Catholicism reverts (again)
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Tell you what LM, when you're ready to have a reasonable discussion about this, PM me. You want to play childish semantic games, you don't need me for that.
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"I believe there are more instances of the abridgment of the freedom of the people by gradual and silent encroachments of those in power than by violent and sudden usurpations." - James Madison
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"Men and women range themselves into three classes or orders of intelligence; you can tell the lowest class by their habit of always talking about persons; the next by the fact that their habit is always to converse about things; the highest by their preference for the discussion of ideas." - Charles Stewart
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"I believe there are more instances of the abridgment of the freedom of the people by gradual and silent encroachments of those in power than by violent and sudden usurpations." - James Madison
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I had actually mentioned the difference between me saying a prayer for someone at night, versus a group of people conducting a ceremony to retroactively baptize someone who is dead into a faith that they did not express a desire in life to become a part of.Dromond wrote:Tell me the difference of praying for me alive and dead, when your experience tells you I wouldn't appreciate either.
The difference to me is crystal clear, but I will draw it out: one is a wishful prayer or prayerful wish, depending on how much stock you put in prayer. The other is a formal and posthumous induction of someoneinto a faith they had no part of in life. It is NOT just a difference of scale. Totally different things in my mind.
I'm not talking about whether you want to mentioned by me in my prayers. If I'm praying them, they're *my* prayers - and if I am praying for your instant death, your gradual conversion, or that you win the lottery tomorrow, well that's between my conscience and God, isn't it? Whether or not you are told of my prayers is inconsequential to the prayer itself. Do you feel your ears burning or something?
It is 100% your perception and your choice to take it as a sweet nothing, or as a heartfelt wish that (darn it) can't come true because you just don't care for my religion, or an arrogant act by someone who is lording their supposedly superior religion over you. So see it how you will.
Believe me, I know there are plenty of people out there that do believe you and I are going straight to Hell if we don't buy Jesus Brand X. These people are fervently praying their eyes out for our instant and irrevocable conversion. Some people knock door to door trying to find converts. Some people learn foreign languages and travel to distant lands to bring Jesus and food to people who have nothing. Some people have potluck dinners and invite nonmembers for some fellowship, hoping to win them over. Some people pray quietly for the conversion of others. Some people beat their breasts and wail publicly for the soon-to-be-damned souls of the nonbelievers. And some people could care less.
Would it really kill you to find out why the person who is praying for you is praying for you? Try to take it the way it was meant. Or don't. Either way, it's still your choice.
And hey, the offense you all tell us you're taking about a prayer that was made on your behalf just gives us arrogant people more of a chance to talk more about our religion - i.e., more chances to convert you
[Personally, I find hard-sell evangelizing very distasteful, because it's always the fundies that are doing it, and they always seem like they are working from a sales script, just like door-2-door vacuum cleaner salesmen. I think it cheapens the product to sell it that way, because to me it smacks of desperation.]
dw
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Absolutely. Attraction rather than promotion.DukkhaWaynhim wrote:[Personally, I find hard-sell evangelizing very distasteful, because it's always the fundies that are doing it, and they always seem like they are working from a sales script, just like door-2-door vacuum cleaner salesmen. I think it cheapens the product to sell it that way, because to me it smacks of desperation.]
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"Men and women range themselves into three classes or orders of intelligence; you can tell the lowest class by their habit of always talking about persons; the next by the fact that their habit is always to converse about things; the highest by their preference for the discussion of ideas." - Charles Stewart
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"I believe there are more instances of the abridgment of the freedom of the people by gradual and silent encroachments of those in power than by violent and sudden usurpations." - James Madison
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"Men and women range themselves into three classes or orders of intelligence; you can tell the lowest class by their habit of always talking about persons; the next by the fact that their habit is always to converse about things; the highest by their preference for the discussion of ideas." - Charles Stewart
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"I believe there are more instances of the abridgment of the freedom of the people by gradual and silent encroachments of those in power than by violent and sudden usurpations." - James Madison
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Bingo. So pray for the Jews all you want...just don't tell them about it. If they don't know, they can't be offended.Cail wrote:If you told me that my praying for you was offending you, I'd stop telling you about it.
(I'm firmly of the belief that what you don't know won't hurt you. It might be dishonest Esmer, but that's as far as I'll go. Of course, I don't have that problem with negative energy either.
)Actually LuciMay, I responded to DW's post.
And definitely agree iwth this:And of course, I believe in our right to do what we want as long as it doesn't harm others quantifiably. Esmer, I'd check to make sure you were using a sufficient calibre to get the job done.DW wrote:The Jews felt the need to publicly disapprove of the reassertion of the Latin mass, because the Catholics felt the need to make that reassertion public.
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Its a catch 22. If I truly believe that my religion is correct and I have total faith in that religion and if that religion says that you believe this way or you cant go to heaven, then by default all other religions that dont believe that way are deficient in the means to get to heaven. However I dont see that in itself as arrogance. The person may express it arrogantly and might be arrogant in his/her belief...but then they might not. It would depend on whether what they do meets the definition of arrogance. It could...but it also could not. You would have to be able to see into the heart of the person doing the praying to know if they were doing it out of a feeling of self importance or superiority or whether it was just out of a generosity of spirit to share 'salvation'.Lord Mhoram wrote:
edit: And you're all getting hung up on the idea that the prayers themselves are arrogant. Not so. It has nothing to do with the action, nor even the intent, but rather, the sentiment: I am praying for you because your faith is deficient. I can call it "sharing," I can say that all religions are fundamentally the same, but all of this is meaningless in the face of the underlying message that salvation can be achieved, at least ideally, in one way. That one way happens to not be yours, so I will pray for your soul. That is arrogance.
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2. offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride
Arrogant -
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Marked by or arising from a feeling or assumption of one's superiority toward others.
We miss you Tracie but your Spirit will always shine brightly on the Watch 
I don't know who would be offended about what would happen to their body after their death. You're dead, you wouldn't know. I think people look for reasons to be offended, now we're taking it to places where we're not even alive yet we're offended.
I heard a good message last night, which I couldn't help but think about this topic. He was talking about Ephesians 2, v1-3
As a Christian, it is painful to see others caught in this current. To see the enslavement. Would I mention something to the alcoholic? Would I listen to him when he says "get lost"? If so, that's not very loving. He's harming himself, possibly others. But even if only himself, if I care, I won't stop b/c he asks me too, whether he considers it arrogant or not.
But then, verse 4 begins:
I heard a good message last night, which I couldn't help but think about this topic. He was talking about Ephesians 2, v1-3
A good way to think of 'walked according to the course of this world', is to imagine a current, and you're just swept along in it. You have no control. This current is according to the prince of the power of the air (Satan). Satan has created this current, and those who are dead are caught in this current. They may think they are in control, but are being swept along (you might say enslaved) by this current. Like the alcoholic, who thinks he's in control until he decides to try to control his addiction, then finds how strong the current is.AND you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins,
Eph 2:2
in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience,
Eph 2:3
among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others.
As a Christian, it is painful to see others caught in this current. To see the enslavement. Would I mention something to the alcoholic? Would I listen to him when he says "get lost"? If so, that's not very loving. He's harming himself, possibly others. But even if only himself, if I care, I won't stop b/c he asks me too, whether he considers it arrogant or not.
But then, verse 4 begins:
What a great 'But.' By His mercy He pulls us out of the current. The pastor last night likened it to a dog on a boat, going against the current, but the dog's not doing anything, just sittin there w/its tongue hanging out.But God
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"Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur."
Whatever is said in Latin sounds profound.
I believe in the One who says there is life after this.
Now tell me how much more open can my mind be?
"Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur."
Whatever is said in Latin sounds profound.
I believe in the One who says there is life after this.
Now tell me how much more open can my mind be?
I don't buy that. Is necrophilia OK?Cybrweez wrote:I don't know who would be offended about what would happen to their body after their death. You're dead, you wouldn't know. I think people look for reasons to be offended, now we're taking it to places where we're not even alive yet we're offended.
I'm Catholic, I want a Catholic funeral, and I've made arrangements for that to happen. Whether or not I'll know if that happens is hardly the point, it's what I want, and it does no harm to anyone else.
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"Men and women range themselves into three classes or orders of intelligence; you can tell the lowest class by their habit of always talking about persons; the next by the fact that their habit is always to converse about things; the highest by their preference for the discussion of ideas." - Charles Stewart
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"I believe there are more instances of the abridgment of the freedom of the people by gradual and silent encroachments of those in power than by violent and sudden usurpations." - James Madison
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"Men and women range themselves into three classes or orders of intelligence; you can tell the lowest class by their habit of always talking about persons; the next by the fact that their habit is always to converse about things; the highest by their preference for the discussion of ideas." - Charles Stewart
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"I believe there are more instances of the abridgment of the freedom of the people by gradual and silent encroachments of those in power than by violent and sudden usurpations." - James Madison
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i'm having a viking funeral! 
you're all invited to shoot burning arrows at me!!! 
(you think i'm kidding but i'm NOT)
oh yeah...about this...
dude...you're totally reaching there. you know exactly what i was saying.
you're twisting my words to suit your argument because you're offended that i said what goes on in ANYBODY'S church behind the closed doors of that church isn't anybody else's business.
NOW...
hang on...i have to go back and check something before i continue...brb.
ok...back.
so it looks to me like the Anti-Defamation League brought this particular part of the revived mass to public attention.
doesn't look like the pope announced that all catholics were now to start praying for the lost souls of all jews.
once again...this looks to be a POLITICAL move. it stinks to high heaven (whatever heaven you believe in) of politics.
somebody's being a bit of a WATCH DOG, don't you think????? hmmmm?
watch dogs are only good if they can tell the difference between the good mail man and the burgler.
and just LOOK at the fall out on the pages of this thread. look how the whole issue POLARIZED us.
i just don't think THAT is a good thing. not at all i don't.
over something as GOOD as prayer.
you're all invited to shoot burning arrows at me!!! (you think i'm kidding but i'm NOT)
oh yeah...about this...
Dromond wrote:And Lucimay, your saying that the Jews have no right to be critical of what the Catholics say about them behind closed doors ignores 1000+ years of anti-Semitism, what they did say about them, in secret and out in the open, and all the agony bestowed upon many of their race by this same group.
dude...you're totally reaching there. you know exactly what i was saying.
you're twisting my words to suit your argument because you're offended that i said what goes on in ANYBODY'S church behind the closed doors of that church isn't anybody else's business.
NOW...
hang on...i have to go back and check something before i continue...brb.
ok...back.
so it looks to me like the Anti-Defamation League brought this particular part of the revived mass to public attention.
doesn't look like the pope announced that all catholics were now to start praying for the lost souls of all jews.
once again...this looks to be a POLITICAL move. it stinks to high heaven (whatever heaven you believe in) of politics.
somebody's being a bit of a WATCH DOG, don't you think????? hmmmm?
watch dogs are only good if they can tell the difference between the good mail man and the burgler.
and just LOOK at the fall out on the pages of this thread. look how the whole issue POLARIZED us.
i just don't think THAT is a good thing. not at all i don't.
over something as GOOD as prayer.
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i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
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cause... i'm from Kentucky
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have you ever tried explaining yourself
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~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies
i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio
a straight edge for legends at
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lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
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no. not till i'm dead. 
you're more advanced than a cockroach,
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies
i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio
a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
~ dennis r wood ~
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies
i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio
a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
~ dennis r wood ~
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heh. i'm disallowing you to SNACKRIFICE anybody...
but if you go against my wishes and snackrifice somebody...
can you make it a dude instead of a wench pretty please???
but if you go against my wishes and snackrifice somebody...
can you make it a dude instead of a wench pretty please???
you're more advanced than a cockroach,
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies
i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio
a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
~ dennis r wood ~
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies
i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio
a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
~ dennis r wood ~
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Uh... I don't know if I could bring myself to kill David Bowie... I mean, sex him up, yes, but... kill?Lucimay wrote:heh. i'm disallowing you to SNACKRIFICE anybody...
but if you go against my wishes and snackrifice somebody...
can you make it a dude instead of a wench pretty please???
Well, he is getting old... if you don't die soon, he may die of cardiac arrest during the sexing.
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Religion always polarises people Lucimay.
I agree with cybrweez on this one: If you think you have the one true faith that will bring redemption only to those who have it, it is your duty (if you like people in general) to pray/work for the conversion of others.
As a consequence of these two sentences I am a preaching atheism. I can't really pray for the conversion of others
I agree with cybrweez on this one: If you think you have the one true faith that will bring redemption only to those who have it, it is your duty (if you like people in general) to pray/work for the conversion of others.
As a consequence of these two sentences I am a preaching atheism. I can't really pray for the conversion of others
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Prebe,
I actually completely agree with that. Doesn't make it right, or even morally justifiable. The "one faith" ideology is an inherent flaw of religiosity in general, as far as I can see. If anyone is aware of a religion that says that all faiths are capable of leading to salvation, and that conversion is therefore completely unnecessary, I would be very interested in seeing that.If you think you have the one true faith that will bring redemption only to those who have it, it is your duty (if you like people in general) to pray/work for the conversion of others.
Cail, I could really care less what happens to my body when I'm dead. Sure, I have preferences, but if my preferences are not met, I won't be upset about it. The funeral has no bearing on the afterlife, and like I said, why would I even bother to think about how offended I would be, when I would never know.
--Andy
"Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur."
Whatever is said in Latin sounds profound.
I believe in the One who says there is life after this.
Now tell me how much more open can my mind be?
"Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur."
Whatever is said in Latin sounds profound.
I believe in the One who says there is life after this.
Now tell me how much more open can my mind be?
LM, morally justifiable by whom?Lord Mhoram wrote:I actually completely agree with that. Doesn't make it right, or even morally justifiable. The "one faith" ideology is an inherent flaw of religiosity in general, as far as I can see. If anyone is aware of a religion that says that all faiths are capable of leading to salvation, and that conversion is therefore completely unnecessary, I would be very interested in seeing that.
And this inherent flaw, are you saying it should be your way instead, that there is no "one faith?" Sounds like an inherent flaw.
--Andy
"Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur."
Whatever is said in Latin sounds profound.
I believe in the One who says there is life after this.
Now tell me how much more open can my mind be?
"Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum sonatur."
Whatever is said in Latin sounds profound.
I believe in the One who says there is life after this.
Now tell me how much more open can my mind be?
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Emo Leper... our valiant attempts to hijack this thread were in vain.
you're more advanced than a cockroach,
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies
i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio
a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
~ dennis r wood ~
have you ever tried explaining yourself
to one of them?
~ alan bates, the mothman prophecies
i've had this with actors before, on the set,
where they get upset about the [size of my]
trailer, and i'm always like...take my trailer,
cause... i'm from Kentucky
and that's not what we brag about.
~ george clooney, inside the actor's studio
a straight edge for legends at
the fold - searching for our
lost cities of gold. burnt tar,
gravel pits. sixteen gears switch.
Haphazard Lucy strolls by.
~ dennis r wood ~