agree with you, of course). And some issues--like man's place in the universe and his Fate (or lack thereof)--deserves the rigorous attention which can only come from a debate format, unless you are going to exclude one side or the other. Which isn't fair. That's perhaps the most disingenuous position of all.
A debate, however, does not start with both sides claiming the other is dead wrong, and that they have to persuade the other side to see things their way "for their own good". To do so - and I include both sides of the argument here - implies that one thinks the other side is not intelligent/smart/wise/clear-sighted enough to see the Truth (which is what the subject knows, of course) and must be brought to see it.
Because if the subject truly believed that the choice of the other side is equally as worthy of respect as his, he would not be trying to "convert" them. I'll repeat: this works for both sides. But the fact that side A behaves this way does not excuse side B from doing the same. In other words: if the believers do it, it doesn't mean the atheists are justified in doing it, and vice versa. It's only once both sides respect the other's views that a debate can start. Otherwise, it's just a shouting match with no winners.
A debate is supposedly a situation where both groups compare their views, discuss their differences while respecting each other's beliefs, and hopefully learn from each other, even if a compromise cannot be reached. But what you say in the above quote contrasts with what is happening in this religious conflict: you say "some issues [...] deserve the rigorous attention with can only come from a debate format, unless you are going to exclude one side or the other." And yet, is that not what each side is trying to do? Tell the other side "you're wrong", and trying to prove it?
Malik23 wrote:It IS possible for everyone to coexist peacefully, but only at cost of what makes them unique. Basically, we can coexist peacefully if we'll only shut up.
No, not really. We can coexist peacefully if we learn to respect other people's views even when they are vastly different from our own. In other words, we can coexist peacefully if, when we meet someone who believes something we don't, we are willing to forgo criticizing his/her beliefs in favor of respecting them as much as we would like our own to be respected.
By the way, uniqueness derives from everyone having their own ideas: to impose your own ideas on everyone is what dilutes that uniqueness. So, fundamentalist atheists or Christians trying to force-feed their beliefs to the other side is what makes everyone the same. When all are atheists or all are Christians, what you get is unity, but where is the uniqueness?
Malik23 wrote:I'm curious how you reconcile a position of scientific rationalism with supernatural belief. Do you achieve your own internal peace by a similar strategy of ignoring the differences between your two contradictory views, as you advocate we do with each other?
Well, first of all, I never said we should ignore differences between two different views. And truthfully, you leave me baffled. You see, this is what I've noticed is really hard for most Americans (at least those who are into this religious conflict) to understand: there really is no conflict.
Here, see what Albert Einstein had to say about it:
www.sacred-texts.com/aor/einstein/einsci.htm .