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in other news...it looks like it's finally going to be official.

D-I-V-O-R-C-E.

ger and i are going to make our "room-mate" status official.

we haven't slept in the same bed in 10 years.
this past christmas we separated our finances.
this morning we agreed to cut the legal cord as well.

i feel weird but resolved.
i no longer have to make life decisions based on what
someone else thinks is or isn't a good idea!! 8O

oh my god. i can quit my job if i want to and be a barrista!!8O

and he can't say a WORD about it!!!

oh my god!! i feel like Lester in American Beauty!!!

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cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
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Woah. Man, I have a feeling this is going to be a good thing for you, but wow.
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Lucimay wrote:in other news...it looks like it's finally going to be official.

D-I-V-O-R-C-E.

ger and i are going to make our "room-mate" status official.

we haven't slept in the same bed in 10 years.
this past christmas we separated our finances.
this morning we agreed to cut the legal cord as well.

i feel weird but resolved.
i no longer have to make life decisions based on what
someone else thinks is or isn't a good idea!! 8O

oh my god. i can quit my job if i want to and be a barrista!!8O

and he can't say a WORD about it!!!

oh my god!! i feel like Lester in American Beauty!!!

"you don't ever get to tell me what to do ever again!!"
you know that whistle sound people make when they are stunned? i just made that whistle sound...... 8O

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he won't do it tho. i mean...he won't get the ball rolling. i'll have to do THAT as well. :roll:

luckily, there's no property to separate, no children. he can have anything in our apartment except my two acoustic guitars and my books. everything else is replaceable.

i do wish he'd move but i don't think that's likely until he's paid for the
dental work he's having done right now and he's saved a bit of money.
you're more advanced than a cockroach,
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies



i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio



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the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
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Lucimay wrote:i do wish he'd move but i don't think that's likely until he's paid for the
dental work he's having done right now and he's saved a bit of money.

If you want him to move, just start having guys over.
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Dandelion will make you wise
Tell me if she laughs or cries
Blow away dandelion


I'm afraid there's no denying
I'm just a dandelion
a fate I don't deserve.


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WOW!! 8O

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I'm here for ya Lucimay. |G
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Congratulations/sympathies, Lucimay. I know this is a big step for you. |G
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Some day you'll grow out of this phase. :P
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thanks jenn and pj and cail and dan and lyr thanks. |G
you're more advanced than a cockroach,
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies



i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio



a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
~ dennis r wood ~
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Oh, Luci. |G
Cail wrote:The process sucks, but the results are magnificent.
Couldn't have said it any better. I remember right after I got the ex to move out, every now and then I would just have to stop and :biggrin: .
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thanks ali. :lol:

yeesh he's been "threatening" to move for 10 years and i been telling
him to go ahead on for 10 years.
what do you think the chances are that i will have to find him a new
place to live and hire the movers?? :roll:
you're more advanced than a cockroach,
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies



i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio



a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
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Vegas has the odds at 1:1. Remember, he who changes the locks first, wins.
Dandelion don't tell no lies
Dandelion will make you wise
Tell me if she laughs or cries
Blow away dandelion


I'm afraid there's no denying
I'm just a dandelion
a fate I don't deserve.


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Lucimay wrote:thanks ali. :lol:

yeesh he's been "threatening" to move for 10 years and i been telling
him to go ahead on for 10 years.
what do you think the chances are that i will have to find him a new
place to live and hire the movers?? :roll:
Give him a deadline. It worked for me. ;)

Related story: When my friend (the one who was with us at Spamalot) moved out here for her new job, she had everything moved out here from California, even tho he stayed behind. When he finally told her he wasn't going to move out here, she had to box up all his stuff, split up the common property, hire movers, and have everything shipped to him.

After the movers left, he called her: "I can't find the towels." She said, "They're in one of the boxes." He said, "Which one?" And she said, "Here's what you do. You open the first box and look through it. If the towels aren't in there, you open another box...." :roll: :lol:
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Oh Luci!

As ~Lyr said...
Best of luck/sympathy wishes headed your way.

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Lucimay wrote: D-I-V-O-R-C-E.
Terrific 7-letter word play, Luci! Bonus bingo points for you!

(Inside joke for Literati players)
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All the best to you, Luci. |G
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Matrixman wrote:
Lucimay wrote: D-I-V-O-R-C-E.
Terrific 7-letter word play, Luci! Bonus bingo points for you!

(Inside joke for Literati players)
8O

:lol: :haha: :lol:

thanks MM!! i needed that!!

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you're more advanced than a cockroach,
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies



i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio



a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
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|G for you Louise.
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