Well, I'm not recruiting.rusmeister wrote:Only I don't see anyone advancing a form of Buddhism, paganism, etc that really IS an exception to the general arguments. Heck, maybe your version really IS - but you've sure kept quiet about it.

To answer yours: Am I a hedonist? Well, let's see. I've been divorced since 1997 and have been celibate by choice since then. I drink a little -- maybe once or twice a month -- but I haven't been what is known in the common parlance by the charming term "shitfaced" in, oh, 30 years or so. Haven't used controlled substances recreationally in about the same length of time. I do swear a lot, tho -- maybe that qualifies?

Am I Stoic? After a quick once-over of Wikipedia's (far from exhaustive) entry on Stoicism to make sure I have some idea of what you're talking about, I can say that I'm pretty sure I'm not one of them. For one thing, the Stoics believed that there was no afterlife; I believe there is. The Stoics also believed in making all decisions based on logic and reason; I know that's not so -- sometimes you have to go with your gut. And as far as the Stoics' belief in radiating calm -- well, we've already discussed my tendency to swear.

So I think I've successfully avoided both of your slippery slopes, rus, and I'm still Pagan.


It sounds to me like you fell into a nest of vipers on the West Coast. I understand how that can color one's perceptions. But I'm sure you know that not everybody goes to the extreme that your friend and his acquaintances did. Lots of people who aren't Christian live their lives without ever descending to the very bottom of your slippery slope to ruin. Lots of atheists aren't swingers. Lots of Pagans get married, raise their children, and live moral lives. Lots of gays settle down with one person for the rest of their lives.