Happy Easter, Passover, Eostre.. happy long weekend .. to all.
I found this intriguing

.. but not in a good way
peter wrote:The pernicious effect of this new practice of 'unfriending' is one of the beastliest aspects of the already highly questionable activity of social media trawling. A woman I work with has (along with all the rest of her family) become estranged from her son over his forthcoming wedding plans. After a tearful explanation to me of the circumstances she finished with a final emotionally charged wail that he had even "unfriended us on Facebook!"
So many times I have had people in the shop bemoaning the final breakdown of friendships/relationships with this practice, that it is apparent that it has become the almost ultimate act of severence that one can commit. What people fail to get of course is that the whole thing is reflective of the shallow vacuous nature of the 'friendships' carried out over the platforms in the first place (at least the faster majority of them anyway). When social media becomes just an indolent replacement for actually maintaining physical contact with our circle of valued friends, all the value is lost anyway and by far the largest proportion of unfriending is done between those who were not in any true sense friends anyway. But for poor people like my work mate, the process is elevated into a symbolic gesture from which something as important as a mother - son relationship may never recover.
Theres none so strange as folk Pete

.. its kinda ironic because I joined Facebook to keep in touch with my ever scattering offspring. And it has been good for that over the years. Especially now I have a much adored grandchild. I love the pics they post, almost on a daily basis on either Facey, Instagram, Snapchat or messenger.
The problem I see is people. And this is going to sound awful .. but am a Brit, but theyre right in to family dramas. Or maybe its limited to my perverted experience with Brit rellies. My cousin had a falling out with my Aunt and they havent spoken for years. Its an anathema to me.
Facebook is only as effective as the peeps that use it. I actually dont like unfriending on principle .. though I have. I expect the best of people until they prove otherwise.
Its a social media button, it means only that you dont see that persons goings on in your feed. If youre momentarily pissed that can be an advantage.
You can be friends with whoever you like, or not. Up to each individual.
She should, as we all should be more worried about real life relationships ... and care less about that act on social media. People can become over invested in things like this.
I like that Facebook or messenger connects me with people Id rarely or never see, like some of the Watchers here that I get to meet and see. I love it for that
I do hope to organise a Down Under Watchy get together .. cos nothing beats catching up in RL.
Theres a lot of negativity about Facebook.. but I think you use it how you want to. Youre an adult and if youre not happy with this or that .. then you need to deal with that.
Not wanting to sound harsh .. but also knowing that kinda does sound harsh.
