Well, I was closeCambo wrote:Death metal predominantly uses growls, peppered with other harsh vocalisations, if it's almost all shrieking, you're probably listening to black metal or something with a black metal influence. No apologies necessary, while I know many metal heads get uppity about this stuff, I'm really the opposite of that.
As for the harsh vocals, I've come to love them as the most fitting vocal expression of such harsh, aggressive, evil sounding music.

I tend to be quite varied in my musical listening (even from song to song). The Mrs. tells me I'm the only person she's ever met who can, in the course of three or four songs, go from quiet Eric Clapton to the most aggressive Ministry to ZZ Top to The Cranberries.
But most of the heavier stuff I listen to is 80's thrash like Testament, Metallica, Megadeth or the more technical stuff, like the operatic female fronted bands (Nightwish, Epica), or more prog wizard metal bands, like Fairyland.
Though I will eagerly admit a fondness for Alestorm. ARRR!!! PIRATE METAL FOREVER MATEYS!!!!