TheFallen wrote:rus,
The Partheny prayer absolutely *is* redolent with fear, and there's nothing atypical in that. I can't find a date as to when it was written, but I'd bet that it was mediaeval. The prevailaing zeitgeist at the time was to be obsessed with the physical horrors of death, and this is shown throughout all Western European art and literature - completely understandable, given the prevalence of plagues, wars and a generally short life expectancy... against that context, it's not "unreasonable". I don't dispute that your monk is showing two fears - the fear of the physical aspects of death and the subsequent fear of not attaining the grace of God eternally, but it's fear, nonetheless.
rusmeister wrote:...but for the materialist who talks about the wonderful meaning of a beautiful life, those moments represent the complete destruction of all of that. Death is the final fear. For the monk it's not...
For the materialist, death, being a complete end, completely ends the universe as far as he is concerned. As far as he is concerned, it doesn't matter what happens to the world or anyone in it one second after he dies. Sure, he frequently attributes meaning to what happens in this theater, to his family and friends (and so the noble atheist DOES sacrifice himself to save others, for example), but that meaning means NOTHING to him. It might as well have not happened at all. It's no use talking about how wonderful the world is if it literally means nothing to you the moment you are completely dead. I can't talk about meaning if it must eternally mean nothing to me. When that is grasped, 'glad acceptance" of it becomes nonsense - foolishness.
I am expressly addressing materialism and defending the logical continuation of our existence after death, so I won't argue now with answers that suggest continuation. Here I am only dealing with the idea called "oblivion" and the inherent illogic of it...
So again, I think what you all read is the monk's fear as unreasoning, and missed what he REALLY feared, and judged his fear on your terms rather than his - and didn't comment at all on on what I think relevant to the materialist - the point of the end of meaning (to the materialist); the moment of death.
And you equally miss the point, I'm afraid. It'd be only the most subjectivist of materialists who'd believe that the universe ends when they die... I'm sure that most would buy into the ongoing existence of a universe, despite the fact that they can no longer perceive it. And so here's the thing...
Transferred meaning. Yes, I am a transient being. Yes, death simply *is*, as I, Fist and Ali have stated earlier - it exists, like gravity. Yes, I'll be completely oblivious as to what occurs after I'm dead. However, much like passing the baton in an endless relay race, I can pass something hopefully meaningful onto those I love who will outlive me - my daughter for example. I can do the level best within my abilities to ensure she has the best building blocks - financial, emotional, philosophical - for her own independant life after I am dead. It'll be entirely up to her what she does with those, of course, but even to a materialist (which I'm nor sure I even am, by the way), death is not the end of meaning. Meaningfulness survives, even if I don't... it's just not meaningful to me any more.
BTW thanks for clarifying that death isn't a punishment but a consequence - your example of the teenage drug addict was revealing. However, I still don't get how, given a benevolent God, death can be a universal consequence, applicable to all of humanity. Why do newborns die, then? Is it really down to the "sins of the father"? And what about all those millions who died without being exposed to the word of God? And equally to the point, what about those who died between the time of Moses and the time of Christ... are they ineligible for redemption and eternal life?
I think you have mistaken the nature of the fear. You say "redolent", an emotive word to attempt to express a clinical attitude toward death.
Of course he expresses fear - I do not deny that in the least. I say that the fear is rational and a lack of fear is a product of either a lack of awareness (ignorance in the sense of not being aware), a radically wrong philosophy, or foolishness. The test is the common man throughout history. What is the normal reaction to death throughout human history? What percentage of people really don't hold this common and sensible fear? The answer to the first is obviously nearly everybody, and to the second, only a very tiny percentage of people.
On the world ending, again, you misunderstood me; I'll try not to speak Chinese or Russian.

I do NOT say that the materialist literally thinks that the world ends when he does; but that as far as
he's concerned it ends. It's a common problem I see on electronic forums; one of the greatest challenges that I don't take on/live up to often enough myself, is to describe what the other person is saying so that they can say "Yes - that is what I am saying."
On meaninglessness, I think people smuggle themselves somehow watching the continuation when they speak of meaning continuing in someone else. What I'm saying is that it equally ends for everyone, and from a materialist standpoint is almost certain to come to a complete and final end with no one to 'pass a baton to'. The smuggling is how they bypass the fact that it no longer means anything, and that if it no longer means anything, then, speaking from simple English grammar, the present simple (indefinite) verb tense, it IS meaningless. So it will be equally meaningless to your daughter (for she will surely reach that final end, too) and to everyone. There will be no one and no meaning, and as far as you are concerned, that happens at the point of your death. If you are able to project yourself ahead, like that monk, and see that (although the monk, not starting from materialism, also saw other things, and I would say that there is MUCH more that could be said about his words about the spiritual realities that he perceived, but I'm ignoring them now and trying to stick to the material effects.
Your last questions are good ones, and involved ones. I think CS Lewis's "The Problem of Pain" catholiceducation.org/articles/apologetics/ap0032.html to have been the most helpful in my own grasp of the Christian - and Orthodox - view regarding why there is suffering. I can briefly answer on the question about people who are never exposed to the Gospel. A simple, short answer for "dummies" would be that God judges them based on the law written in their heart. But here, the more you know, the more responsibility you bear. A lot of noble aborigines probably have a straight ticket to heaven, for all I know, whereas an educated Orthodox Christian like me had really better watch it - I know so much more, yet still I sin - still I give in to my passions, to "the dark side" if you will, I curse under stress and pressure, I raise my voice at my wife and yell at my kids, I sometimes have one drink too much at a party, I cut other people off in traffic, thinking about how important my own business is. I have far less excuse than the aborigine because I understand much more clearly the nature of those actions.
On your last question, I can cheerfully answer that the answer can be found in the icon of the Resurrection - this one is my personal favorite, and a source of great joy, when you understand what you are looking at.
You're looking at the people of the Old Testament. Christ has broken the doors of Hades and has trampled down death by His own death (you can see the broken chains, nails, etc representing this; you can also see it on depictions of a cross with a skull underneath - the skull represents the trampling of death by Christ's death. He's pulling Adam and Eve from the grave, and you can see the patriarchs and righteous men of the OT on both sides - the ones with halos are the holy forefathers of Christ, and the ones on the right represent everyone else who has not made themselves unable to accept salvation from the very grave. (Edit add:) This icon would represent Christ's descent into death after the Cross and before the Resurrection, which we basically celebrate on Saturday night and into the Paschal (Easter for English speakers who don't know Pascha, but we say Pascha, not Easter, in Orthodoxy) celebrations. It is the ultimate cancellation of death and endings, it IS the celebration of the happy ending yet to come (I particularly like the ending of Disney's "Beauty and the Beast" as a symbolic illustration)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=kH2LJVbV72Y
Hope that helps!
"Eh? Two views? There are a dozen views about everything until you know the answer. Then there's never more than one." Bill Hingest ("That Hideous Strength" by C.S. Lewis)
"These are the days when the Christian is expected to praise every creed except his own." G.K. Chesterton