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Are you (or is your spouse) an active dad or passive dad?

Poll ended at Mon Sep 08, 2003 9:43 am

Active dad
6
75%
Passive dad
2
25%
 
Total votes: 8

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Post by Biff »

As a father of two, I would be remise if I didn't comment on my two beauties. They are my soul. Even when the little one fills her diaper.

All to many times we dad's get a bad rap... I hear that Dad's don’t change diapers, they don’t sing songs, and they don’t do the wiggles dance... WELL I DO!!! Please tell me I am not alone!
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I think I'm somewhere in between, though mostly active. You'd have to ask Hellfire for an honest assessment, however. Please feel free to join in our little gush-fest here.
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im not a dad, but i may as well b. all my friends call me dad, except 4 those i live with, who call me the cleaning nazi. :oops:

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Post by Infelice »

I'm not a Dad either , but I would be interested to know just how many Dads here actually help out in the kitchen??? I know Sky can rustle up some good grub.....what about the rest of you guys??? :)
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How the hell did this get here??? :? :evil:
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Post by variol son »

i do most of the cooking in our home. its not that exciting, but i am getting better. i also dont have 2 do the dishes. :D

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I think I do about half.

On a related note, anybody ever have Dad's Rootbeer?
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Post by Biff »

Lord, didn't know this would bring up so many thoughts...

Lets see,

Dad's Rootbeer: Yes, seconded only by A&W But they have that whole Ice-cream thing going... with out the Ice-cream dead tie.

Cooking: Had you tuned in last night, I had my Yahoo webcam on while I fixed the 5lbs of shrimp I got from the coast. 2.5lbs went to plain peal N eat. 1.25 each went to Garlic sautéed and Hickory sautéed shrimp platters! Had a house full, they always come when I make shrimp! Also, my wife loves to run out of food in the house... because, that’s when I put on my creativity hat and bust out with a 10 course feast made form this and that...

And Turiya, after posting 1253 times in here, I would well imagine you know full well how this got in here!
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Post by duchess of malfi »

My husband loves to cook...every Sunday he cooks up the biggest breakfast you've ever seein in your life. :) And since I have worked second and third shift for over fifteen years, he's done his share of changing diapers, etc. too. :)
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duchess of malfi wrote:My husband loves to cook...every Sunday he cooks up the biggest breakfast you've ever seein in your life. :) And since I have worked second and third shift for over fifteen years, he's done his share of changing diapers, etc. too. :)
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we share everything .. and we do as much stuff together as we can ..

as for the kids ;) LOL .. we'd like them to do more .. hehe .. lol .. but what can we say???

we schedule family activities .. so that we can do stuff together .. but not just run of the mill stuff .. but fun stuff ..

every monday night we have family night .. at home .. we have games, a lesson where we look at all stuff ethical to all stuff educational .. like we recently had a grammar night ;) lol .. that was fun :|

actually it was .. ;)

life gets away from you so easily and sucked into the black hole where all time goes .. and we find that we have to schedule quality into our time ;)

yeah its fun in the given home .. its like living in school all the time ;) lol .. and never being able to escape!!

well not till their adults anyway .. i hope ;)
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Infelice wrote:I'm not a Dad either , but I would be interested to know just how many Dads here actually help out in the kitchen??? I know Sky can rustle up some good grub.....what about the rest of you guys??? :)
I love to cook and certainly know my way around a kitchen! :wink: ;) :wink: 8) Don't make me bring out the BIG pots!
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Post by Furls Fire »

My hubby cooks better then I do! So I let HIM do it when he's able :) He works long hours, but still finds time for his family...he's a great Dad. :)
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Post by Biff »

I am so pumped to here that most of you have great fathers in your homes. Too often, us dad's get a bum rap, and it ticks me off.

But that does appear to be the trend, Dads these days seem to have changed from how our fathers had been. We are more touchy feely then they had been. But have we lost something along the way?
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Post by Dromond »

Caer Sylvanus wrote:I think I do about half.

On a related note, anybody ever have Dad's Rootbeer?
MAN, I haven't seen or had it for decades!! I love DAD'S!
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Post by Ryzel »

In the unlikely event that I actually have a child I guess you would have to call me "Absent Dad". :D
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Post by The Leper Fairy »

My dad is really active... A little too much so sometimes though. My curfew is ridiculous. But he's always been there... building me a treehouse, making sand castles, reading to me everynight until I fell asleep... Plus he cooks almost everynight! Good stuff too, always trying new and weird recipes.
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Oh, and the rootbeer is good too :wink:
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Post by Hellfire »

The Caer is a sort of active dad. He takes over but I always have to ask and that is good enough for me. :wink: I do alot of asking. I definately handle the majority of the housework but I stay home too- for now. I also do about 3/5 of the cooking but the really good meals he can take half or more of the credit for. He is a very creative cooker and I always have to go by the book (literally) just to rival one of his feast. I have yet to see him even glance at recipe card in years.
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Post by Skyweir »

Lord Trevor is a great dad .. and a great partner .. he never balks at cleaning or cooking and is always happy to lend a hand .. and often takes the major role ;)

he is a great cook .. so cant complain there ;)

and the kids love him to death .. and sometimes i think they will be the death of us both ;) lol

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