wow this discussion is getting very meaty!!
Ninq you express yourself really well and I agree with the points you made!!
Cov jr that
was a superlative interpretation of that brilliant complement!! I couldnt agree with Ninq more .. lol .. again
LOL If politicians had the kind of social conscience that Brinn and others here have we would never have need to fear the actions of our leaders!
Fist you made some interesting points and I must ask .. are they points you hold or are you acting per devils advocate?
FMG .. is an objective wrong .. regardless of its acceptance and practice. To me the same is so for women who throw themselves on thier husbands burial pyres! Some do choose this action but not necessarily entirely of their own volition and there are some that are forced to comply with this cultural/religious practice.
So there are categories of compliance .. Is the same act right for the individual who choses to comply? but that very act is not right for the individual who is forced to comply??
The act is a wrong regardless of the degree of compliance imo. As for the individual's right to choose how to act .. I can not agree more that nothing short of 'harm' even 'self-harm' should prevent an individual from acting as they choose.
In both cases of FMG .. and the PAKISTANI practice (or wherever this is prevalent) of widows being burned with their dearly departed spouses .. are acts reprehensible to notions of humanity! and humaness!
These acts are inhumane acts .. and acts of violence .. Violating an individuals inherent right to life ..
I say inherent losely .. in search of a more appropriate term .. but to signify that we are born to life .. to live .. anything that compromises that purpose is the anti-thesis of humanity!
Brinn wrote:If a widow chooses to immolate herself she has that right in my book.
Now you guys are talking my language
She has the right of choice .. but she does not have the right of action.
To see these distinct concepts clearly we must seperate and distinguish choice from action.
You see how much volition does a women in this scenario really possess?? As Fist has already said .. these choices are premeditated on cultural and religious conditioning. Is it her choice if she should so choose to throw herself on a burning pyre next to her husband? Or is it a choice she has made because of what she has learned that she is EXPECTED to make?
Is it a choice that with re-education she would make differently? By re-education I mean .. not "conditioning" .. but education. There is a movement of women in Pakistan and India "The National Committee of Women" are speaking out against these inhumane and barbaric practices!
Interesting to note that one posited motivation for such acts comes from greed. .. but read on and decide for yourself.
For Hindu women in India, the rite of Suttee was abolished first by the Muslim emperor, Akber, then the British in 1829. Suttee was the ritual suicide or murder of women on the funeral pyres of their dead husbands, an act of immolation reserved for the eilite, for queens. Nonetheless, in the last few decades, there has been throughout India a resurgence and revival of 'dowry-deaths' or bride-burnings, in which young women are driven to suicide by greedy
and rapacious in-laws disappointed in their dowries.
www.chowk.com/show_article.cgi?aid=0000 ... el=gulberg
here is a BBC article covering a ritual Sati .. and addressed is the question of volition or compulsion.
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/2180380.stm
Regardless of the result of the investigation into this death .. this woman's choice was never completely her own. whether the maddened crowd forced her onto the pyre releiving her of choice or whether she sat calmly ontop of the pyre and accepted her horrific fiery death .. The total lack of rationality of this act decries it as free or humane!
The currents of change and regression, the stagnation of rigidly inflexible traditionalism and the absence of family suport- structures in modern self-determinism. The irrational impulses at work in this power struggle trigger an
odyssey into the mind's insanity and hell. As the individual is stripped of power in favor of Group-Think, the collective self-deception of a system steeped in parochial patriarchies, a form of cultural abuse and conditioning occurs: The woman becomes a victim of submission, easily losing her sense of self-esteem and personhood. The manipulators opportunistically exploit the veil of religion and tradition (distorting the true essence of spirituality,) to suit their own selfish and greedy interests and motivations of power. Religion
thus becomes a pretense masking narcissism, egoism, and hubris. The weak and oppressed, primarily women and children, are scapegoated in this power-lust.
www.chowk.com/show_article.cgi?aid=0000 ... el=gulberg
There exists objective rights and wrongs .. When you speak of socially culturally even religious accepted norms .. you speak of subjective opinions through which clear and distinct boundaries are not readily visible.
The means to distinguish an objective view from a subjective one .. is by an examination of the overiding principles involved.
And in this Mill's "harm principle" rises to the occassion. Is there harm associated with this act?