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- Menolly
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Please continue to update us here on how much John is driving y'all crazy. If he does not adapt in a week or so, I seriously think you need to see if there is a way to relocate him until the repairs are done. Whether it is through contacting his family, or the local mental health center. It sounds as if his inability to deal with change (taking care of the rug) or stress caused by impaired sensory processing (the inablilty to tune out the hammering) is going to cause problems for all.
*sigh*
This experience for y'all is eye opening for me as well. I truly do not know how to address situations like this for when Beorn is on his own. I know he will not handle crises typically. The only thing I can come up with is to hope as he becomes an adult that although I pray he'll function well enough to be able to hold a job and not receive SSI, that he will also know to register himself with whatever autism group is local to help in times of crises.
Of course Hyperception and I will always encourage Beorn to call us. And we hope he will one day find that one person to spend his life with. But you say John is in his late 50s/early 60s and it sounds like he's alone. There is always that possibility for Beorn, and I guess Hyperception and I need to prepare for that.
*sigh*
This experience for y'all is eye opening for me as well. I truly do not know how to address situations like this for when Beorn is on his own. I know he will not handle crises typically. The only thing I can come up with is to hope as he becomes an adult that although I pray he'll function well enough to be able to hold a job and not receive SSI, that he will also know to register himself with whatever autism group is local to help in times of crises.
Of course Hyperception and I will always encourage Beorn to call us. And we hope he will one day find that one person to spend his life with. But you say John is in his late 50s/early 60s and it sounds like he's alone. There is always that possibility for Beorn, and I guess Hyperception and I need to prepare for that.

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Yes he is, Danlo. Yes he is. BTY, I love you and The Tam Monster too. I miss you guys fiercely. When the heck are you guys coming back.... minus the JD?
OR maybe I should be writing when are we coming to you?




Now if I could just find a way to wear live bees as jewelry all the time.....
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I don't think there are nearby, and in any case I doubt Germans would dare pick up an English book which is the second of a tetralogy which in itself is the third part of a series, AND a book which uses strange and unfamiliar vocabulary to bootMenolly wrote:If you can't cancel/return one Xar, could you donate it to a local library or high school library? I know there would be readers who would appreciate it!

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why not run a contest here on the watch and give it away?Xar wrote:I just found out that I accidentally ordered TWO copies of Fatal Revenant from different bookstores... what am I going to do with the second? *scratches head*
Becoming Elijah has been released from Calderwood Books!
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- Menolly
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*eyes brightening*iQuestor wrote:why not run a contest here on the watch and give it away?Xar wrote:I just found out that I accidentally ordered TWO copies of Fatal Revenant from different bookstores... what am I going to do with the second? *scratches head*
Ooo! I like contests!
...as long as I don't have to get creative to enter...

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More reasonable than my suggestion of forcing him to relocate temporarily.
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So, I am backing a bmw out of the shop so that this vw tuareg can back out of the shop and he backs right into the front of the bmw. Now I have to call my customer and tell them that their car got jacked up by accident. Luckily this guy knows it was totally his fault and has already called his insurance company. Ugh.
Now if I could just find a way to wear live bees as jewelry all the time.....
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My cousin ran off the road a couple of days ago, hit a tree and died. I was a pallbearer today at the funeral. Here is the kicker: I really did not like him, he was a drug addict who neglected his family and had put them through years of shit, he was a redneck, and a racist. While they were putting him in the ground and his sister was crying next to me, I was thinking "Michelle (his wife), and Ashley, (his 7 year old daughter) are most likely going to be better off in the long run because of this". I am a cruel bastard I guess.
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SBG: It's one of those times where the midset that we're all barraged with by the news that EVERY death is a "tragedy." I think it sounds warranted on his part, and I agree that (from what I garner) they'll be better off in the long run.
CJ: THAT SUCKS. Is there any way that the shop or you can be held accountable or anything?
I: amd feeling fine. Went creek stomping today, and my feet were COLD. But it was worth it. SUPER fun.
CJ: THAT SUCKS. Is there any way that the shop or you can be held accountable or anything?
I: amd feeling fine. Went creek stomping today, and my feet were COLD. But it was worth it. SUPER fun.
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