How do you feel today? v. 3.0
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- Linna Heartbooger
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I'm having a rough couple of days.
On the plus side, I told my family Sorus' moths-at-the-camping-site story, so I wanted to check in about that.
Got a good chuckle from one person, (either for the "I knew this to be a lie," or for "quantity of moths") who said, "hmmm, let's see.. only light source for miles around..."
On the plus side, I told my family Sorus' moths-at-the-camping-site story, so I wanted to check in about that.

Got a good chuckle from one person, (either for the "I knew this to be a lie," or for "quantity of moths") who said, "hmmm, let's see.. only light source for miles around..."
"People without hope not only don't write novels, but what is more to the point, they don't read them.
They don't take long looks at anything, because they lack the courage.
The way to despair is to refuse to have any kind of experience, and the novel, of course, is a way to have experience."
-Flannery O'Connor
"In spite of much that militates against quietness there are people who still read books. They are the people who keep me going."
-Elisabeth Elliot, Preface, "A Chance to Die: The Life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael"
They don't take long looks at anything, because they lack the courage.
The way to despair is to refuse to have any kind of experience, and the novel, of course, is a way to have experience."
-Flannery O'Connor
"In spite of much that militates against quietness there are people who still read books. They are the people who keep me going."
-Elisabeth Elliot, Preface, "A Chance to Die: The Life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael"
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Oh, it can take even longer...much longer sometimes.Sorus wrote: Six weeks seems excessive - but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen here.

So that was a little awkward.

Old friend of mine in the UK dated his daughter Indy for years.sgt.null wrote:saw Roger Waters live.
As for me, I feel like it's Monday. No doubt something calamitous is hanging over my head, but it hasn't landed yet so...so far so good?
--A
- Linna Heartbooger
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ahh, you've got a tropical storm on your hands over there...
over here, the skies are clear...
Today is looking up.
over here, the skies are clear...
Today is looking up.
"People without hope not only don't write novels, but what is more to the point, they don't read them.
They don't take long looks at anything, because they lack the courage.
The way to despair is to refuse to have any kind of experience, and the novel, of course, is a way to have experience."
-Flannery O'Connor
"In spite of much that militates against quietness there are people who still read books. They are the people who keep me going."
-Elisabeth Elliot, Preface, "A Chance to Die: The Life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael"
They don't take long looks at anything, because they lack the courage.
The way to despair is to refuse to have any kind of experience, and the novel, of course, is a way to have experience."
-Flannery O'Connor
"In spite of much that militates against quietness there are people who still read books. They are the people who keep me going."
-Elisabeth Elliot, Preface, "A Chance to Die: The Life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael"
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Clear skies in NY for a second day in a row!! Must be a record.
Sorry I haven't been around much. I went on vacation to Bar Harbor, ME, with my sister and it was great. (Stag of the dawn has been in Nigeria, I pick him up at JFK tomorrow.) Came back and heard that my old man was really sick, so I went down to see him. He's not in a good way.
I could get just enraged at my 2 sisters who live in the US because one never EVER goes to see him 2 1/2 hours away, while the other lives across the street and didn't realize that he was practically dying. Of course, he covers it up pretty well, but one look around his house and you know things aren't right. But, I can't indulge those sentiments right now because I really need their help and support getting him to a level of care that he needs.
Other than this situation, I have been having a fantastic summer. I've lost 20 lbs and feel really strong. I literally cannot remember the last time I was sick, even a cold. I think God knew that I needed all my strength to cope with Dad's situation.
Sorry I haven't been around much. I went on vacation to Bar Harbor, ME, with my sister and it was great. (Stag of the dawn has been in Nigeria, I pick him up at JFK tomorrow.) Came back and heard that my old man was really sick, so I went down to see him. He's not in a good way.
I could get just enraged at my 2 sisters who live in the US because one never EVER goes to see him 2 1/2 hours away, while the other lives across the street and didn't realize that he was practically dying. Of course, he covers it up pretty well, but one look around his house and you know things aren't right. But, I can't indulge those sentiments right now because I really need their help and support getting him to a level of care that he needs.
Other than this situation, I have been having a fantastic summer. I've lost 20 lbs and feel really strong. I literally cannot remember the last time I was sick, even a cold. I think God knew that I needed all my strength to cope with Dad's situation.
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ahhhh... if only all our creativity in wickedness could be fixed by "Corrupt a Wish." - Linna Heartlistener
ahhhh... if only all our creativity in wickedness could be fixed by "Corrupt a Wish." - Linna Heartlistener
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I'm so sorry, Deer. I never know what to say in these situations. My mother is getting up there in years and had a recent health scare (that's not quite over), and that's the main source of my stress for the last couple of weeks. This whole sort of thing has been an elephant in the room for most of my life, but lately it feels like the room is either getting smaller or the elephant is getting bigger.
...I was trying to think of something upbeat to say, but so much for that. Stay strong.
...I was trying to think of something upbeat to say, but so much for that. Stay strong.
Oh, a change is coming, feel these doors now closing
Is there no world for tomorrow, if we wait for today?
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Thanks, Sorus. I am just glad I happen to be on sabbatical from teaching till the end of the year, and have the time to do something for him (weekends will be very busy but weekdays fairly flexible for the next few months).
I am just kind of perplexed at my sisters. They really should have gotten over the little hurts that happened decades ago. Dad wasn't perfect, but he tried his best and he was a great Dad in a lot of ways. Generous, kind, creative, intelligent, fun; an avid reader and music appreciator. I love the old guy and it's hard to see him failing mentally and physically. But that's life.
There are no easy answers, but you have to figure it out anyway.
I am just kind of perplexed at my sisters. They really should have gotten over the little hurts that happened decades ago. Dad wasn't perfect, but he tried his best and he was a great Dad in a lot of ways. Generous, kind, creative, intelligent, fun; an avid reader and music appreciator. I love the old guy and it's hard to see him failing mentally and physically. But that's life.
There are no easy answers, but you have to figure it out anyway.
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle. -Philo of Alexandria
ahhhh... if only all our creativity in wickedness could be fixed by "Corrupt a Wish." - Linna Heartlistener
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Sorry to hear work sucks, null. Having to spend 8 or 9 hours a day doing what someone else wants is difficult enough but when you dislike what you are doing on top of that it truly does suck.
Another Thursday has arrived. Let's all try to make the most of it.
Another Thursday has arrived. Let's all try to make the most of it.

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