The thing is, it's
not an inevitable conclusion. Not in an objective, this-is-the-one-and-only-way-reality-works, kind of way. I'm not even the only person on the Watch who thinks this. Certainly, there have been others out there in the world. And
you're no more alone in your view than I am. It's the way our psyches are satisfied.
I can't imagine why you have such a problem with this word.
Psy·che /ˈsaɪki/ Show Spelled[sahy-kee] Show IPA
–noun
1.Classical Mythology. a personification of the soul, which in the form of a beautiful girl was loved by Eros.
2.(lowercase) the human soul, spirit, or mind.
3.(lowercase) Psychology, Psychoanalysis. the mental or psychological structure of a person, esp. as a motive force.
4.Neoplatonism. the second emanation of the One, regarded as a universal consciousness and as the animating principle of the world.
5.a female given name.
Basically, all the things that make you you, and make me me. The sum of our fears, hopes, etc., that determine the ways each of us
can, and
can't, and
must perceive things.
-You
must be eternal. Your psyche cannot tolerate the thought of an end to you.
-There
must be one-and-only-one answer to everything. Your psyche cannot accept that more than one might be equally valid. It flounders in such a setting.
And so, you found a belief system that satisfies these requirements of your psyche. (I'm sure Orthodoxy satisfies other needs of your psyche. I suppose other belief systems could have, but it's possible that it is the only one that meets all of your needs. It certainly seems to be the best.)
OTOH
-I don't
require immortality of any sort. I likely wouldn't refuse it if given the choice. (Depending on the conditions, both in how I acquired it, and its nature once I got it.) But oblivion is no problem.
-The idea that there is one-and-only-one legitimate path to much of
anything is so bizarre, unnecessary, and possibly reprehensible, that I'm sometimes stunned that
anyone can embrace it.
And so, my beliefs reflect all that.
Your beliefs cannot have a reality with no ultimate meaning that has
any meaning. Mine can. And you are not allowed to define "inevitable conclusion" in such a way that only conclusions that agree with your beliefs are inevitable.
As for the elephant analogy, please, don't bother. Analogies are only good for just so much. There's no such thing as a perfect analogy. Even without your help, I can think of many things that differentiate a charging elephant and the implications of death without an afterlife.
It's not as involved a topic for me as it is for you. For you, death and the afterlife are the
point of all this. The
reason. You do things now based on what you believe will happen then. And you believe that even then there are things that happen, and need to be done. Obviously, you will put more thought into certain ideas than I will.
For me, it is only the fact that this will all end for me. Yes, that means no ultimate meaning. My life, and many things within it, mean a lot to me. But to the universe and eternity, nothing means anything. I would be devestated if my children died. The universe and eternity would not even know about it. I will be gone some day, and forgotten not particularly long after that. The universe and eternity don't even know I'm here now.
But that doesn't mean I don't, or shouldn't, or can't find meaning for everything while I'm here. Your insistence that I couldn't if I thought about it, or that the fact that I do is proof of a short-circuit in my thinking is... Well, yeah, arrogant and insulting. It is only incompatible with your beliefs. Your psyche.