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Linna Heartlistener wrote: Also, while I was looking all "gracious and intelligent" on this forum, I had lost track of time and failed to cook dinner for my family. :evil: My husband bailed me out & cooked supper while I CONTINUED to "tune out" my family and write posts (LOL!) even though we'd had a stupid argument just hours earlier. Grace upon grace, I tell ya!
I've REALLY REALLY wanted to share this with you:

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This one's pretty good, too:

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The man (Steve Robinson) is an Orthodox in his late 50's - I find his blog so warm and inspiring and nailing truth after truth about our souls - he's nothing like me.

I try to point to the people I think really worth reading, but most here don't bite. They all want to read ME for some reason...
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rusmeister wrote:The modern mentality that holds that truths are "personal" and that they need only be "what you need" and "what works for you" has great difficulty in understanding the idea that a truth can be something that is NOT one's own - that is actually true for everybody...
I have no problem with this. It may well be that one of our worldviews is actually true, and the other not. And I say mine is. I say we all have different combinations of fears, desires, needs, strengths, understandings..., and one worldview will let each of us go through this life more happily and with less difficulty than another. It is fortunate when anyone finds the worldview that does this for them. Many people do not seem so fortunate.

You say your worldview is actually true. If you want me to believe you, and it, go ahead and try to convince me. Present your evidence.
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rusmeister wrote:The modern mentality that holds that truths are "personal" and that they need only be "what you need" and "what works for you" has great difficulty in understanding the idea that a truth can be something that is NOT one's own - that is actually true for everybody...
I have no problem with this. It may well be that one of our worldviews is actually true, and the other not. And I say mine is. I say we all have different combinations of fears, desires, needs, strengths, understandings..., and one worldview will let each of us go through this life more happily and with less difficulty than another. It is fortunate when anyone finds the worldview that does this for them. Many people do not seem so fortunate.

You say your worldview is actually true. If you want me to believe you, and it, go ahead and try to convince me. Present your evidence.
I suppose I'd have to die as a Christian martyr to prove it.

That's my best evidence - the Christian martyrs. Both in ancient Rome and Russia in the 20th century. They are the single hardest fact to refute. They differed considerably from what most people call - or rather miscall - "martyrs", a Greek word which means "witness", which is what the Christian martyrs were doing. They neither sought death nor did they seek to kill others, but they accepted death and refused to renounce their faith. That knocks out most claimants to the word from the starting gate. If they tried to get themselves killed they weren't on the level of the Christian martyrs. If they killed anyone else they DEFINITELY weren't on that level.

The fact of the martyrs makes stuff and nonsense out of so many of the objections to and claims against the Christian faith. ("They were seeking power and mind control over people!" and so on.) I encourage you to study the history of Christian martyrdom with a focus on those specific periods. (The martyrdoms of the Middle Ages and post-Reformation have nothing to do with Orthodoxy and were conducted to a great extent by other so-called Christians). They were above all else what converted ancient Rome, not merely dull and ignorant masses, but large numbers of highly educated people. It is in the face of the New Martyrs that the revival in Russia is so strong today. I think our general ignorance of Christian martyrdom is what allows so much nonsense to be said, including the New Martyrs of Russia (one could point to the Chinese Martyrs of the Boxer Rebellion as well, but the documentation in Russia is so much more thorough and comes not from anecdotal evidence, but from KGB archives). The amount of information only on what has been completely confirmed is staggering. To study the Russian ones, it helps to know Russian. you'd have to look for translated stuff. When I come across some, I'll make a note to toss it your way.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Martyr

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grand_Duchess_Elizabeth_Fyodorovna (an outstanding example)

(Edit) Here's a good site:
www.orthodox.net/russiannm/index.html
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I'm not sure what you're getting at. I already know that people did and do believe what you believe strongly enough to die for it. And I already know that there were and are many Christians, even many in positions of high authority in many denominations, who are not seeking power, mind control, and so on. None of this is evidence that God or an afterlife exist. It's just evidence that some people believe they do. Which I already knew.
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Fist and Faith wrote:I'm not sure what you're getting at. I already know that people did and do believe what you believe strongly enough to die for it. And I already know that there were and are many Christians, even many in positions of high authority in many denominations, who are not seeking power, mind control, and so on. None of this is evidence that God or an afterlife exist. It's just evidence that some people believe they do. Which I already knew.
I'd look at it in terms of the peculiar attitude towards Christianity, held toward no other religion - the accusations, which, when put together, contradict each other - One minute it is accused of being too pacifist, the next of being too militant, one minute of being too resplendent, the next of being too ascetic, of being accused of intolerance, yet, when a Crucifixion is suspended in urine, drawing no more than peaceful protest.

I think Chesterton put these things better than I do in "Orthodoxy" - his own personal journey (something individualists ought to think of interest). From ch 6:
I take a third case; the strangest of all, because it involves the one real objection to the faith. The one real objection to the Christian religion is simply that it is one religion. The world is a big place, full of very different kinds of people. Christianity (it may reasonably be said) is one thing confined to one kind of people; it began in Palestine, it has practically stopped with Europe. I was duly impressed with this argument in my youth, and I was much drawn towards the doctrine often preached in Ethical Societies -- I mean the doctrine that there is one great unconscious church of all humanity rounded on the omnipresence of the human conscience. Creeds, it was said, divided men; but at least morals united them. The soul might seek the strangest and most remote lands and ages and still find essential ethical common sense. It might find Confucius under Eastern trees, and he would be writing "Thou shalt not steal." It might decipher the darkest hieroglyphic on the most primeval desert, and the meaning when deciphered would be "Little boys should tell the truth." I believed this doctrine of the brotherhood of all men in the possession of a moral sense, and I believe it still -- with other things. And I was thoroughly annoyed with Christianity for suggesting (as I supposed) that whole ages and empires of men had utterly escaped this light of justice and reason. But then I found an astonishing thing. I found that the very people who said that mankind was one church from Plato to Emerson were the very people who said that morality had changed altogether, and that what was right in one age was wrong in another. If I asked, say, for an altar, I was told that we needed none, for men our brothers gave us clear oracles and one creed in their universal customs and ideals. But if I mildly pointed out that one of men's universal customs was to have an altar, then my agnostic teachers turned clean round and told me that men had always been in darkness and the superstitions of savages. I found it was their daily taunt against Christianity that it was the light of one people and had left all others to die in the dark. But I also found that it was their special boast for themselves that science and progress were the discovery of one people, and that all other peoples had died in the dark. Their chief insult to Christianity was actually their chief compliment to themselves, and there seemed to be a strange unfairness about all their relative insistence on the two things. When considering some pagan or agnostic, we were to remember that all men had one religion; when considering some mystic or spiritualist, we were only to consider what absurd religions some men had. We could trust the ethics of Epictetus, because ethics had never changed. We must not trust the ethics of Bossuet, because ethics had changed. They changed in two hundred years, but not in two thousand.

This began to be alarming. It looked not so much as if Christianity was bad enough to include any vices, but rather as if any stick was good enough to beat Christianity with. What again could this astonishing thing be like which people were so anxious to contradict, that in doing so they did not mind contradicting themselves? I saw the same thing on every side. I can give no further space to this discussion of it in detail; but lest any one supposes that I have unfairly selected three accidental cases I will run briefly through a few others. Thus, certain sceptics wrote that the great crime of Christianity had been its attack on the family; it had dragged women to the loneliness and contemplation of the cloister, away from their homes and their children. But, then, other sceptics (slightly more advanced) said that the great crime of Christianity was forcing the family and marriage upon us; that it doomed women to the drudgery of their homes and children, and forbade them loneliness and contemplation. The charge was actually reversed. Or, again, certain phrases in the Epistles or the marriage service, were said by the anti-Christians to show contempt for woman's intellect. But I found that the anti-Christians themselves had a contempt for woman's intellect; for it was their great sneer at the Church on the Continent that "only women" went to it. Or again, Christianity was reproached with its naked and hungry habits; with its sackcloth and dried peas. But the next minute Christianity was being reproached with its pomp and its ritualism; its shrines of porphyry and its robes of gold. It was abused for being too plain and for being too coloured. Again Christianity had always been accused of restraining sexuality too much, when Bradlaugh the Malthusian discovered that it restrained it too little. It is often accused in the same breath of prim respectability and of religious extravagance. Between the covers of the same atheistic pamphlet I have found the faith rebuked for its disunion, "One thinks one thing, and one another," and rebuked also for its union, "It is difference of opinion that prevents the world from going to the dogs." In the same conversation a free-thinker, a friend of mine, blamed Christianity for despising Jews, and then despised it himself for being Jewish.

I wished to be quite fair then, and I wish to be quite fair now; and I did not conclude that the attack on Christianity was all wrong. I only concluded that if Christianity was wrong, it was very wrong indeed. Such hostile horrors might be combined in one thing, but that thing must be very strange and solitary. There are men who are misers, and also spendthrifts; but they are rare. There are men sensual and also ascetic; but they are rare. But if this mass of mad contradictions really existed, quakerish and bloodthirsty, too gorgeous and too thread-bare, austere, yet pandering preposterously to the lust of the eye, the enemy of women and their foolish refuge, a solemn pessimist and a silly optimist, if this evil existed, then there was in this evil something quite supreme and unique. For I found in my rationalist teachers no explanation of such exceptional corruption. Christianity (theoretically speaking) was in their eyes only one of the ordinary myths and errors of mortals. They gave me no key to this twisted and unnatural badness. Such a paradox of evil rose to the stature of the supernatural. It was, indeed, almost as supernatural as the infallibility of the Pope. An historic institution, which never went right, is really quite as much of a miracle as an institution that cannot go wrong. The only explanation which immediately occurred to my mind was that Christianity did not come from heaven, but from hell. Really, if Jesus of Nazareth was not Christ, He must have been Antichrist.

And then in a quiet hour a strange thought struck me like a still thunderbolt. There had suddenly come into my mind another explanation. Suppose we heard an unknown man spoken of by many men. Suppose we were puzzled to hear that some men said he was too tall and some too short; some objected to his fatness, some lamented his leanness; some thought him too dark, and some too fair. One explanation (as has been already admitted) would be that he might be an odd shape. But there is another explanation. He might be the right shape. Outrageously tall men might feel him to be short. Very short men might feel him to be tall. Old bucks who are growing stout might consider him insufficiently filled out; old beaux who were growing thin might feel that he expanded beyond the narrow lines of elegance. Perhaps Swedes (who have pale hair like tow) called him a dark man, while negroes considered him distinctly blonde. Perhaps (in short) this extraordinary thing is really the ordinary thing; at least the normal thing, the centre. Perhaps, after all, it is Christianity that is sane and all its critics that are mad -- in various ways. I tested this idea by asking myself whether there was about any of the accusers anything morbid that might explain the accusation. I was startled to find that this key fitted a lock. For instance, it was certainly odd that the modern world charged Christianity at once with bodily austerity and with artistic pomp. But then it was also odd, very odd, that the modern world itself combined extreme bodily luxury with an extreme absence of artistic pomp. The modern man thought Becket's robes too rich and his meals too poor. But then the modern man was really exceptional in history; no man before ever ate such elaborate dinners in such ugly clothes. The modern man found the church too simple exactly where modern life is too complex; he found the church too gorgeous exactly where modern life is too dingy. The man who disliked the plain fasts and feasts was mad on entrées. The man who disliked vestments wore a pair of preposterous trousers. And surely if there was any insanity involved in the matter at all it was in the trousers, not in the simply falling robe. If there was any insanity at all, it was in the extravagant entrées, not in the bread and wine.

I went over all the cases, and I found the key fitted so far. The fact that Swinburne was irritated at the unhappiness of Christians and yet more irritated at their happiness was easily explained. It was no longer a complication of diseases in Christianity, but a complication of diseases in Swinburne. The restraints of Christians saddened him simply because he was more hedonist than a healthy man should be. The faith of Christians angered him because he was more pessimist than a healthy man should be. In the same way the Malthusians by instinct attacked Christianity; not because there is anything especially anti-Malthusian about Christianity, but because there is something a little anti-human about Malthusianism.
There's more, of course, and the argument is bigger, but that one point - that of contradictory claims is a striking one.

Evidence is evidence. Proof depends on whether a person accepts the evidence or not. There is NO WAY I can EVER "prove" God to you. You have to take the evidence I offer and consider whether it does indeed point to something that cannot be seen directly - like a black hole - something inferred by the behavior and attitudes described - by the attitude of the martyrs (and of course, people die for what they believe in - my point about the martyrs is that they crush a number of claims about the Christian faith that become absurd as soon as one takes the martyrs into account), and by the attitudes of people who will take any position at all, as long as it is against faith, and God - for that means giving up the throne, ceasing to claim that one is 'the master of one's fate', and acknowledging that God is God, something that a young former atheist named Clive did in 1929, describing himself as the most dejected convert in all of England.

In my faith there is hope, redemption, and forgiveness. Real hope that stretches into eternity. The sucky things I did, the wicked, selfish and harmful things, really can be forgiven and transformed, so that all manner of things will be well.

Thinking of Kung Fu Panda (which I have been forced to watch due to my younger son's mania with it) - Master Shifu was asked to believe, and he said "All right, I'll try" - and it was the first baby step for him that proved to be good enough - that enabled a chain of ultimate victory. In the Gospels, it was the man with the possessed boy crying in tears, "I believe, Lord, help my unbelief!!" Or Natalie Wood in "Miracle on 34th St" saying "I believe, I believe, it's silly but I believe..." God is not proud. He'll take us even in our most fumbling, inept baby steps, if we will only take the first step.
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rusmeister wrote: I would ask what can be said; how can I approach the topic without communicating judgement of individuals? I certainly see a gulf of difference.
I would say "the way you did that entire post." I would say that when you speak as passionately of your struggles - past and present - that gives HOPE. And hope is a precious resource.

Of course I agree that people sometimes need the hard, "tough love" words. But different people need different things at different times: "admonish the idle, ENCOURAGE the fainthearted, HELP the weak, be PATIENT with them ALL." (from 1 Thessalonians 5)

I feel like you revealed more of your soul - anger, regret, passion, self-doubt - in that post then a hundred posts about theology and favorite authors that hae't read yet. And that makes ME feel honored. Thank you.

I totally used your comment about how Christians are still "sinners," to spark a useful discussion in a Sunday School class today. If Christians really believe it, I think we'll let people see a little more of our weakness, not just the strengths of the "strong and wise" Christians we know or read. Transparency, when appropriate.
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Again, rus, that's not evidence - it's not even suggestion - that God or an afterlife exists. He simply pointed out that the people who have a particular complaint about Christianity flip-flop when pressed about that complaint. All well and good. There are hypocrites everywhere. That some are working against Christianity does not validate Christianity any more than they invalidate it.

And, frankly, I don't believe Chesterton about this. I don't believe "the very people" said the one thing, then said the opposite when something else was pointed out. I'm sure you can find a journal that criticizes Christianity in one way, and another journal that criticizes it in another. I'm sure you can find the same opposing criticisms even within different - or even the same - issues of the same journal. If you find opposing articles written by the same person, I'll be a bit surprised. I won't pass out from shock, because there are hypocrites and ignorant and stupid people who want nothing but to put down Christianity, and don't even notice that they contradict themselves. But it's surely not the norm that Chesterton wants us to think it is.

But, really, this isn't the important issue. You'll probably concentrate on telling me how I misunderstand what he said, and I'll disagree, and it'll go back and forth, and my opinion of Chesterton will only have gotten worse, and you'll still not have brought up any sort of evidence for the existence of God or an afterlife.
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OK Fist.
Evidence is evidence. Proof depends on whether a person accepts the evidence or not. There is NO WAY I can EVER "prove" God to you. You have to take the evidence I offer and consider whether it does indeed point to something that cannot be seen directly - like a black hole - something inferred by the behavior and attitudes described
I realize my first sentence was probably too tautological to communicate its point.
Definition of EVIDENCE
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a : an outward sign : indication b : something that furnishes proof : testimony; specifically : something legally submitted to a tribunal to ascertain the truth of a matter
Only it IS evidence. It IS exhibit A in court. You may judge against it, call it circumstantial, or whatever, but it remains evidence for all that. I have said that faith cannot be empirically proven. I've made my case and there is no more to say on the rational side. If Chesterton is wrong, then WHERE is he wrong??? If we're in court, then you too need to go beyond assertion and offer your evidence that he is wrong (and therefore that I am wrong) - and on what.

You cannot escape the leap of faith and make it a mere step - you have to jump or refuse to jump. There is a point where rationality ends - where it can prove - or disprove no more. Reason is a great gift, one which I value the most - but it can't answer everything. We are not God. When you get to that point, you have to make a choice - even if it is a default choice against faith, it is still a choice.

Good luck! (Even though I don't believe in 'luck') :)
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It doesn't matter if Chesterton is right or wrong. It doesn't address my question. He can convince me that every problem anyone has with Christianity is bogus, and he won't have demonstrated that Christianity is true. Heck, that was done in Conversations With God. Interpretations of everything that I don't have any problems with. But that doesn't mean it's real. It just means somebody interprets the stuff we've been hearing for a couple millennia in a way that I find more logical and more in keeping with my own sense of morality.
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Remember why I started this thread? :lol: Well, here's Shaina's first Easter.

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She's adorable, Fist. :)
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Oh stop!!



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Gorgeous, Fist.
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Fist and Faith wrote:Oh stop!!



(more more more lol)
:lol: Reminds me of the comedian -- can't remember who it was, maybe Johnny Carson -- who, at the sound of the audience cheering, would hold one hand up at shoulder level ("that's enough, please, thanks!") and the other at about belt level going, "c'mon, more!" :lol:
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I saw Steve do it on Blue's Clues. :LOLS:
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That is wonderful, Fist.
I'd like to imbue that adjective with more of its original meaning, and I mean both the cross and its wearer.

To some the cross is just jewelery, to others an important symbol with genuine spiritual significance. At the very least, if a person grasps and bears in mind WHAT they are wearing, they might be a little more prone to not give in to temptations. (With a young girl that's problematic, but I believe that even for them, it is a good thing. WE put crosses on babies as soon as they are baptized (and unlike Catholics, babies are also given communion, which is not something that requires a certain level of intellectual development to accept. (Even my protestant mother is scandalized by the idea of communing infants and small children.) So we don't have 'confirmations' or 'bar-mitzvahs'
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rusmeister wrote:WE put crosses on babies as soon as they are baptized (and unlike Catholics, babies are also given communion, which is not something that requires a certain level of intellectual development to accept. (Even my protestant mother is scandalized by the idea of communing infants and small children.) So we don't have 'confirmations' or 'bar-mitzvahs'
...sorry Fist...
Uhm...

While Judaism does celebrate a child turning of age by calling them to say the blessings over the reading of the Torah for the first time, they become bar or bas mitzvah upon coming of age, regardless of if they ever have an aliyah or not.
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Menolly wrote:
rusmeister wrote:WE put crosses on babies as soon as they are baptized (and unlike Catholics, babies are also given communion, which is not something that requires a certain level of intellectual development to accept. (Even my protestant mother is scandalized by the idea of communing infants and small children.) So we don't have 'confirmations' or 'bar-mitzvahs'
...sorry Fist...
Uhm...

While Judaism does celebrate a child turning of age by calling them to say the blessings over the reading of the Torah for the first time, they become bar or bas mitzvah upon coming of age, regardless of if they ever have an aliyah or not.
Thanks, Menolly. I wasn't trying to draw an exact analogy, and apologize if that's how it appeared. I was only speaking to the idea of "coming-of-age" ceremonies or dividing lines.
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I will simply mention that my Orthodox Faith is the result of personal experience and perception. It is not a scientific fact, any more than my love of my late fiancee. But (and mind you I'm theologically very liberal) "correct belief" has very little to do with your personal relationship with God. Neither does belief in God. What matters is how much like God you strive to be--specifically in attempting to match His love of the whole world.

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"O let my name be in the Book of Love!
It be there, I care not of the other great book Above.
Strike it out! Or, write it in anew. But
Let my name be in the Book of Love!" --Omar Khayam
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