I have only just now read this thread. So here now is my 2 cents......

I agree with a lot of you, and especially Fist, debating is useless and only for those who want to be seen as "right".
A very good friend told me a long time ago, "QUESTION EVERYTHING." And some time after that she asked me, "How would you feel about God, if you found out there was no burning seething hell as we have been taught in church?"
I replied that I would be relieved, and I would feel free to search out and explore GOD and actually get to know Him, maybe. And since that moment that is exactly what I have done.
I literally mentally threw everything I had ever been taught about God (except for the historical facts) into the garbage and began "listening" with my whole being. I have since found that there is something for me--little messages from God, I call them--everywhere, in everything. The scriptures are Truth tainted with man-inspired error, and "hell" is one example. It was meant to scare people into being good and worked to some extent didn't it? But fear is not the reason to love or believe in God. Perfect Love casts out fear or makes it unnecessary. The only burning seething hell is the one we all go through every day in our various daily sufferings.
If Jesus, the Son of God, paid in full the price for ALL creation, then All belong to God and NONE will be lost to HIM. Anything else would imply that He was less than all powerful, less that perfect, surprised or tricked somehow, and trying to figure out how to proceed moment to moment. I could never trust or believe in a god like that. I started on my soul's quest after thirty years of religious bondage.
My first and most important find was that TRUST and FAITH are 2 different things. I now know that FAITH is the result of Knowledge. You can't have faith of or for something you do not know. If we had God's faith, as Jesus said, we could say to a moutain be removed and watch it happen instantly. We do not see this, obviously, because we do not have His faith by experience. So we must TRUST His faith. Trust that God's intelligence is so far above ours that He can BE Trusted.
I also found that there are 2 view points. Ours (human) and God's (divine), and that to keep this in mind brings some relief when it all gets to be too much at times.
I also found that God must have a plan, and being perfect, He never needs to change His mind. He only lets me know what I want or ask to know on a "need to know" basis, and that- according to Him, not me. I only see the parade from my little place on the side line, while He sees the whole big picture from start to finish.
I know this is long, but doesn't even scratch the surface, and I do not mean to say here it is-this is it- because I am searching and listening and would never belittle or make light of anything any one has to say. I am just so thankful to have found all of you and enjoying my freedom to seek and question.
I tell you this with all reverence and respect that I believe God wants us to know Him, and that I am seeing more and more people ditching religion and finding God.
Probably if we all tell the truth, we WANT God to exist, and the opposite is too sad and horrible to deal with. So with that said, I continue in my daily quest for further knowledge, and leave you with the same words with which my friend unlocked my prison all those years ago........QUESTION EVERYTHING. God doesn't mind.
Just some thoughts. Cate
"let the storm of thought spend itself. Presently you will arrive upon a calm sea."......Walter Lanyon