Wayfriend, in one sense, I'm being figurative with my language. You're absolutely right that we are individuals, if for no other reason than the fact that we all have separate bodies. In addition, we also have a consciousness to which no one else has access (unless we want them to, that is . . . ).
However, in another sense, I'm being literal. Conscious beings are not like any other physical object. Physical objects are completely individual. When you put two of them side-by-side, they aren't "together" in any meaningful sense (they are still just as individual as when spread far apart). Physical objects are only "objectively present."
Contrast this with two humans sitting next to each other, engaged in a conversation. We are not merely "objectively present" with each other; we share a mental space that the rock can't share. Consciousness has a quality of "directedness," or intentionality. It is
about things, directed
to things. Rocks and chairs aren't like this. They are not
about anything else. They are truly separate entities.
What does it mean for an entity to be
about another entity? (Think about that for a moment . . . it's quite spooky.) Consciousness is consciousness
OF something. Take that "something" away (the object of consciousness) and you no longer have consciousness. There is no such thing as consciousness without an "object of consciousness." The two are inextricably tied. This connection is fundamental to the existence and structure of consciousness itself. That's what consciousness
is. A joining of subject and object. Part of us--the most important part, in fact--has as its essence a quality that necessarily ties it to the world and to others, that
joins itself with the world and others, and makes them an essential part of itself.
Wayfriend wrote:
If individuality was really anything less than concrete, then we could perhaps find an example where the line is blurred. For example, something happening to one individual which affects another individual in an unexplained way.
I'd say that loved ones dying is a perfect example. Can anyone explain grief? Why should the absence of one individual affect another individual if they are truly separate? In fact, all of our emotional bonds are kind of "spooky action from a distance." The ability to have your self tangled up in the fate of another is something quite unique in the universe.
Wayfriend wrote:Individuals would not need to communicate if they were not in fact distinct individuals. Individuals would not need to learn from others if they were not different individuals. All of these things are essentially ways of one individual conveying what they know to another individual.
Do you ever find out what you believe by writing it down? Or by describing it to another person? Or merely talking to yourself? What you're describing above is the same thing: why do individuals need to talk to
themselves? Why do we need to work things out in our head? Shouldn't we already know what we believe? For myself, I often find that I don't know what I believe on a certain subject until I actually write it out. I'm not talking about deciding what I believe, but actually verbalizing it. I come to know myself in much the same way that others come to know me: from listening to myself speak, and reading what I write. Since this is the case, should I think of my subconsciousness and my consciousness as two separate individuals in need of communication? No. And if we're not going to make such a distinction within an individual, I see no reason for this communication issue to necessitate distinctions between individuals, either. There's nothing inherently contradictory with a universal consciousness needing to talk to itself.
When I say that communication illustrates our transpersonal bonds, I'm not talking about merely the act of communication itself. Sure, we can all see how two minds might be figuratively "joined" during events of mutual comprehension. But I'm talking about something deeper than the
act. I'm talking about the
possibility of communication, what makes this transmission of ideas and feelings possible in the first place. Two people on the verge of communicating are like two ends of a phone connection: the channel is open. We share a mental space. What makes this space possible is our collective experiences which allows us to understand the words we'll be using. A common ground of experience gleaned from living in the same world. Not merely understanding the definitions of the words, but participating in the "language games" we all play. We learn language as a way to interact with the consciousness of others, not merely as a way to interact with definitions of terms.
Wayfriend wrote:If individuality was an illusion, if individuals really blur into each other than being distinct, then there must be some times where the need to convey information from one to another is not necessary. At least sometimes.
Don't you have experiences like this with people close to you, where the two of you know how each other is feeling without saying anything? Maybe you could say there is nonverbal communication going on, a meaningful glance, perhaps. But just the fact that a
glance can have meaning--merely seeing each other--shows how tightly our consciousness can be tied.
Wayfriend wrote:If we are not distinctly seperate, then there is a place where we are joined. What is that place? What does it look like?
I'd say it looks like the world.

Sure, it sounds like a smartass answer. But again, I'm being literal. The world IS our collective perceptions of it--at least the world we live in. There might be a physical universe that was here long before us, and exists external to our perceptions of it, but that's not the universe we live in. We live within our perceptual "spheres." If yours is individual and separate from mine, then how do we ever cross over these boundaries to share our worlds? How do we communicate and know each other? Your perceptions are purely subjective. No one else can perceive them. Thus, the world you inhabit is purely subjective. On the individual hypothesis, how come we're not all solipsists? At some point, you're going to have to admit the paradoxical nature of such a hypothesis, because it is paradoxical for a separate individual living within a purely subjective world to ever transcend himself in order to communicate and know the world.
Either we're each individuals who "magically" transcend our own individuality, or we're all One who "magically" appear to be separate. Both views are equally hard to talk about, but I think more problems are resolved by recognizing our fundamental unity.