Linna, there is far less distance between what we are each saying than you may think.
...learning the scriptures and praying (for example) are necessary in the life of anyone who would worship the God who made the world.
I agree that study of illuminated thought on sacred matters and ego-free contemplation of ones own place in that realm is essential to serenity and direction.
Where I think we differ is on specific texts ("the scriptures"), on forms of contemplation/worship ("prayer"), and whether the focus of this is necessarily an single omnipotent personal deity to whom worship is of value...or something less well-defined. My impression from the quote above is that you do not consider inspiration sources or modes of worship other than those you follow to be as valid.
Your way is not mine. I am closer to your tradition than the paragraph above might be interpreted to mean...but we still differ considerably.
I am not questioning what you believe. It certainly works for you. With personal variations, it works for millions of people, including Dr. Hawley. All I am saying is that several hundred million others hew to diverse other paths and I am not inclined to say their way is any less right for them.
I wouldn't dream of denying anyone their path...right up to the point where someone wants to tell me that mine is not valid for me and that if I do not do it their way, I am not doing what is necessary to infuse and align myself with what is holy.

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