Good luck, Orlion. And take heart: it's only a day. The bride and groom are stuck with one another forever.
We have a local cheese shop called Cheesetique that's attempting to edumacate us brutish 'Muricans about the good stuff.

I buy Ghirardelli chocolate for the peppermint bark I make at the holidays, and people always rave about it.

As for coffee...I have no explanation. I find most of what Starbucks sells to be undrinkable -- I hate the burned taste -- but Folgers is too weeny for me. And I can't stand instant.
As for me: I don't want to speak too soon, but threatening to file for a partition on my mother's house may have worked. My brother is beginning the process of closing Mom's estate, at long last. And in his last e-mail, he actually opened the door to a discussion about buying me out of my interest in the house.

I spent way too much time yesterday looking online at land listings in Colorado....