aTOMiC wrote:For some reason I feel as though the connection/relationship between Linden and Jeremiah is under explained/explored in the narrative. I guess I just don't/can't believe how much she cares for this kid. I KNOW she does but I don't really feel it as I read the story.
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Now if Jeremiah were somehow Linden and Covenant's natural son then I might believe she (Linden) had been fundamentally altered by experiencing childbirth, especially if said child was the product of her relationship with someone she cared for deeply.
Now you guys are beginning to see some of the specific details of why I joined THOOLAH.
It feels like this issue is about the *writing* and not about Linden. Maybe SRD, who is a parent, just feels that everyone totally gets what it feels like to love their child, and so he doesn't see the need for more depth. FWIW, I don't have kids either, but I once dated a woman with 3 young children, but I never could make the leap to desire the joys, heartbreaks, and responsibilities of parenthood. So the point is, she once said to me "*everyone* wants this." -- what I realized is, it's such an ingrained belief for those who have children, that it doesn't need explaining. Maybe that's what SRD has unknowingly done too.kevinswatch wrote:Like you said, we *know* that she cares for him (since SRD keeps saying so over and over again), but I just don't *feel* it at all. For me, it's hard to understand the level of love that Linden is feeling towards a kid who she adopted and who has remained absolutely unresponsive for 10 years. ... ... So in a way it is almost like we are being asked to simply *accept* that Linden cares so deeply for this child that she is willing to do/rish *anything*, without ever really getting a good feeling for *why*.
But this is not *Linden's* fault.
I don't really feel the connection Linden has for Jeremiah either. Nor do I really feel anything for Jere other than intellectual interest...
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In that way, I *understand* Linden. But like you guys, I don't feel it either.