Hi, Fist,Fist and Faith wrote:Damn. I had hoped to ignore you, rus. Your refusal to attempt to understand views other than your own, much less to consider that they may be as able to get someone through life as your own, is extremely arrogant, and often leads you to insult everybody else.
Alas, it's not easy to read anything in the Close without reading you, whether directly, or quoted in other people's posts. So, futile though it is, I'm responding yet again.
I am in the latter group. You are wrong. You do not understand. What's a good analogy? A deaf person writing about how musicians are fooling themselves? Or a musician who says deaf people cannot live lives as good as his?rusmeister wrote:Hi Cagliostro,Cagliostro wrote:So which definition of materialism are you going by? The one whose credo is "the one who dies with the most toys wins," or those that believe the material world is all there is, and the spiritual doesn't exist? These are two different groups, and I'm getting a bit confused by this part of the discussion. I've met several materialists who did not believing having the most stuff would make them happy, and I know some Christians that must have the latest and greatest stuff.
I'm really talking about both. The former senses the failure of their philosophy when their house of cards is torn down. The latter simply avoid the implications of meaninglessness by attempting to transfer the meaning to something else (eg, "it means something to me" (or my children or our ancestors 500 years down the road, ignoring that "me" - and everyone else - will also become dust and ashes.) When you get to the logical conclusion of meaninglessness, you're back to despair - the senselessness of going on as if life meant anything. It is a contradiction (not paradox) between their theoretical philosophy and their practice, which always acts as if there is, in fact, meaning, in an actual and permanent sense.
-"It means something to me" is as valid as the method you use to find meaning. The fact that it is not as valid in the system that you embrace does not make it invalid in any objective or logical sense.
-Some people don't bother with even that, because meaning is not necessary. Zen - living in the moment - is a good example of a view that works as well as yours, even though you refuse to believe that.
-Meaninglessness (in the sense that you use the word) does not necessarily lead to despair any more than Christianity necessarily leads to beating homosexuals to death.
I'll give you the compliment of saying your beliefs are the musician, and the rest of us are deaf. The musician can spend his entire life repeating the same old insults about how the deaf don't have a valid life without music. About how they are fooling themselves with painting, literature, and, most foolish of all, silence. And that they should choose to hear.
Or, the musician can stop pretending he is remotely qualified to comment on the quality of life of those who do not hear music. He can stop putting earplugs in, and pretending that he now understands deafness. He can accept that he will never feel what is in the hearts and minds of the deaf, and simply try to understand as well as he can. Even if that understanding is never more than the understanding that the deaf will ever have of music. Perhaps he'll even learn unexpected lessons during his honest attempt to understand those not like him.
Or maybe he'll find that there is nothing to be learned from them. But maybe he'll have learned enough to stop telling them that their lives are not as good or valid as his.
What you call "refusal to understand views other than my own" I call a refusal to accept falsehood. It is true that a person can "get through life" with a whole mass of contradictions between their stated philosophy and the actions (which reflect their actual philosophy).
The words "arrogant" and "insult" are trotted out when argument fails - because there is certainly nothing of any personal superiority in my philosophy, nor any attempt to insult others. There is an infinitely important difference between saying that someone's ideas are wrong and insulting them or insinuating that one is intrinsically better than others. It is wrong of you to take my attack on your beliefs for an attack on your essence, which is what insult and arrogance are all about. If I say your beliefs are wrong - and I do - there is nothing at all arrogant or insulting about it.
However, some things are worth responding to, so to cop your own words, perhaps a small step is possible.
I agree that it does not necessarily lead to despair - but only if you do not think it through to the end. (Ref what I said above about getting through life with a self-contradiction between philosophy and action). Once one grasps that it really does mean meaninglessness, then that immediately extends to everything, making nonsense of everything. Even the Zen thought you reference (which reminds me of Elfquest's "the 'now' of wolf thought") is precisely about not thinking about it - about not extending thought beyond the present moment. You can say that it "works", but I can only concur insofar as it works for a wolf - and at an even lower level of rational value.-Meaninglessness (in the sense that you use the word) does not necessarily lead to despair any more than Christianity necessarily leads to beating homosexuals to death.
If life has no objective meaning (purpose), then all of our actions have no meaning. This applies to anything you may post here, why you get up and go to work (or look for work) in the morning, or anything else that requires reason and choice. I would agree that most people do not think far enough to be able to see that, and so they in fact go on structuring their lives around the assumption of meaning despite their assertions of meaninglessness (or a philosophy that leads to that conclusion).
Since your analogy of the musician is casuistry (and would have to be if my view were correct) there is no point in responding to it. I get what you are trying to say by it, but it happens to be inapplicable. The parallelism doesn't work here. It assumes that your view is correct from the get-go, something that I deny from the get-go. That's the futile part.
This may be the source of perception of arrogance and insult. If this is what you are reading into what I am saying, then a catastrophic misunderstanding is in effect. My life is almost certainly worse than your own. From my standpoint, I am certainly a greater sinner than you are - if for no other reason than that I know so much, yet still I sin*.to stop telling them that their lives are not as good or valid as his.
As to "valid" (I can only take this to mean "belief system - otherwise it is nonsense), then it is nonsense to say that contradictory belief systems are valid. One may or may not correspond with the true ultimate state of affairs - the other certainly does not.
*The word "sin" generally needs translation for the modern mind, which often perceives it as "violation of arbitrary law of imaginary god" when it actually means something more like "action that is damaging to self and others in nature (regardless of whether that damage is perceived or not)".